Explanation needed thread! (27)
Oh yeah, it was after I pointed out that she doesn't know what I look like that she said not to waste her number.
send her a pic sure what have ya got to loose if u dont ull always be left wondering !!!
tread carefully don;t give her your number till you have had a few conversations with her- the ones that give out their number quickly are usually scammers- not to burst you bubble, just to enlighten you
xxbbwxx: send her a pic sure what have ya got to loose if u dont ull always be left wondering !!!
nothing to lose of course but she doesn't seem to care about a photo so I was thinking why bother sending it?
jampet: tread carefully don;t give her your number till you have had a few conversations with her- the ones that give out their number quickly are usually scammers- not to burst you bubble, just to enlighten you
I have a second sim card just incase. I never give out my personal number
prob de exact same things as goin through urs. 
go 4 it.
go 4 it.
thats a bit weird i mean u obvoiusly want to see what the person who u are chattin to looks like!!
alot of people seem nice in their texts and mails and you think you really know them till ya meet them, then some of them are different people altogether 
think its just pot luck
think its just pot luck
alot of people seem nice in their texts and mails and you think you really know them till ya meet them, then some of them are different people altogether
think its just pot luck
think its just pot luck
trapr: I have a second sim card just incase. I never give out my personal number
good back up, but i personally would never give my phone number to someone i didn't already have a connection with. why would i?- better to have made a solid connection online first. just there are so many scammers out there, and i am a computer illiterate gal who doesn't really understand the implications of personal info so don't give it out!!
mrwright1: alot of people seem nice in their texts and mails and you think you really know them till ya meet them, then some of them are different people altogether
think its just pot luck
think its just pot luck
That is very true. I have met a couple that have been completely different. I learned to always have an easy escape route from a date
trapr: That is very true. I have met a couple that have been completely different. I learned to always have an easy escape route from a date
i cant do that without bollixing around first
jampet: good back up, but i personally would never give my phone number to someone i didn't already have a connection with. why would i?- better to have made a solid connection online first. just there are so many scammers out there, and i am a computer illiterate gal who doesn't really understand the implications of personal info so don't give it out!!
It is a pay as you go and not registered. I can throw it away if necessary as no one knows the number (not even me as it is still in the packet). It is really something that everyone here should consider
It is really difficult to scam. I really do give out very little personal info. Not enough to scam me ever. I work in IT and part of that is security. Common sense is the best security
It is a terror the amount of info I have gotten from women without asking online. If I was a stalker it would be possible to track most of them down. Everyone should be really careful of what they give out.
trapr: This is based on the "Some one help me understand......................" thread by dynamicaura.
We all need something explained at some stage or other. This thread is for the explanations. I'll start it
I've been messaging a girl today on another site (don't tell anyone ) She seems very nice, good looking, sense of humour, looking for a soul mate too and she hasn't seen my photo yet as I have not uploaded it. She has given me her number and told me not to waste it.
I know that this is a typical male question but it might help quite a lot of people in the long run if women give their input.
What is going through her mind?
We all need something explained at some stage or other. This thread is for the explanations. I'll start it
I've been messaging a girl today on another site (don't tell anyone ) She seems very nice, good looking, sense of humour, looking for a soul mate too and she hasn't seen my photo yet as I have not uploaded it. She has given me her number and told me not to waste it.
I know that this is a typical male question but it might help quite a lot of people in the long run if women give their input.
What is going through her mind?
Morning T
Am curious about this and have read it a few times and i hope u dont mind the reply...
She hasnt seen ur picture.. now we have and we all know ur nice but by saying dont waste my number i would have taken it to mean if your not nice looking dont bother wasting my time.... but of course that could just be me....i do try to see the best in most people but there is something about this that i dont like but i could be wrong..
I agree with Jampet.. be careful with the phone number. and stick to email for the momentand if she is looking to meet her soul mate when she talks to you on email she will be glad to see ur pic...
I would be inclined to send it anyway... save time.. if she doesnt like the look of u then u know she is shallow... JMO .... BB
Giving her your pic, without her asking shows that you trust her, that your sharing something private with her. that your ready to share something about yourself other than the crap that we all dish out on the forums, the real you is shown.
Ring her, she hasn't asked for your number; if she wanted your number she would ask. You can ring her and not have your number show.
If you don't want to ring, say so and say why.
If they don't accept this just leave it, either they will either go away, or stay and if the latter you can choose to give your number later when/if you feel like it.
Ring her, she hasn't asked for your number; if she wanted your number she would ask. You can ring her and not have your number show.
If you don't want to ring, say so and say why.
If they don't accept this just leave it, either they will either go away, or stay and if the latter you can choose to give your number later when/if you feel like it.
Don't waste the number mean RING HER, dont leave the number unused.
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We all need something explained at some stage or other. This thread is for the explanations.
I'll start it
I've been messaging a girl today on another site (don't tell anyone
I know that this is a typical male question but it might help quite a lot of people in the long run if women give their input.
What is going through her mind?