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Jan 26, 2009 8:18 PM CST dating
bow23
bow23bow23carrick- on- shannon, Leitrim Ireland39 Threads 168 Posts
When a women says she doesn't know how she feels and doesn't answer when you ask her and you've been dating for several months what does this mean?
Jan 26, 2009 8:24 PM CST dating
vinny1967
vinny1967vinny1967Dublin, Cork Ireland131 Threads 7 Polls 11,475 Posts
bow23: When a women says she doesn't know how she feels and doesn't answer when you ask her and you've been dating for several months what does this mean?


Hi......wave

If it was a man sayin it I would take is as exactly what he said but seen as its a woman and they speak with forked tongue I reckon there is something up.........

I wouldnt push it with her and give her a bit of space maybe, I am sure she will tell you in her own time.......

Maybe the Ladies may help out a bit more.........sorry





cheers
Jan 26, 2009 8:35 PM CST dating
avonlady123
avonlady123avonlady123dublin, Dublin Ireland4 Threads 730 Posts
vinny1967: Hi......

If it was a man sayin it I would take is as exactly what he said but seen as its a woman and they speak with forked tongue I reckon there is something up.........

I wouldnt push it with her and give her a bit of space maybe, I am sure she will tell you in her own time.......

Maybe the Ladies may help out a bit more.........sorry


just ask her to explain what she does feel for u - that might help clarify things for u comfort
Jan 26, 2009 8:37 PM CST dating
bow23
bow23bow23carrick- on- shannon, Leitrim Ireland39 Threads 168 Posts
I've asked her.....she avoids the question.
Jan 26, 2009 8:57 PM CST dating
vinny1967
vinny1967vinny1967Dublin, Cork Ireland131 Threads 7 Polls 11,475 Posts
avonlady123: just ask her to explain what she does feel for u - that might help clarify things for u


See...........women speak with forked tongue.......tongue

laugh

wine
Jan 26, 2009 9:07 PM CST dating
bow23
bow23bow23carrick- on- shannon, Leitrim Ireland39 Threads 168 Posts
Looks to me that she doesn't feel anythingdunno
Jan 26, 2009 9:20 PM CST dating
avonlady123
avonlady123avonlady123dublin, Dublin Ireland4 Threads 730 Posts
vinny1967: See...........women speak with forked tongue.......


now vinny thats just mean lol

some women speak with forked tongue - others just hit u with their handbag lol
Jan 26, 2009 9:21 PM CST dating
avonlady123
avonlady123avonlady123dublin, Dublin Ireland4 Threads 730 Posts
bow23: Looks to me that she doesn't feel anything


just talk t her hun - she might be a bit confused as to how she feels teddybear
Jan 26, 2009 9:53 PM CST dating
bow23
bow23bow23carrick- on- shannon, Leitrim Ireland39 Threads 168 Posts
Shes is a bit older but i can't get anything out of her as far as answers are concerned.
Jan 27, 2009 1:42 AM CST dating
nuala
nualanualadublin, Dublin Ireland12 Threads 6,456 Posts
bow23: Shes is a bit older but i can't get anything out of her as far as answers are concerned.


Well trust your gut instinct as you know something is wrong and she wont tell you. I personally feels she might have other things going on in her life that you might not know about or (I am going to be harsh here) She just not into you anymore, but hasnt the guts to say it.

So just go with the flow if it suits you but if not push for the answers as there is nothing as bad as unanswered questions. Your mind runs away with all sort of senarios....thats my opinion on it, take careteddybear
Jan 27, 2009 5:32 AM CST dating
wexlady41
wexlady41wexlady41Wexford, Ireland47 Threads 5 Polls 7,935 Posts
She sounds like a scorpio.

Just tell her you're concerned and worried about her and that you'll be there when she's ready to talk to you.

Then back off a little bit (not completely) and wait for her to tell you what's wrong.

She will when she figures it out herself.

teddybear teddybear teddybear
Jan 27, 2009 5:37 AM CST dating
petalbabe
petalbabepetalbabeOgdensburg, New York, Cork Ireland61 Threads 1 Polls 3,101 Posts
bow23: When a women says she doesn't know how she feels and doesn't answer when you ask her and you've been dating for several months what does this mean?


Difficult when you dont know the people involved, but maybe, just maybe, she has fallen for you big time in the short time you have been going out, and doesnt want to tell you yet, in case it scares YOU away..

Just a thought.confused
Jan 27, 2009 5:45 AM CST dating
wexlady41
wexlady41wexlady41Wexford, Ireland47 Threads 5 Polls 7,935 Posts
petalbabe: Difficult when you dont know the people involved, but maybe, just maybe, she has fallen for you big time in the short time you have been going out, and doesnt want to tell you yet, in case it scares YOU away..

Just a thought.



Aww Petal..you're such an optimist!!

I never even considered that possibility until you said it.




doh teddybear teddybear
Jan 27, 2009 5:46 AM CST dating
vinny1967
vinny1967vinny1967Dublin, Cork Ireland131 Threads 7 Polls 11,475 Posts
avonlady123: now vinny thats just mean lol

some women speak with forked tongue - others just hit u with their handbag lol



Well I dont mean to generalise........Ok Most do.......Is that better........
laugh

For all I know that Lady could be brooding about something that was said four weeks ago......doh

I just wish wimmin people would open up as some things can turn into World War IV over nothing........

JMO






hole
Jan 27, 2009 5:55 AM CST dating
wexlady41
wexlady41wexlady41Wexford, Ireland47 Threads 5 Polls 7,935 Posts
vinny1967: Well I dont mean to generalise........Ok Most do.......Is that better........


For all I know that Lady could be brooding about something that was said four weeks ago......

I just wish wimmin people would open up as some things can turn into World War IV over nothing........

JMO


What makes you think it was something that was said?

Maybe she has something on her mind that does not involve the man in her life. Maybe she has health concerns and doesn't want to worry anyone, or money worries, or worry about work or kids.

Ya see not everyting is about men!! Men just think it is.

How many times has a man pushed a woman for an answer and she eventually says what it is. If it's not about him..his reaction is.."is that all? I thought it was something important!"

It's important to her!!!
Jan 27, 2009 5:57 AM CST dating
Tamarin
TamarinTamarinsomewhere, Lothian, Scotland UK173 Threads 1 Polls 3,267 Posts
Simply say in a pleasant manner you need to know and can she may be give it some thought....

If you carry on in this relationship ....I think communication is the big word here.

I do hope you get this sorted out...

I can ask the person I know anything and he will answer and I the same...

Explain gently that you would like a very honest, communcative relationship.hug
Jan 27, 2009 5:59 AM CST dating
vinny1967
vinny1967vinny1967Dublin, Cork Ireland131 Threads 7 Polls 11,475 Posts
wexlady41: What makes you think it was something that was said?

Maybe she has something on her mind that does not involve the man in her life. Maybe she has health concerns and doesn't want to worry anyone, or money worries, or worry about work or kids.

Ya see not everyting is about men!! Men just think it is.

How many times has a man pushed a woman for an answer and she eventually says what it is. If it's not about him..his reaction is.."is that all? I thought it was something important!"

It's important to her!!!


tongue tongue tongue

Get out of the wrong side of the bed...........tongue

If ya read ALL my posts I haven't a bloody clue whats wrong with her..................

And thats My point...............So there........laugh

Hi Clodagh........wave
Jan 27, 2009 6:03 AM CST dating
petalbabe
petalbabepetalbabeOgdensburg, New York, Cork Ireland61 Threads 1 Polls 3,101 Posts
wexlady41: Aww Petal..you're such an optimist!!

I never even considered that possibility until you said it.


wave Hi Wex

I dont know whats come over me!! Feel all romantic and optimisic. Quite scary!!roll eyes
Jan 27, 2009 6:03 AM CST dating
wexlady41
wexlady41wexlady41Wexford, Ireland47 Threads 5 Polls 7,935 Posts
vinny1967: Get out of the wrong side of the bed...........

If ya read ALL my posts I haven't a bloody clue whats wrong with her..................

And thats My point...............So there........

Hi Clodagh........


Sorry Vinny.

Just touched a nerve that's all.

teddybear teddybear teddybear teddybear
Jan 27, 2009 6:08 AM CST dating
Tamarin
TamarinTamarinsomewhere, Lothian, Scotland UK173 Threads 1 Polls 3,267 Posts
wexlady41: Sorry Vinny.

Just touched a nerve that's all.


Don't apologise to the big brute .....it is ladies day Wex ...he should be down on bended knee begging your forgiveness...

Men think everything is about then they can not help it, it is a gene they are born with.......rolling on the floor laughing

Love ya all really guys.....no hate mail please....
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