STARTING OVER ( Archived) (3)

I don't know where to start, I was married for 17 years, and things can change fast. Now I am divorced and after 4 yrs I am trying out this new dating style. It is really different. I read alot about people being players, and I think that I understand what they're doing but just have a hard time believing that people could do that to other people. I guess if I'm going to be in a relationship with someone that means to me that you take some time to get to know someone and enjoy their company and get to know them, all their little quirks and hangups, along with their beautiful side whether it be inside or outside. To me life is to short to be taking advantage of someones emotions by leading them on then just wanting to go to the sack with them. I have learned in talking with people that many peole have so much more to offer, especially when there are poor smucks like me who are new to this dating again and you read about how guys before me have hurt the feelings of a lot of the women out there. Then they wonder why women are so mistrusting! OK now I will get down from my soapbox now that I got that off my chest. I am a great person with a few extra pounds,(I am not fat), fairly good looking and wanting to date. So if there are any women out there that would be interested then please drop me a line. I don't know if you are suppose to put your address on here so I will wait for now.

It is easier to hide behind a computer screen and "talk" about dating and wanting a relationship than it is to risk real interaction with another and possibly have a real date!


People don't get their tender little feelings hurt this way..