Finding something out abt a friends child (8)

Apr 26, 2008 5:49 PM CST Finding something out abt a friends child
vonney
vonneyvonneyDublin, Ireland24 Threads 6,371 Posts
Have posted this on Intl forume as well I guess I just dont want to make the decision. I found out tonight that my friends 15 yr old son was drinking an doing exstacy, yes was from a very reliable source, do I tell her?
Apr 26, 2008 6:26 PM CST Finding something out abt a friends child
happyoutin
happyoutinhappyoutingalway, Galway Ireland34 Threads 301 Posts
hi there vonney
i think u should tell here for the childs sake
if anything ever happened you wouldnt forgive yourself very easy if at all.best of luckuncertain
Apr 26, 2008 6:53 PM CST Finding something out abt a friends child
redbellypirhana
redbellypirhanaredbellypirhanaPhoenix, Arizona USA4 Threads 793 Posts
yes you do...
Apr 27, 2008 5:26 AM CST Finding something out abt a friends child
bluebelle4000
bluebelle4000bluebelle4000Meath, Ireland46 Threads 6,001 Posts
vonney: Have posted this on Intl forume as well I guess I just dont want to make the decision. I found out tonight that my friends 15 yr old son was drinking an doing exstacy, yes was from a very reliable source, do I tell her?


Hi vonney

if your very sure the source is reliable then yes you should tell her.. definatley... u might just save his life...
Apr 27, 2008 6:50 AM CST Finding something out abt a friends child
nuala
nualanualadublin, Dublin Ireland12 Threads 6,456 Posts
vonney: Have posted this on Intl forume as well I guess I just dont want to make the decision. I found out tonight that my friends 15 yr old son was drinking an doing exstacy, yes was from a very reliable source, do I tell her?



Well put the shoe on the other foot as the saying goes, how would you feel if you found out that she knew about your child doing the same and not saying anything to her.....Also as a mother too its the child you are thinking of here....If it was my son i would like to know......hug
Apr 27, 2008 12:15 PM CST Finding something out abt a friends child
Ye i would like 2 no 2 ...

Do u have a gud relationship with him , If so would he b able 2 tell his mam with ur support ???

It would also b gud , if it was possible 2 find out any supports locally dat could help dem ...

gud luk
May 26, 2008 10:43 AM CST Finding something out abt a friends child
NOBLONDEHERE
NOBLONDEHERENOBLONDEHEREKildare, Ireland11 Threads 1 Polls 996 Posts
absolutely ....................
May 26, 2008 4:54 PM CST Finding something out abt a friends child
mrwho
mrwhomrwhoCork, Ireland1 Threads 21 Posts
No offence to the others but no, you shouldn't, simply because that kind of information will change the relationship dynamics of the parent/child, usually in situations like this the parent already has an idea themselves but are just in denial, give it a bit more time rather then being accused of putting 'your nose where it doesn't belong' which, as a parent, i would think of anyone accusing my child of being anything but perfect (regardless if they are or not!)
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