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DAVIOdublin, Dublin Ireland11 Threads 184 Postshey all ,i think it depends on the person really if they like kids they will have to be prepared to give them the time either if they are someone elses or someday there own and if they like the girl they should like what comes with her firstly, i myself dont have a problem with a girl who has kids .the only problem for me would be if she didnt want to have one or two with me .
I dont think they would find it off putting , they prob dont want any more either .
well i know with me that if i met a girl around my age who had a kid, it wouldnt be a problem, but if she didnt want another it would kind of devestate me.. as for older men? im not sure, they more than likely have a kid themselves..
Sorry folks probably a bit late on this 1.I myself have 2 kids 4 and 14 and i wouldn't have a problem seeing/dating/going out with someone with kids nor they with me,(well the 2 i've met anyways lol).People have to understand that it's a whole package that your taking on so to say.It's not just me and you,it's me you and the kids.
Mrwho,my personal belief is is your talking bull.By what your saying,you want all the attention for yourself.It doesnt work like that when you have children.They come first.Going by your comments,you seem to be looking for a mother not a girlfriend,some too devote their life to you and you alone.As i said it doesnt work like that,far from it.
Mrwho,my personal belief is is your talking bull.By what your saying,you want all the attention for yourself.It doesnt work like that when you have children.They come first.Going by your comments,you seem to be looking for a mother not a girlfriend,some too devote their life to you and you alone.As i said it doesnt work like that,far from it.
Hi..
welcome..to singleagain ,and the lady,....
don,t worries....
who know you will be lucky to meet some1 special here..
good luck
I have 2 kids..
and I am still single.....
never give up ur hopes and dreams.......
life is full of mysteries......
I hope you will find what you are looking for.......
I,m sure there are single/separate dads with kids out there.......
welcome..to singleagain ,and the lady,....
don,t worries....
who know you will be lucky to meet some1 special here..
good luck
I have 2 kids..
and I am still single.....
never give up ur hopes and dreams.......
life is full of mysteries......
I hope you will find what you are looking for.......
I,m sure there are single/separate dads with kids out there.......
singleagain1968: do men find it of putting if th womam aready has kids and dose not want any more
Simply No well it don't put me off anyway
Paul
hi no not to all men like that and everything else some do and some dont,it depends on the man.
thanks everyone,,, its just when men ask me, and i say i dothey back of, its not a father im looking for they already have one, thanks again
It certainly wouldn't put off a single dad like myself.it can actualy be a better thing because then both people would understand that the kids come first.women and guys that don't have kids don't really understand this in my experience and they seem find it hard to accept that you cannot/won't just head off out at the drop of a hat.
hello i saw ya message nw.r u asking if a man get to know that woman got kids dat he will back out?or will he still want a woman wit kids?pls get back to me
Seeing as this thread has been bumped I'll add one comment:
There is an added responsibility seeing a Woman with kids, and that is it is very easy to get attached to kids, and if things don't work out, I would feel I am losing not one person but two or three.
I think this makes me careful about diving in as there is several people to take account of.
Whatever about the Woman, It is nigh on impossible not to love kids.
There is an added responsibility seeing a Woman with kids, and that is it is very easy to get attached to kids, and if things don't work out, I would feel I am losing not one person but two or three.
I think this makes me careful about diving in as there is several people to take account of.
Whatever about the Woman, It is nigh on impossible not to love kids.
I have 4 kids and Nuala has 8 kids.... and it was a post on here about kids that got us together..
If you take a partner with kids they come as a package deal..... just that we have an extra large package between us now and i get on great with Nualas kids and my kids love her to bits
If you take a partner with kids they come as a package deal..... just that we have an extra large package between us now and i get on great with Nualas kids and my kids love her to bits
jimbhoy: I have 4 kids and Nuala has 8 kids.... and it was a post on here about kids that got us together..
If you take a partner with kids they come as a package deal..... just that we have an extra large package between us now and i get on great with Nualas kids and my kids love her to bits
If you take a partner with kids they come as a package deal..... just that we have an extra large package between us now and i get on great with Nualas kids and my kids love her to bits
I think you guys are pretty special, all fourteen of you, brings tears to my eyes. I wish I was Santa Claus, How big is your chimney?
DEPENDS REALLY IT CAN AND IT CANT JUST DEPENDS ON WHAT THERE LOOKIN FOR ,I WANT KIDS BUT SOMEONE HAVING KIDS WOULDNT PUT ME OFF THEM,IF THEY DIDNT WANT ANYMORE IT MIGHT YEA COS ID LIKE TO SHARE THE WHOLE EXPERINCE WITH THE PERSON IM WITH
i agree as i 'd be put off by anyone wanting kids as my family nearly reared and wouldn't like to start again .
i think it depends on age of kids
for me young kids be no problem was raised by a stepdad myself
15 16 yr olds might be different story as they would find it hard to accept a new person
for me young kids be no problem was raised by a stepdad myself
15 16 yr olds might be different story as they would find it hard to accept a new person
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