moonloveOPchiang mai, Northern Thailand Thailand650 posts
sbear: They say time heals all wounds, I believe this is somewhat true. You have to find your inner person and concentrate on YOU figure out who you are and what makes you happy and feel complete. The more time you work on yourself the less time you spend remembering your broken heart. In the meantime spend some time with your best girlfriends it may not heal your heart but it's great for your soul.
Having a broken heart to me is alot like when someone you love is dying. They're not in your life anymore. It's one of the worst feelings in the world, but neither is it the end of the world either. I think once time passes it gets a little better and you'll look back and ask yourself what on earth did you see in that guy anyway? Time does heal all wounds.
moonloveOPchiang mai, Northern Thailand Thailand650 posts
somechick: Having a broken heart to me is alot like when someone you love is dying. They're not in your life anymore. It's one of the worst feelings in the world, but neither is it the end of the world either. I think once time passes it gets a little better and you'll look back and ask yourself what on earth did you see in that guy anyway? Time does heal all wounds.
Lots of people have mentioned that time heals a broken heart. This is 100% true but of little help being told this by the person who is suffering.... they KNOW that time will heal their heart but right now they are suffering Hell on earth and life is so terrible and lonely and 'if only.....'
Ok, so most people know that time will heal their broken heart......... so all we can do is suggest ways to SPEED up the process - luckily this gets easier each time your heart is broken.......... heck as a youngster it can take a couple of years and by the time you're 'an oldie' you can get it down to just a few minutes before you sigh, pull your shoulders back, smile at the world (even if it's an evil fake grin) and utter the one word of true wisdom:
'Next!'
However, it might not be a good idea to go from one failed relationship straight into another - learning to understand and like yourself first will give you a far better chance of finding happiness NEXT time.......... so, taking a little time out can be positive as long as you don't take out a few decades of your life as that would be a waste!
moonlove: Yes, that really true coz heart connetion is really hard to forget or heal, not physical
I think most of us understand that it's not physical but at the same time that you are hurting if you can be glad that you loved someone even when it doesn't work out there is healing. Not holding onto the person of our desire but letting go and being glad when they are happy even if it's with someone else. You look young from your picture your heart will survive even if it doesn't totally forget and if you allow yourself you will love again.
trulymadlydeeplyBangkok, Central Thailand Thailand446 posts
sbear: They say time heals all wounds, I believe this is somewhat true. You have to find your inner person and concentrate on YOU figure out who you are and what makes you happy and feel complete. The more time you work on yourself the less time you spend remembering your broken heart. In the meantime spend some time with your best girlfriends it may not heal your heart but it's great for your soul.
yeah a good idea.... girlfriends. but when ur alone in your room, reality starts to linger.
trulymadlydeeplyBangkok, Central Thailand Thailand446 posts
rusty_knight: Lots of people have mentioned that time heals a broken heart. This is 100% true but of little help being told this by the person who is suffering.... they KNOW that time will heal their heart but right now they are suffering Hell on earth and life is so terrible and lonely and 'if only.....'
Ok, so most people know that time will heal their broken heart......... so all we can do is suggest ways to SPEED up the process - luckily this gets easier each time your heart is broken.......... heck as a youngster it can take a couple of years and by the time you're 'an oldie' you can get it down to just a few minutes before you sigh, pull your shoulders back, smile at the world (even if it's an evil fake grin) and utter the one word of true wisdom:
'Next!'
However, it might not be a good idea to go from one failed relationship straight into another - learning to understand and like yourself first will give you a far better chance of finding happiness NEXT time.......... so, taking a little time out can be positive as long as you don't take out a few decades of your life as that would be a waste!
Thats what my friends advice me... to go to the next guy and there's a list waiting lol.
Seriously, I believe u cant be happy with the next relationship if you wont correct yourself and learn from the mistakes u made because I know it takes two to break up and make hearts broken.
Feb 10, 2009 1:08 AM CST how to cure broken heart???
HellervonSon of Nature/Morehead City, North Carolina USA4 Threads108 Posts
HellervonSon of Nature/Morehead City, North Carolina USA108 posts
I don't think that jumping straight into an other relationship would be the healthy thing to do... Let your heart heal first.... Jumping into an other relationship that fast can lead to you and/or the other person getting hurt even worse.
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