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Sep 10, 2008 4:06 AM CST Things that are meant to be, will be, things that are not won't be
Daniel4021
Daniel4021Daniel4021Somewhere, Tennessee USA157 Threads 8,986 Posts
Does anyone think this is true? I think it's because of chioces we make.. what we may or may not allow.. When you hear someone say or even we say ourselves, it wasn't meant to be, it like we are saying there is some higher power that makes these decisions as to what will be, and what won't.. I don't mean just relationships, it could be anything.. What do all of you think?dunno
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Sep 10, 2008 4:17 AM CST Things that are meant to be, will be, things that are not won't be
Yeah I do think some things are meant to be. I know this is bad and generically cliche, but I think all things happen for a reason.
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Sep 10, 2008 4:22 AM CST Things that are meant to be, will be, things that are not won't be
Daniel4021
Daniel4021Daniel4021Somewhere, Tennessee USA157 Threads 8,986 Posts
somechick: Yeah I do think some things are meant to be. I know this is bad and generically cliche, but I think all things happen for a reason.


I'm not so sure anymore.. if some things are meant to be, I also believe we have a lot to do with not allowing it to happen, I mean we all have free will.. jmo
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Sep 10, 2008 4:26 AM CST Things that are meant to be, will be, things that are not won't be
What I mean by saying that is that if it is meant to be things will fall into place. Sure you have to put forth the effort, but if you are always dealing with drama or having problems...You have probably seen your signs telling you things are not meant to be but are just ignoring them.

JMO
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Sep 10, 2008 4:30 AM CST Things that are meant to be, will be, things that are not won't be
lola36
lola36lola36dublin, Dublin Ireland120 Threads 4,687 Posts
I'm not so sure anymore.. if some things are meant to be, I also believe we have a lot to do with not allowing it to happen, I mean we all have free will.. jmo[/quote

Some things are meant to be,that is true,i believe it,and there is nothing i can do to change it,in my opinion of course,and ,in my life..


rose
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Sep 10, 2008 4:36 AM CST Things that are meant to be, will be, things that are not won't be
Daniel4021
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somechick: What I mean by saying that is that if it is meant to be things will fall into place. Sure you have to put forth the effort, but if you are always dealing with drama or having problems...You have probably seen your signs telling you things are not meant to be but are just ignoring them.

JMO


I agree to an extent, but if there is drama, then that would be a concious decision made by the other person to now allow something..
So then was it not ment to be, by things happining for a reason, or by chioce? Or was there some unseen force preventing it..?dunno
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Sep 10, 2008 4:40 AM CST Things that are meant to be, will be, things that are not won't be
Daniel4021
Daniel4021Daniel4021Somewhere, Tennessee USA157 Threads 8,986 Posts
lola36:
Some things are meant to be,that is true,i believe it,and there is nothing i can do to change it,in my opinion of course,and ,in my life..



So we are predestined?dunno
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Sep 10, 2008 4:46 AM CST Things that are meant to be, will be, things that are not won't be
Daniel4021: I agree to an extent, but if there is drama, then that would be a concious decision made by the other person to now allow something..
So then was it not ment to be, by things happining for a reason, or by chioce? Or was there some unseen force preventing it..?



True. I also think it would have to be by choice for certain things not to happen or decisions were made by either persons involved.


Example: If one person approaches another and admits their feelings for that person and the other person rejects those advances then I'd say it's by choice.
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Sep 10, 2008 4:49 AM CST Things that are meant to be, will be, things that are not won't be
lola36
lola36lola36dublin, Dublin Ireland120 Threads 4,687 Posts
Daniel4021: So we are predestined?



There is not answers for every questions Daniel.....hug kiss
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Sep 10, 2008 4:52 AM CST Things that are meant to be, will be, things that are not won't be
rwantin
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It's a personal mantra that (sometimes) keeps me (relatively) sane. tip hat
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Sep 10, 2008 4:55 AM CST Things that are meant to be, will be, things that are not won't be
Daniel4021
Daniel4021Daniel4021Somewhere, Tennessee USA157 Threads 8,986 Posts
somechick: True. I also think it would have to be by choice for certain things not to happen or decisions were made by either persons involved.Example: If one person approaches another and admits their feelings for that person and the other person rejects those advances then I'd say it's by choice.


So then it could be the other person not allowing something that was meant to be to happen.. and if so, could that be because said person has blinded themself to that?dunno
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Sep 10, 2008 4:56 AM CST Things that are meant to be, will be, things that are not won't be
Daniel4021
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lola36: There is not answers for every questions Daniel.....


Darn Margo, and here I was thinking you would know..doh laugh

Seriously though, there really things that don't have answers..
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Sep 10, 2008 4:59 AM CST Things that are meant to be, will be, things that are not won't be
Daniel4021: So then it could be the other person not allowing something that was meant to be to happen.. and if so, could that be because said person has blinded themself to that?



Probably so. Sometimes they can be so pigheaded/stubborn not to see something that's right before their eyes by reaching out and grabbing it.
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Sep 10, 2008 5:00 AM CST Things that are meant to be, will be, things that are not won't be
Sommerauer71
Sommerauer71Sommerauer71Salzburg, Austria133 Threads 4 Polls 12,414 Posts
If it is meant to be, it will not go by you.
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Sep 10, 2008 5:03 AM CST Things that are meant to be, will be, things that are not won't be
pyaremohan
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I think its about personal choices and efforts,chances.

Hi Didi hug
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Sep 10, 2008 5:05 AM CST Things that are meant to be, will be, things that are not won't be
lola36
lola36lola36dublin, Dublin Ireland120 Threads 4,687 Posts
Daniel4021: Darn Margo, and here I was thinking you would know..

Seriously though, there really things that don't have answers..



I am sorry....moping
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Sep 10, 2008 5:15 AM CST Things that are meant to be, will be, things that are not won't be
Daniel4021
Daniel4021Daniel4021Somewhere, Tennessee USA157 Threads 8,986 Posts
Sommerauer71: If it is meant to be, it will not go by you.


Well, there have been times that I have been in situations that I saw things, but was to afraid to do anything about it, so in my case I let it go by.. I saw something Shell posted yesterday that really made me think.. I didn't respond to it, but I should have, seem she was thinking alone lines.. have we all really benn beat up so badly emotionaly, that we just can't live again/ and to those that try to, they just seem to get knocked back down again..
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Sep 10, 2008 5:23 AM CST Things that are meant to be, will be, things that are not won't be
lola36
lola36lola36dublin, Dublin Ireland120 Threads 4,687 Posts
Daniel4021: Well, there have been times that I have been in situations that I saw things, but was to afraid to do anything about it, so in my case I let it go by.. I saw something Shell posted yesterday that really made me think.. I didn't respond to it, but I should have, seem she was thinking alone lines.. have we all really benn beat up so badly emotionaly, that we just can't live again/ and to those that try to, they just seem to get knocked back down again..



No matter what,we always have a chance to get our life back again...no matter what Daniel....i know that and i mean it
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Sep 10, 2008 5:27 AM CST Things that are meant to be, will be, things that are not won't be
pyaremohan
pyaremohanpyaremohandelhi, Delhi India19 Threads 1,084 Posts
lola36: No matter what,we always have a chance to get our life back again...no matter what Daniel....i know that and i mean it



thumbs up thats right.....its about wanting it........if u think u can u can
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Sep 10, 2008 5:30 AM CST Things that are meant to be, will be, things that are not won't be
pyaremohan: thats right.....its about wanting it........if u think u can u can



But what happens if you do want something so bad that it never comes to you?

Do you keep trying or do you just give up?
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