I seem to have feelings for two women and cant decide whom to choose. Its an on and off feeling for one then for the other. i need to decide asap bcos its not fair for both of them. Can anyone help ..
ClaayerWild Wild South West, Cornwall, England UK15,888 posts
GreenEyes1963: Hi,
I seem to have feelings for two women and cant decide whom to choose. Its an on and off feeling for one then for the other. i need to decide asap bcos its not fair for both of them. Can anyone help ..
Hmm you could make a list of pros and cons for each of them...
Claayer: Hmm you could make a list of pros and cons for each of them...
the likes and dislikes you have regarding them...
and see which one suits you the best.
Thanks for your response claayer.
after a 20 year marriage breakdown, i have been thru a traumatic time and it took me 18 minths to recover. this has undoubtedly had an effect on the way i feel, the way i look at things and what iwant in life.
One of the girls i see lives in my country whilst the other lives abroad.
I have met them both. There is a complete difference in the two in many ways.
ClaayerWild Wild South West, Cornwall, England UK15,888 posts
GreenEyes1963: Thanks for your response claayer.
after a 20 year marriage breakdown, i have been thru a traumatic time and it took me 18 minths to recover. this has undoubtedly had an effect on the way i feel, the way i look at things and what iwant in life.
One of the girls i see lives in my country whilst the other lives abroad.
I have met them both. There is a complete difference in the two in many ways.
Honestly.. cup of coffee.. paper and pen..
right down all the pros and cons.. and try to see that list for now in black and white.
Distance.. personality.. their likes dislikes... your likes and dislikes about them.
Good on you for wanting to get it sorted ASAP as to not mess them around.
Typical tho huh? ... like buses... wait ages.. then two show up ant once..
Honesty is (or at least should be) the first consideration in a relationship. Perhaps if you explain your dilemma to both of them, they'll be able to help you reach an equitable solution...
OH THAT DID NOT CROP TO MIND......I MAYTAKE THAT INTO CONSIDERATION TOO...........LET NATURE DECIDES FOR ME BUT I NEED TO GET THEM NEXT TO EACH OTHER LOL...
shipoker58: the one with the largest breasts!! That's a no-brainer!!
OH THAT DID NOT CROP TO MIND......I MAYTAKE THAT INTO CONSIDERATION TOO...........LET NATURE DECIDES FOR ME BUT I NEED TO GET THEM NEXT TO EACH OTHER LOL...
GreenEyes1963: OH THAT DID NOT CROP TO MIND......I MAYTAKE THAT INTO CONSIDERATION TOO...........LET NATURE DECIDES FOR ME BUT I NEED TO GET THEM NEXT TO EACH OTHER LOL...
This too, is easy. Be up front, invite them both to dinner. Sit across from them in a booth! Examine the "goods" Tell then why they are there. Problem solved. One will be "utterly" flattered, or they will both slap your face and leave! Then you can more on to your next conquest.
Hey, don't thank me, it's what I do! Always willing to help
kissmedeeplyPetitcodiac, New Brunswick Canada15,139 posts
GreenEyes1963: Hi,
I seem to have feelings for two women and cant decide whom to choose. Its an on and off feeling for one then for the other. i need to decide asap bcos its not fair for both of them. Can anyone help ..
You should never of put urself in this situation in the first place
cristinaLisbon, North Holland Netherlands17,243 posts
So, there is a complete difference in both of them and you don't know who to choose? Then you still don't know what you want for you. Imagine if they were very similar, wouldn't it be much difficult?
Anyway, i suggest you make a list of what each of them has/is that you really need. Take the winner.
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I seem to have feelings for two women and cant decide whom to choose. Its an on and off feeling for one then for the other. i need to decide asap bcos its not fair for both of them. Can anyone help ..