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Jun 3, 2006 8:24 PM CST help!
chance2485
chance2485chance2485cabin in the woods, Michigan USA123 Threads 1,365 Posts
To those who can help! PLEASE...


I'm trying to understand how some really good people got
band for sticking up for themselves...and when I stuck up for vinny
he got bashed so bad that he left...come whats going on here..

why is it ok for some and not others?
don't the rules apply for us all?

and if banning is going to happen shouldn't everyone who took part
be banned..

let's hear your thoughts....we are all adults..
we know how to communicate...why are some allowed to come on and put
others down???

ok..let's here it.....to those who got banned I'm sorry...love
you all...yes I said all...x-ray man..lol love you too!!!


chance
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Jun 3, 2006 8:28 PM CST help!
gentlepaws
gentlepawsgentlepawsAny town, Ontario Canada1,019 Threads 13 Polls 9,583 Posts
I posted to that subject last night. One of my posts was deleted. This is no answer. Paws
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Jun 3, 2006 8:28 PM CST help!
Windygirl
WindygirlWindygirlDayton, Ohio USA21 Threads 1,846 Posts
My guess, easy answer. Those banned weren't poking report buttons while others participated in the bashing were. More reports against.
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Jun 3, 2006 8:34 PM CST help!
Windygirl
WindygirlWindygirlDayton, Ohio USA21 Threads 1,846 Posts
That's the kicker. LOT of folks involve. Only a few banned. Would love a real, live mod explanation. Not just my theory.

Even sadder, same involved, still going. Look how many threads on the SAME frikkin subject! Still stupidity.

SURE GLAD BANNING THOSE SOLVED THE PROBLEM!!!!!!

!!!!!!!!!!!NOT!!!!!!!!!!!!
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Jun 3, 2006 8:38 PM CST help!
chance2485
chance2485chance2485cabin in the woods, Michigan USA123 Threads 1,365 Posts
nene,

same here! we are ones who go back in time together..you were
one of the first to welcome me...I will always have a place in
my heart for you...in my case one door closed..say slammed shut..
but god put the right one in my life...it's worth the wait...best
luck to you...hug your way...I admire you also....chance
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Jun 3, 2006 8:41 PM CST help!
langleygirl
langleygirllangleygirlWestlock, Alberta Canada70 Threads 8,202 Posts
I totally agree that it doesn't make sense as their were two females slinging it just as bad and just kept stirring up and yappping at people's heels egging them on .... all the while proclaiming they are innocent .... and these same two are at it again today biting at people's heels starting arguments.

OF COURSE THEY ARE INNOCENT .... THEY HAVE DONE NOTHING WRONG .... WHINE AND CRY AND THEN BITE AND THEN RUN AWAY AGAIN ... POOR BABIES!!

NOT!

Anyways seems like the ones who take it like an adult get banned and the ones that dish it out and then cry and moan are the ones that get listened to the most.
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Jun 3, 2006 8:44 PM CST help!
Windygirl
WindygirlWindygirlDayton, Ohio USA21 Threads 1,846 Posts
Passive-aggressive: Pertaining to behavior in which feelings of aggression are expressed in passive ways as, for example, by stubbornness, sullenness, procrastination, or intentional inefficiency.




*That definition was supposed to say intentional stupidity*
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Jun 3, 2006 8:44 PM CST help!
chance2485
chance2485chance2485cabin in the woods, Michigan USA123 Threads 1,365 Posts
I agree erin,

multible threads.keep coming up...and the same people
kept bring them up..if they dont like a thread why is it so hard
for them to move on?? banning is the answer..because it hurts
the ones who sometimes dont start it...chance...I wasn't here
so I can't speak of the situation from the other night..

asking for suggestions how to stop the banning of people denfending themselves...try to help my friends is all erin....chance
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Jun 3, 2006 8:50 PM CST help!
chance2485
chance2485chance2485cabin in the woods, Michigan USA123 Threads 1,365 Posts
langley,

thank you for your reply....but what do you think the solution
could be for this...maybe we can make a suggestion to cs..chance
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Jun 3, 2006 8:53 PM CST help!
chance2485
chance2485chance2485cabin in the woods, Michigan USA123 Threads 1,365 Posts
L J,

thank you for your reply...lets hope if we all pull together
we can get a answer we all can agree on...thank you sweety...chance
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Jun 3, 2006 8:57 PM CST help!
Windygirl
WindygirlWindygirlDayton, Ohio USA21 Threads 1,846 Posts
Welp, no suggestions, cause we have no specific reason as to the picking and choosing of the banning.

OBVIOUSLY we know stuff got ugly, obvious reason for the ban, but why some did and some didn't isn't known.

Maybe a better screening process of members. But probably damn near impossible.
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Jun 3, 2006 9:00 PM CST help!
chance2485
chance2485chance2485cabin in the woods, Michigan USA123 Threads 1,365 Posts
windy,

Thanks for your input..maybe a letter to cs will help or
at least I can try...thank you again...chance
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Jun 3, 2006 9:11 PM CST help!
chance2485
chance2485chance2485cabin in the woods, Michigan USA123 Threads 1,365 Posts
John,

Thanks,but I dont see why it has to go to the point where
people have to defend themselves...hey..we all like to have fun..

It just bothers me when some get hurt in the process...It's good
to see you ...and thanks for your reply...Chance...
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Jun 3, 2006 9:27 PM CST help!
FunnyButt
FunnyButtFunnyButtFallston, Maryland USA2 Threads 9 Posts
Buy Johsonville Brats if you are looking for good ones.

They fit nicely on a bun, and go nicely into your mouth.

Don't you all love a cookout?
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Jun 3, 2006 9:30 PM CST help!
gentlepaws
gentlepawsgentlepawsAny town, Ontario Canada1,019 Threads 13 Polls 9,583 Posts
Windy' no truer words can be spoken here. You nailed it. I admire your clear sight into so many matters of this nature. You are a voice of clarity. Peeps just have to see through the haze. Paws
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Jun 3, 2006 9:40 PM CST help!
Windygirl
WindygirlWindygirlDayton, Ohio USA21 Threads 1,846 Posts
*Sorry Chance, momentary hijack*

Paws, although I appreciate the compliment, my voice of experience is mistaken for voice of clarity. Been knee deep in online disaster.

I mean really, this is tough business. You have no idea what some may be going through in private email. Turmoil, hurt feelings, misplaced love and then some. A lot of times forums are a "Dear Diary" of sorts. Then after posting, lots are expecting to see their clones. Not going to happen.

This is just a venue, a medium, boredom breaker for some, last ditch effort for some, a scream for help from others.

So many post that these forums aren't like real life, but it absolutely is. Single folk, failed relationships, passionate opinions, unresolved issues and even our character flaws. Doesn't get more real than that.

It would just be nice if some could learn, look at the human psyche, look at themselves, look at reaction...use this place.


Ahhhhhhhhhh, a delusional vent that makes no sense. I quit.
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Jun 3, 2006 9:57 PM CST help!
chance2485
chance2485chance2485cabin in the woods, Michigan USA123 Threads 1,365 Posts
John,

Thank you,I believe your right..being lovers instead of
fighters might help alot...chances...thanks
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Jun 3, 2006 9:59 PM CST help!
chance2485
chance2485chance2485cabin in the woods, Michigan USA123 Threads 1,365 Posts
hijacks and opinions allowed...
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Jun 3, 2006 10:10 PM CST help!
zdeadmanwalking
zdeadmanwalkingzdeadmanwalkingbowling green, Kentucky USA235 Threads 3,011 Posts
peace why can't we just get along,everyone comes and leaves in peace
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Jun 3, 2006 10:13 PM CST help!
chance2485
chance2485chance2485cabin in the woods, Michigan USA123 Threads 1,365 Posts
that sounds like a winner...thanks...chance
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