Can you fall in love with someone you have never met? (165)

Nov 16, 2008 6:57 PM CST Can you fall in love with someone you have never met?
sxc666
sxc666sxc666unknown, Queensland Australia51 Threads 16,853 Posts
zztopbanana: Which one - about let he (or they) without sin ?

A little equality here, because I was also wondering what the six detectives were for ?
Yes he or they without sin.

And the six detectives where me being suss on you.
Nov 16, 2008 7:06 PM CST Can you fall in love with someone you have never met?
zztopbanana
zztopbananazztopbananaNSW, OZ & Puke Bay, Porirua, Wellington New Zealand8 Threads 1,068 Posts
sxc666: Yes he or they without sin.

And the six detectives where me being suss on you.


OK - you will need to elaborate a little on that, if you don't mind, as I still don't understand what 'suss on you' means.

All I meant was, are any of us sufficiently high that we may villify or criticise others - ie, let he without sin cast the first stone. I am not a religious nutter, by the way (well, the nutter bit may be accurate.....).

It wasn't meant as a dig at anyone, just 'who are we to judge', and I include myself in the 'we'.

The correction to 'they' was a feeble attempt to be even-handed.
Nov 16, 2008 7:18 PM CST Can you fall in love with someone you have never met?
sxc666
sxc666sxc666unknown, Queensland Australia51 Threads 16,853 Posts
zztopbanana: OK - you will need to elaborate a little on that, if you don't mind, as I still don't understand what 'suss on you' means.

All I meant was, are any of us sufficiently high that we may villify or criticise others - ie, let he without sin cast the first stone. I am not a religious nutter, by the way (well, the nutter bit may be accurate.....).

It wasn't meant as a dig at anyone, just 'who are we to judge', and I include myself in the 'we'.

The correction to 'they' was a feeble attempt to be even-handed.
Yeah I'll pass on smoking the peace pipe on this one. There is a lot more to this story then what you have simply read in this thread.


I'm full of sin and like it that way devil
Nov 16, 2008 7:23 PM CST Can you fall in love with someone you have never met?
zztopbanana
zztopbananazztopbananaNSW, OZ & Puke Bay, Porirua, Wellington New Zealand8 Threads 1,068 Posts
sxc666: What does when you're not there mean?


OK - I think what I'm trying to say with that remark is, for whatever reason or reasons people or persons fall for you, it is because of how they think of you and about you - it's their own thought processes.

Admittedly, these thought processes or whatever you want to call them are triggered by, or legacy of, stuff you've done, things you've said, how you've been, how you look, etc. etc., but those thouhgts and processes are more active or intense or whatever when you're not there.

When you're with someone, you don't really think about them because you're with them - you do think about them, though, when they're not there.
Nov 16, 2008 7:26 PM CST Can you fall in love with someone you have never met?
zztopbanana
zztopbananazztopbananaNSW, OZ & Puke Bay, Porirua, Wellington New Zealand8 Threads 1,068 Posts
sxc666: Yeah I'll pass on smoking the peace pipe on this one. There is a lot more to this story then what you have simply read in this thread.I'm full of sin and like it that way


I'm sure there is.

I'm sure you are - each to their own, or have we already said that ???
Nov 22, 2008 1:41 AM CST Can you fall in love with someone you have never met?
thetallone1
thetallone1thetallone1West Footscray, Victoria Australia2 Threads 4 Posts
blondeaozichick: Q: In the day and age of the internet and internet dating, adult chatrooms etc..

do you think it is possible to fall in love with someone you chat to, email, talk to on the phone etc etc before you have even met?

yes you can fall inlove befor you meet them
Nov 22, 2008 1:56 AM CST Can you fall in love with someone you have never met?
Butterflyboo1974
Butterflyboo1974Butterflyboo1974near Muswellbrook, New South Wales Australia8 Threads 266 Posts
thetallone1: yes you can fall inlove befor you meet them


Recently found out my ex is in L O V E with someone he has never met....

(she is in South Australia)

The strange thing to me is that they are so in love that she is planning to move all the way over to here to be with him... with her four kids....

And they haven't actually met yet....

I can understand being 'in love' with the idea of being in love...., but as for the REAL THING..... I really do think you need to meet first to make sure...

dunno dunno dunno
Nov 22, 2008 4:40 AM CST Can you fall in love with someone you have never met?
kismat
kismatkismatWhangarei, Northland New Zealand11 Threads 1,869 Posts
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Nov 22, 2008 4:41 AM CST Can you fall in love with someone you have never met?
Butterflyboo1974
Butterflyboo1974Butterflyboo1974near Muswellbrook, New South Wales Australia8 Threads 266 Posts
How I wish that was to me....

sigh

dunno
Nov 22, 2008 4:44 AM CST Can you fall in love with someone you have never met?
Ralf74
Ralf74Ralf74Bacchus Marsh, Victoria Australia44 Threads 2 Polls 4,241 Posts
i love you too, Kis!kiss hug

even though we have never met!flirty
Nov 22, 2008 4:45 AM CST Can you fall in love with someone you have never met?
kismat
kismatkismatWhangarei, Northland New Zealand11 Threads 1,869 Posts
sharpbouquet for u
Nov 22, 2008 4:48 AM CST Can you fall in love with someone you have never met?
Ralf74
Ralf74Ralf74Bacchus Marsh, Victoria Australia44 Threads 2 Polls 4,241 Posts
kismat: sharp for u


aaawww, thanksblushing I can't show you what I have got for you!! banana giggle
Nov 22, 2008 4:53 AM CST Can you fall in love with someone you have never met?
kismat
kismatkismatWhangarei, Northland New Zealand11 Threads 1,869 Posts
Ralf74: aaawww, thanks I can't show you what I have got for you!!


you just mean crying
Nov 22, 2008 4:56 AM CST Can you fall in love with someone you have never met?
Ralf74
Ralf74Ralf74Bacchus Marsh, Victoria Australia44 Threads 2 Polls 4,241 Posts
kismat: you just mean


aaawww, come here you hug i'll show you later, there are too many people watching wink
Nov 22, 2008 5:13 AM CST Can you fall in love with someone you have never met?
tythoon
tythoontythoonTamworth, New South Wales Australia5 Posts
blondeaozichick: Q: In the day and age of the internet and internet dating, adult chatrooms etc..

do you think it is possible to fall in love with someone you chat to, email, talk to on the phone etc etc before you have even met?



Yes I know it is possable and in some ways I find that it is better than in person because u dont have any physical feelings for that person, it is all about emotion and trust which is what I believe love is about
Nov 22, 2008 7:26 AM CST Can you fall in love with someone you have never met?
Hello_you
Hello_youHello_youNorth Shore, Auckland New Zealand26 Threads 3 Polls 502 Posts
I do think it's possible, how much I like someone has everything to do with my communication with someone. I think online - or over the phone you can fall for someone if you spend enough time communicating.

say you lost your sight - could you not love?

Or lost sight and touch? Don't seem right to say that people in that situation couldn't love.

I think it's easier face to face and harder online. Then again some peoplke are too shy face to face to communicate deeply with someone face to face so maybe for them onloine is easier.

Anyway, I doubt if I'd marry or move country without spending time with someone face to face..but then that's me. Maybe other's are braver or more wiling to risk than I .....good on them.



Love how ever you find it is damn great.

And if you fall in love easier than moast - I'd say lucky you. Most of us are to cautios due to past loses.
Nov 22, 2008 7:36 AM CST Can you fall in love with someone you have never met?
blondeaozichick
blondeaozichickblondeaozichickMelbourne, Victoria Australia60 Threads 1 Polls 4,392 Posts
people who have experienced it will say it exists.. those who haven't say no way.. .. just because you haven't been there doesn't mean it can't happen
Nov 22, 2008 7:39 AM CST Can you fall in love with someone you have never met?
Ralf74
Ralf74Ralf74Bacchus Marsh, Victoria Australia44 Threads 2 Polls 4,241 Posts
blondeaozichick: people who have experienced it will say it exists.. those who haven't say no way.. .. just because you haven't been there doesn't mean it can't happen


wave Hey Blonde, i keep missing you when you are on. good to see you back, I missed ya!hug kiss
Nov 22, 2008 7:51 AM CST Can you fall in love with someone you have never met?
bourbon
bourbonbourbonSunshine Coast, Queensland Australia32 Threads 4 Polls 3,504 Posts
Ralf74: Cool, thanks Blonde! Bourbon is back in the building too and has decided to grace us with his presence, yay.


She knows I'm here. drinking
Nov 22, 2008 8:16 AM CST Can you fall in love with someone you have never met?
blondeaozichick
blondeaozichickblondeaozichickMelbourne, Victoria Australia60 Threads 1 Polls 4,392 Posts
bourbon: She knows I'm here.



laugh yeah I did see your name... at a mates house on her puter.. been yakking to her but she gone to bed now so now I can give you a hard time bourbalicious grin

ohh... sorry... welcome back!!!!! hug
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