how to cure broken heart??? ( Archived) (51)

Feb 8, 2009 10:09 AM CST how to cure broken heart???
tina_olson
tina_olsontina_olsonWestby, Wisconsin USA1 Threads 694 Posts
Lagoona22: I think the best way to get over a broken heart is make another thread on CS.....


laugh Sure, why not...laugh
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Feb 8, 2009 10:10 AM CST how to cure broken heart???
moonlove
moonlovemoonlovechiang mai, Northern Thailand Thailand79 Threads 29 Polls 650 Posts
sbear: They say time heals all wounds, I believe this is somewhat true. You have to find your inner person and concentrate on YOU figure out who you are and what makes you happy and feel complete. The more time you work on yourself the less time you spend remembering your broken heart. In the meantime spend some time with your best girlfriends it may not heal your heart but it's great for your soul.
teddybear sad flower bouquet grin
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Feb 8, 2009 10:22 AM CST how to cure broken heart???
Having a broken heart to me is alot like when someone you love is dying. They're not in your life anymore. It's one of the worst feelings in the world, but neither is it the end of the world either. I think once time passes it gets a little better and you'll look back and ask yourself what on earth did you see in that guy anyway? Time does heal all wounds.
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Feb 8, 2009 10:26 AM CST how to cure broken heart???
Rub_a_Dub
Rub_a_DubRub_a_DubCambridge, Cambridgeshire, England UK2 Threads 28 Posts
moonlove: How to cure broken heart????



Shut down the feelings then block the pain off .Its easy once you practice enough thumbs up good luck
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Feb 8, 2009 10:32 AM CST how to cure broken heart???
moonlove
moonlovemoonlovechiang mai, Northern Thailand Thailand79 Threads 29 Polls 650 Posts
Rub_a_Dub: Shut down the feelings then block the pain off .Its easy once you practice enough good luck

handshake heart beating heart beating moping

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Feb 8, 2009 10:35 AM CST how to cure broken heart???
moonlove
moonlovemoonlovechiang mai, Northern Thailand Thailand79 Threads 29 Polls 650 Posts
somechick: Having a broken heart to me is alot like when someone you love is dying. They're not in your life anymore. It's one of the worst feelings in the world, but neither is it the end of the world either. I think once time passes it gets a little better and you'll look back and ask yourself what on earth did you see in that guy anyway? Time does heal all wounds.
barf sad flower bouquet

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Feb 8, 2009 11:43 AM CST how to cure broken heart???
rusty_knight
rusty_knightrusty_knightGozo, Malta175 Threads 2 Polls 6,840 Posts
Lots of people have mentioned that time heals a broken heart. This is 100% true but of little help being told this by the person who is suffering.... they KNOW that time will heal their heart but right now they are suffering Hell on earth and life is so terrible and lonely and 'if only.....'

Ok, so most people know that time will heal their broken heart......... so all we can do is suggest ways to SPEED up the process - luckily this gets easier each time your heart is broken.......... heck as a youngster it can take a couple of years and by the time you're 'an oldie' you can get it down to just a few minutes before you sigh, pull your shoulders back, smile at the world (even if it's an evil fake grin) and utter the one word of true wisdom:

'Next!'

However, it might not be a good idea to go from one failed relationship straight into another - learning to understand and like yourself first will give you a far better chance of finding happiness NEXT time.......... so, taking a little time out can be positive as long as you don't take out a few decades of your life as that would be a waste!

confused thumbs up wine
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Feb 8, 2009 12:12 PM CST how to cure broken heart???
nayobi
nayobinayobiBalcombe, West Sussex, England UK61 Posts
rusty_knight: A universally accepted cure is this:

You buy a live chicken.

You place the chicken in an 'easy to clean', uncluttered, enclosed space - maybe a back yard, for example.

You cut off the head of the chicken.

You chase the headless chicken running round the enclosed space until it keels over dead and well bled.

You cook the chicken.

You eat the chicken.

You should by now feel much better................ if this does not work repeat until your broken heart is cured!


I have to try this one, is the only one that I have missed doh
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Feb 8, 2009 1:33 PM CST how to cure broken heart???
MrRespect
MrRespectMrRespectNewcastle, Tyne and Wear, England UK72 Posts
Rub_a_Dub: Shut down the feelings then block the pain off .Its easy once you practice enough good luck


you make yourself sound like a robot, personally I just wallow in self pity for about 10 years and drench my cat in tears.
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Feb 9, 2009 10:36 PM CST how to cure broken heart???
moonlove
moonlovemoonlovechiang mai, Northern Thailand Thailand79 Threads 29 Polls 650 Posts
MrRespect: you make yourself sound like a robot, personally I just wallow in self pity for about 10 years and drench my cat in tears.


grin rolling on the floor laughing sleep
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Feb 9, 2009 11:04 PM CST how to cure broken heart???
In response to: How to cure broken heart????


Time
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Feb 9, 2009 11:07 PM CST how to cure broken heart???
jlw45
jlw45jlw45Moyers, Oklahoma USA66 Threads 1 Polls 15,566 Posts
Dawn7z: Time
time has come todaydancing

time

time

time

time

dancing laugh
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Feb 9, 2009 11:12 PM CST how to cure broken heart???
7mmRemMag
7mmRemMag7mmRemMagColumbia, South Carolina USA3 Threads 57 Posts
Steevyv: Find yourself another man - immediately!
The one who "broke" your hart will be history within a seven days.
Have a good day.


Thats true, but she needs some greeving time to get the guy off her mind, so she wont turn the next guy off.

Guy's hate guilt trips.
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Feb 9, 2009 11:21 PM CST how to cure broken heart???
moonlove
moonlovemoonlovechiang mai, Northern Thailand Thailand79 Threads 29 Polls 650 Posts
7mmRemMag: Thats true, but she needs some greeving time to get the guy off her mind, so she wont turn the next guy off.

Guy's hate guilt trips.


Yes, that really true coz heart connetion is really hard to forget or heal, not physical
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Feb 9, 2009 11:28 PM CST how to cure broken heart???
moonlove: Yes, that really true coz heart connetion is really hard to forget or heal, not physical


I think most of us understand that it's not physical but at the same time that you are hurting if you can be glad that you loved someone even when it doesn't work out there is healing. Not holding onto the person of our desire but letting go and being glad when they are happy even if it's with someone else. You look young from your picture your heart will survive even if it doesn't totally forget and if you allow yourself you will love again.
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Feb 10, 2009 12:57 AM CST how to cure broken heart???
trulymadlydeeply
trulymadlydeeplytrulymadlydeeplyBangkok, Central Thailand Thailand4 Threads 1 Polls 446 Posts
HJFinAZ: Last time my heart was broken, I went to see my Cardiologist. He fixed it..




ohhhh Pat!!!! can I have his number????roll eyes
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Feb 10, 2009 1:00 AM CST how to cure broken heart???
trulymadlydeeply
trulymadlydeeplytrulymadlydeeplyBangkok, Central Thailand Thailand4 Threads 1 Polls 446 Posts
sbear: They say time heals all wounds, I believe this is somewhat true. You have to find your inner person and concentrate on YOU figure out who you are and what makes you happy and feel complete. The more time you work on yourself the less time you spend remembering your broken heart. In the meantime spend some time with your best girlfriends it may not heal your heart but it's great for your soul.



yeah a good idea.... girlfriends. but when ur alone in your room, reality starts to linger.
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Feb 10, 2009 1:02 AM CST how to cure broken heart???
moonlove
moonlovemoonlovechiang mai, Northern Thailand Thailand79 Threads 29 Polls 650 Posts
HJFinAZ: Last time my heart was broken, I went to see my Cardiologist. He fixed it..



trulymadlydeeply: ohhhh Pat!!!! can I have his number????


I also want his numbers, can you share with me please............comfort doh
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Feb 10, 2009 1:07 AM CST how to cure broken heart???
trulymadlydeeply
trulymadlydeeplytrulymadlydeeplyBangkok, Central Thailand Thailand4 Threads 1 Polls 446 Posts
rusty_knight: Lots of people have mentioned that time heals a broken heart. This is 100% true but of little help being told this by the person who is suffering.... they KNOW that time will heal their heart but right now they are suffering Hell on earth and life is so terrible and lonely and 'if only.....'

Ok, so most people know that time will heal their broken heart......... so all we can do is suggest ways to SPEED up the process - luckily this gets easier each time your heart is broken.......... heck as a youngster it can take a couple of years and by the time you're 'an oldie' you can get it down to just a few minutes before you sigh, pull your shoulders back, smile at the world (even if it's an evil fake grin) and utter the one word of true wisdom:

'Next!'

However, it might not be a good idea to go from one failed relationship straight into another - learning to understand and like yourself first will give you a far better chance of finding happiness NEXT time.......... so, taking a little time out can be positive as long as you don't take out a few decades of your life as that would be a waste!



Thats what my friends advice me... to go to the next guy and there's a list waiting lol.

Seriously, I believe u cant be happy with the next relationship if you wont correct yourself and learn from the mistakes u made because I know it takes two to break up and make hearts broken.
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Feb 10, 2009 1:08 AM CST how to cure broken heart???
Hellervon
HellervonHellervonSon of Nature/Morehead City, North Carolina USA4 Threads 108 Posts
I don't think that jumping straight into an other relationship would be the healthy thing to do... Let your heart heal first.... Jumping into an other relationship that fast can lead to you and/or the other person getting hurt even worse.
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