What's Happening ( Archived) (5)

In the 20-30 age groups,it is the relentless rating of themselves - versus both male peers and ,in particular female peers who seem to have developed an independence which many males find diff to cope with. Its not that they are critical of the latter . It is rather their own self rating that is the problem. Another major issue seems to be material . How can I pay for the lifestyle that I feel is expected by male and female peers? Its as if their rating of themselves has become intimately intermingled with financial and material success. Deep down hey real success . Deep down they know that this is really self esteem issue but struggle to express this. They have lost the ability to love and apppreciate themselves ,for who.they are not what they are worth. Have we as a society a responsibility ,in relation to this we do not promote the concept .of disposability.in relation to people as much material possessions? How do we reach them?