dreamAngel70: I meet someone from here, back January 2007, he now left this site! On my profile, i do have pics, mostly of my face, does mention i'm few extra pounds, we meet up in Dublin, u look slim in the pics, he said to me to my face, U are fat! very hurtful, only size 16. just put body pic as main pic, taken August 2008, I haven't change much, just my hair style, some people can be so rude, does it matter if u had a pic or not! they still judge you, body wise! try the inner person and not for there looks and type of body! maybe that person, maybe miss right or mr right!
regardless of whether you were carrying 'a few pounds extra', or looked a little slimmer in your pics, anyne that would come right out and say 'you are fat' to someone, anyone is waaaayyy beyond rude. Glad you had the self confidence to not let that ba&tard get you down and stop looking. IN one sense- thank goodness he didn't think you were just as imagined, as you may actually have started going out with him- I'm sure extreme rudness was not his only character flaw
even if i met someone on here, and thought they were completely not my type, for whatever reason, I like to think i would at least give them the benefit of the doubt and enjoy our date. whether or not i chose to see them again would depend on what they were like to spend time with!
For the OP- your friend sounds like another who has had a lucky escape. Hopefully she can see that his comments are nothing do do with what she looks like- if he really thought that, then why was he asking for a body pic??
TheKid52Birmingham, West Midlands, England UK490 posts
puggle: im only on here 2 months looking for friends,and possibly the one. However tonight with someone who i thought was nice, it made me rethink why should i be here....
You are here as part of a massive group of people who are enjoying the fun and having a laugh mostimes anyway. Of course you should be here. People are fickle and just take it with a pinch of salt. Do not let anyone get to you. You are a cracking guy! Stay with us!! You would really be missed not joking you. We cannot loose part of the family. Hang in there and when you least expect it the right person will come alone. Take it easy honey.
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kind of feel insulted now
not gonna take the bait mate!!!
oh yeah!!! few jokey comments from the lads,then the ladys come rushin with compliments!!
i`m on to you dude!!!