How do i go about introducing myself? (6)

hi all, i hope to get answers here from both mens and womens side of this dilemma(i guess that's best way to put it). i saw a woman's profile on here that i really liked, so i sent a message and just sat back and hoped that she would reply. it's been 5 weeks since i sent the message and she hasn't even logged in, now here's the dilemma for me.

she uses her first initial and last name for her user handle here which i think a few people do. so i went to yahoo.com and did a search on her last name and the town she listed and i have her phone # and address. i understand COMPLETELY that this could be interpreted as stalker type behavior, but i'm just a nice guy who found a profile that i really liked. i waited over a month and she never logs in to this site. now the question is:
how do i contact this woman since she never logs in here. if i call it could be taken the wrong way. all i want to do is let this girl know i'm interested, but like i said she hasn't logged in here in over 5 weeks and i would like to get to know her. thanks again for the help all.

Wow.... Didn't think it would be that easy to get a number. I recommend doing a "no call" and leave it at that. Sometimes you just can't cross that line which your thinking about crossing. I also recommend talking to nomindgames ... she'll tell you to write your question in the international forum since we have a lack of writers in the Ohio forums. Go Bucks

If there are any lady stalkers out there .... send me a note and I'll give you my addy. Please arrive with little amount of clothing. haha

I would be completely creeped out.

No matter how sincere your intentions, I wouldn't see that as cute.

If she were still looking for a man she'd probably still log in here.

When men on here ask for my phone number after talking to them for 20 minutes it creeps me out. If one hunted down my phone number I just may call the police.

no, i'm not contacting her other than an email through connecting singles and i have no intentions of contacting her in any other way. so no i'm not stalking anyone and yes i know how it looks. just fyi.