Do WOMEN Like a MAN Who's a Challenge ? (53)
jvaski: I have always wondered. Why do you often see a gorgous woman with a rough looking guy with a bad attitude ?
What is it ? Is it the challenge that draws the Beauty to that Beast ?
What is it ? Is it the challenge that draws the Beauty to that Beast ?
An interesting question..
I used to only like guys with good attitudes. Then I met someone who could be generally considered a "bad" guy, but he was very (very) nice to me. Then he stopped being very nice to me, and it got really ugly - so now I am back to only liking "good" guys, cos there must certainly be a reason why a guy has "bad" attitudes, and I don't wanna find out what they are, or worse yet fall prey to them.
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I don't know if I"m the only one, but guys pursuing me becomes very mundane. Sure, I like the compliments, but it's not enough to cause me to be attracted and I can lose interest easily.
I take much pleasure in making the first move or pursuing a man that might take a little work...
Sure, people might think it's desperate or maybe I'm not getting anything as to why I would rather make the first move and be forced to "work for something", but it's just that I find all the guys hitting on me and putting me on a pedestal to be unexciting.
I take much pleasure in making the first move or pursuing a man that might take a little work...
Sure, people might think it's desperate or maybe I'm not getting anything as to why I would rather make the first move and be forced to "work for something", but it's just that I find all the guys hitting on me and putting me on a pedestal to be unexciting.
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xoredheadxo: "Bad Boys" are a hell of a lot nicer than most think and their "loyalty" extends much further. There is nothing wrong with them, therefore they do not need to be changed..
Totally agree
And those "bad bikers" are some of the BEST people in the world!!!!!!
Right-0n!!!...
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somechick: I take much pleasure in making the first move or pursuing a man that might take a little work...
Yippee, now I know who to ask for advice when I need it!!
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AudrysSis: Yippee, now I know who to ask for advice when I need it!!
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alabamabebe: Not once a woman grows up enough to realize the only male that can be changed is one in diapers.
I see a guy acting like an overgrown, immature jerk and think, thank you God, I'm not with him!
I see a guy acting like an overgrown, immature jerk and think, thank you God, I'm not with him!
Dang...guess I am off her list....
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For some unknown reason, I get drawn to the "bad boys".... or they get drawn to me. Irregardless, I think it's the challenge of, as someone said, turning them into drivelling mutts. But that's not really how I'd put it. We like to see if we can get the "unattainable" guy (which is usually the one who all the girls seem to want) to just be after us. It's all about the challenge. But then, the ball bounces both ways there. Men don't seem to want a "needy" woman either. As a friend once told me, men are natural-born hunters. They like to stalk their prey. If they know they've captured it, they tend to move on to the next one.
Why do we (some of us) play these games over & over? I'm not really sure of the answer to this question. When I finally figure it out, I'll let y'all know my conclusion...
Why do we (some of us) play these games over & over? I'm not really sure of the answer to this question. When I finally figure it out, I'll let y'all know my conclusion...
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sweetowen: For some unknown reason, I get drawn to the "bad boys".... or they get drawn to me. Irregardless, I think it's the challenge of, as someone said, turning them into drivelling mutts. But that's not really how I'd put it. We like to see if we can get the "unattainable" guy (which is usually the one who all the girls seem to want) to just be after us. It's all about the challenge. But then, the ball bounces both ways there. Men don't seem to want a "needy" woman either. As a friend once told me, men are natural-born hunters. They like to stalk their prey. If they know they've captured it, they tend to move on to the next one.
Why do we (some of us) play these games over & over? I'm not really sure of the answer to this question. When I finally figure it out, I'll let y'all know my conclusion...
Why do we (some of us) play these games over & over? I'm not really sure of the answer to this question. When I finally figure it out, I'll let y'all know my conclusion...
That's what it is Sweetowen...games.
Just find someone who treats you nice, respects you, loves you, has common interests and that is all that matters. Who cares if they are bad boys, good boys, etc?. I would rather be a man.
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mbcasey: That's what it is Sweetowen...games.
Just find someone who treats you nice, respects you, loves you, has common interests and that is all that matters. Who cares if they are bad boys, good boys, etc?. I would rather be a man.
Just find someone who treats you nice, respects you, loves you, has common interests and that is all that matters. Who cares if they are bad boys, good boys, etc?. I would rather be a man.
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mbcasey: That's what it is Sweetowen...games.
Just find someone who treats you nice, respects you, loves you, has common interests and that is all that matters. Who cares if they are bad boys, good boys, etc?. I would rather be a man.
Just find someone who treats you nice, respects you, loves you, has common interests and that is all that matters. Who cares if they are bad boys, good boys, etc?. I would rather be a man.
That's just it. Are we really attracted to the ones who do all that for us? Unfortunately for me, usually not. I've had a few of those & have ended up saying, "The feeling just isn't there!". It stinks, but then I guess that's why I choose to be single for now. I'd rather be alone & find my inner happiness than to end up with "the wrong guy"... again!
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sweetowen: That's just it. Are we really attracted to the ones who do all that for us? Unfortunately for me, usually not. I've had a few of those & have ended up saying, "The feeling just isn't there!". It stinks, but then I guess that's why I choose to be single for now. I'd rather be alone & find my inner happiness than to end up with "the wrong guy"... again!
But there are alot of men who fit what you are seeking...you won't feel that spark with alot of them, but you have to keep looking and it will happen.
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I wouldnt be with one of them 
the dirty attitude fellow i mean.
Not looking for any challenge really , life is enough for that.
Someone interesting and simple would fit perfectly well.
the dirty attitude fellow i mean.Not looking for any challenge really , life is enough for that.
Someone interesting and simple would fit perfectly well.
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I see a guy acting like an overgrown, immature jerk and think, thank you God, I'm not with him!
nice one!!
funny that though - my mother always used tell me that years ago!!