Can you fall in love with someone you have never met? (165)

Oct 27, 2008 1:54 AM CST Can you fall in love with someone you have never met?
blondeaozichick
blondeaozichickblondeaozichickMelbourne, Victoria Australia60 Threads 1 Polls 4,392 Posts
relaxin: yes i think i fall in love the tax man everytime he sends a nice big fat tax return cheque


rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing


wave re grin
Oct 27, 2008 1:55 AM CST Can you fall in love with someone you have never met?
aberfoyle
aberfoyleaberfoyleCoffs Harbour, New South Wales Australia17 Threads 1 Polls 1,328 Posts
relaxin: yes i think i fall in love the tax man everytime he sends a nice big fat tax return cheque



Your tax man is on CS ? confused
Oct 27, 2008 2:39 AM CST Can you fall in love with someone you have never met?
Willtj
WilltjWilltjLiverpool, New South Wales Australia2 Posts
Considering love is often mistaken for various other emotions, love is often overlooked or mis-interpreted where it is needed. And sometimes it is sought for or fought for where it has long passed.

Love as I know it is a series of chemical reactions exciting the very core of a human, such that a marvelous sunset and beautiful passionate kiss can utterly shake a person to their core.

It is more then words on screen or a smile on a webcam.

Although similar chemical reactions can occur on a small scale in the absence of someone whom you think you love.

With them more often enough their negative attributes win the war, and the love you talk of turns to hate :(

Wil
Oct 27, 2008 2:47 AM CST Can you fall in love with someone you have never met?
psuedonym
psuedonympsuedonymadelaide, South Australia Australia15 Threads 1 Polls 1,203 Posts
sxc666: ohhhh snap



i dont understand confused confused dunno
Oct 27, 2008 3:08 AM CST Can you fall in love with someone you have never met?
psuedonym
psuedonympsuedonymadelaide, South Australia Australia15 Threads 1 Polls 1,203 Posts
blondeaozichick: yeah.. I like your philosophical dribble too psuedo



hmmmmmmmm teatotaller drinks half a bottle of bundy, hits the keyboard with a heap of dribble and becomes popular. might have to drink a bit more in future lol rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing
Oct 27, 2008 4:48 AM CST Can you fall in love with someone you have never met?
kizzy27
kizzy27kizzy27a south coast beach, New South Wales Australia106 Threads 6 Polls 7,413 Posts
psuedonym: wow i did some reading as you recommended, now you really really need to email me, coz i've confused myself even further



Thats one way to get the girls to make contact ....nice move psuedogrin
Oct 27, 2008 4:56 AM CST Can you fall in love with someone you have never met?
aberfoyle
aberfoyleaberfoyleCoffs Harbour, New South Wales Australia17 Threads 1 Polls 1,328 Posts
kizzy27: Thats one way to get the girls to make contact ....nice move psuedo




doh and I fell for it doh
Oct 27, 2008 5:40 AM CST Can you fall in love with someone you have never met?
psuedonym
psuedonympsuedonymadelaide, South Australia Australia15 Threads 1 Polls 1,203 Posts
kizzy27: Thats one way to get the girls to make contact ....nice move psuedo


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Oct 27, 2008 6:14 AM CST Can you fall in love with someone you have never met?
Rodles
RodlesRodlesBrisbane, Queensland Australia1 Threads 167 Posts
there is that L word again lol

Most people that I speak with who have been together for multilple decades talk more about deep frinedship and sharing common enjoyment through participating together in activities. Be it through doing things, watching things,talking about things ETC but both these are built up over the decades they have spent together. So the common thread in all this for me is spending time together doing stuff which builds this deep friendship we call love.

There also must be that element of physical attraction as well. It may be appearance or fragrence what ever floats you boat but for me it must be there for now at least.

To much fantisy or illusion can come from not actually having the physical presence of the other person, for me that is.
Oct 27, 2008 6:29 AM CST Can you fall in love with someone you have never met?
Ecoprincess
EcoprincessEcoprincessSligo/New Zealand, Sligo Ireland48 Threads 1 Polls 1,278 Posts
Rodles: there is that L word again lol

Most people that I speak with who have been together for multilple decades talk more about deep frinedship and sharing common enjoyment through participating together in activities. Be it through doing things, watching things,talking about things ETC but both these are built up over the decades they have spent together. So the common thread in all this for me is spending time together doing stuff which builds this deep friendship we call love.

There also must be that element of physical attraction as well. It may be appearance or fragrence what ever floats you boat but for me it must be there for now at least.

To much fantisy or illusion can come from not actually having the physical presence of the other person, for me that is.




Hey man, WTF have you been
wave
Oct 27, 2008 6:44 AM CST Can you fall in love with someone you have never met?
Rodles
RodlesRodlesBrisbane, Queensland Australia1 Threads 167 Posts
Ecoprincess: Hey man, WTF have you been


just stopped turning PC on for a while piss paw excuse i know but there you have it
Oct 27, 2008 6:51 AM CST Can you fall in love with someone you have never met?
Rodles
RodlesRodlesBrisbane, Queensland Australia1 Threads 167 Posts
Ecoprincess: Hey man, WTF have you been


had some big stuff go down with my dad dieing to never had a parent die before watched plenty of mates loose um but so have just been trying to be gentle to me as well
Oct 27, 2008 7:05 AM CST Can you fall in love with someone you have never met?
blondeaozichick
blondeaozichickblondeaozichickMelbourne, Victoria Australia60 Threads 1 Polls 4,392 Posts
Rodles: had some big stuff go down with my dad dieing to never had a parent die before watched plenty of mates loose um but so have just been trying to be gentle to me as well


blues hope your ok comfort
Oct 27, 2008 2:48 PM CST Can you fall in love with someone you have never met?
sxc666
sxc666sxc666unknown, Queensland Australia51 Threads 16,853 Posts
Rodles: just stopped turning PC on for a while piss paw excuse i know but there you have it
Welcome back Rodles teddybear hug
Oct 28, 2008 3:05 AM CST Can you fall in love with someone you have never met?
Rodles
RodlesRodlesBrisbane, Queensland Australia1 Threads 167 Posts
blondeaozichick: hope your ok


Yes thanks doing alright now.
Took myself and my daughter to the sunshine coast for a week. Left the car and the phone behind and just was and felt and connected.
Oct 28, 2008 3:05 AM CST Can you fall in love with someone you have never met?
Rodles
RodlesRodlesBrisbane, Queensland Australia1 Threads 167 Posts
sxc666: Welcome back Rodles


Thankyou kind lady
Oct 28, 2008 5:42 AM CST Can you fall in love with someone you have never met?
kizzy27
kizzy27kizzy27a south coast beach, New South Wales Australia106 Threads 6 Polls 7,413 Posts
Rodles: had some big stuff go down with my dad dieing to never had a parent die before watched plenty of mates loose um but so have just been trying to be gentle to me as well
hug comfort bouquet

sorry to hear it friend
Oct 28, 2008 5:31 PM CST Can you fall in love with someone you have never met?
phaedellis
phaedellisphaedellisBrisbane, Queensland Australia9 Threads 653 Posts
Rodles: had some big stuff go down with my dad dieing to never had a parent die before watched plenty of mates loose um but so have just been trying to be gentle to me as well
Hi Rodles sorry to hear bout your loss wave wave wave
Oct 28, 2008 6:12 PM CST Can you fall in love with someone you have never met?
phaedellis
phaedellisphaedellisBrisbane, Queensland Australia9 Threads 653 Posts
blondeaozichick: Q: In the day and age of the internet and internet dating, adult chatrooms etc..

do you think it is possible to fall in love with someone you chat to, email, talk to on the phone etc etc before you have even met?
Nope.... No Way...., have to see them in da flesh, as how do we really know that a pic or whatever is actually who they really are???I believe you can fall for someone instantly, but thats after you speak with them in da fleshconversing
Nov 3, 2008 4:23 AM CST Can you fall in love with someone you have never met?
Butterflyboo1974
Butterflyboo1974Butterflyboo1974near Muswellbrook, New South Wales Australia8 Threads 266 Posts
phaedellis: Nope.... No Way...., have to see them in da flesh, as how do we really know that a pic or whatever is actually who they really are???I believe you can fall for someone instantly, but thats after you speak with them in da flesh


[/think that it is possible to 'fall in love' with the IDEA of being in love with a person over the internet / phone...

but it is only when you meet and the sparks begin to fly, and you exchange 'that look' that you know how true that possibility is.....


and then after you meet for the first time..... and the second.... and the third....... then you can fall...... and fall hard.color]

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