What are the advantages of being single and the down side ??? ( Archived) (180)

Feb 8, 2009 4:28 AM CST What are the advantages of being single and the down side ???
petegozo
petegozopetegozoVictoria, Gozo Malta10 Threads 605 Posts
Hi boys and girls.I think being in charge of your own life without censorship from your partner sounds appealing to me.You come,you go,you do what you want to do without explanations would be an advantage.

Going to bed every night by yourself,waking up alone,missing the physical aspect,having no one you can cuddle with and having no one you can share good and bad times are the downsides of being single to me.

What is your take ? How do you cope ?

Care sharing how you feel about it ?

I will be in and out and can't attend to the Thread but will check in periodically to find out how other people tick. wave
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Feb 8, 2009 4:32 AM CST What are the advantages of being single and the down side ???
tumtum52
tumtum52tumtum52trenton, New Jersey USA8 Threads 633 Posts
i finally moved in with someone , not getting married, but slleping alone sucks and no one to talk to
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Feb 8, 2009 4:34 AM CST What are the advantages of being single and the down side ???
petegozo
petegozopetegozoVictoria, Gozo Malta10 Threads 605 Posts
tumtum52: i finally moved in with someone , not getting married, but slleping alone sucks and no one to talk to


Agreed.thumbs up
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Feb 8, 2009 4:40 AM CST What are the advantages of being single and the down side ???
Mercedes1
Mercedes1Mercedes1Sydney, New South Wales Australia101 Threads 1 Polls 3,764 Posts
Advantages being single is not having to knock and wait on the door at the loo and also dont need to buy much toilet paperlaugh
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Feb 8, 2009 4:43 AM CST What are the advantages of being single and the down side ???
nuala
nualanualadublin, Dublin Ireland12 Threads 6,456 Posts
tumtum52: i finally moved in with someone , not getting married, but slleping alone sucks and no one to talk to


That part i agreed with but i also like my own space and i have spent best part of my life looking after others, I feel its my time to shine and do what i want when i want and how i want.....and i dont mean that in a bad way....You need to understand i was sent to live with my gran when i was 11 years old, and she was 80 at the time. She died when i was 19 and i got married at 20 and had my first child, then went on to have 7 more. Sadly my husband died 10 years ago so i was left to take care of the kids now my youngest is 16 and i now have my time back so i am enjoying it. I started college and i am loving it...But if someone special comes along well and good, but if he doesnt well i am still enjoying my life.....teddybear
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Feb 8, 2009 4:50 AM CST What are the advantages of being single and the down side ???
tumtum52
tumtum52tumtum52trenton, New Jersey USA8 Threads 633 Posts
i went through that, but i have all kids out the house, i was single 5 yrs enjoyed dating, had a different date or 2 a weekend, just got old after a while and too much dating makes a guy broke
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Feb 8, 2009 5:02 AM CST What are the advantages of being single and the down side ???
nuala
nualanualadublin, Dublin Ireland12 Threads 6,456 Posts
tumtum52: i went through that, but i have all kids out the house, i was single 5 yrs enjoyed dating, had a different date or 2 a weekend, just got old after a while and too much dating makes a guy broke


I am not going thru that as far as a date every week sure i cant find themrolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing

And i wouldnt make them broke as i do believe in paying my way, probably thats me being too independentdoh

But i am happy you have found someone to settle withteddybear
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Feb 8, 2009 5:05 AM CST What are the advantages of being single and the down side ???
leslie8546
leslie8546leslie8546Northwich, Cheshire, England UK1 Threads 62 Posts
disadvantages......m**turbation....... advantages....... I always know where the remote is.dancing
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Feb 8, 2009 5:07 AM CST What are the advantages of being single and the down side ???
tumtum52
tumtum52tumtum52trenton, New Jersey USA8 Threads 633 Posts
guess i lucked out. suprized me and invited me over for some dessert after dinner
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Feb 8, 2009 5:10 AM CST What are the advantages of being single and the down side ???
omg2008
omg2008omg2008bucks, Buckinghamshire, England UK13 Posts
leslie8546: disadvantages......m**turbation....... advantages....... I always know where the remote is.



rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing
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Feb 8, 2009 5:10 AM CST What are the advantages of being single and the down side ???
Lagoona22
Lagoona22Lagoona22Bugibba, Majjistral Malta161 Threads 11 Polls 10,711 Posts
I love sleeping alone too tho....I can fart and I don't even have to say I'm sorry...angel
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Feb 8, 2009 5:17 AM CST What are the advantages of being single and the down side ???
DoznEggs
DoznEggsDoznEggsAny town, New Jersey USA17 Threads 933 Posts
petegozo: Hi boys and girls.I think being in charge of your own life without censorship from your partner sounds appealing to me.You come,you go,you do what you want to do without explanations would be an advantage.

Going to bed every night by yourself,waking up alone,missing the physical aspect,having no one you can cuddle with and having no one you can share good and bad times are the downsides of being single to me.

What is your take ? How do you cope ?

Care sharing how you feel about it ?

I will be in and out and can't attend to the Thread but will check in periodically to find out how other people tick.


What you said.

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Feb 8, 2009 6:32 AM CST What are the advantages of being single and the down side ???
petegozo
petegozopetegozoVictoria, Gozo Malta10 Threads 605 Posts
Mercedes1: Advantages being single is not having to knock and wait on the door at the loo and also dont need to buy much toilet paper


Yep very true.You even get to use your own soap.grin
I had one once washing her privates with my face soap.crying
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Feb 8, 2009 6:54 AM CST What are the advantages of being single and the down side ???
robinmarie43
robinmarie43robinmarie43Chicopee, Massachusetts USA1 Threads 111 Posts
petegozo: Hi boys and girls.I think being in charge of your own life without censorship from your partner sounds appealing to me.You come,you go,you do what you want to do without explanations would be an advantage.

Going to bed every night by yourself,waking up alone,missing the physical aspect,having no one you can cuddle with and having no one you can share good and bad times are the downsides of being single to me.

What is your take ? How do you cope ?

Care sharing how you feel about it ?

I will be in and out and can't attend to the Thread but will check in periodically to find out how other people tick.


I have been divorced for about 8 years, have dated but would say single most of this time. I don't mind letting someone know where I'm going or what time I'll be home... it's courtesy.... but wouldn't want someone to dictate when I could or could not go. Then again, a good relationship would probably mean my man would come with me 90% of the time. (IMO)
The downside is defintily waking up alone, not having a date at a wedding or family gathering. Nobody to dance with, be goofy with, share stories or make each other laugh... those are the down sides.
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Feb 8, 2009 7:01 AM CST What are the advantages of being single and the down side ???
petegozo
petegozopetegozoVictoria, Gozo Malta10 Threads 605 Posts
robinmarie43: I have been divorced for about 8 years, have dated but would say single most of this time. I don't mind letting someone know where I'm going or what time I'll be home... it's courtesy.... but wouldn't want someone to dictate when I could or could not go. Then again, a good relationship would probably mean my man would come with me 90% of the time. (IMO)
The downside is defintily waking up alone, not having a date at a wedding or family gathering. Nobody to dance with, be goofy with, share stories or make each other laugh... those are the down sides.


Good reply.

The downside is defintely waking up alone. confused

idea How about we all gather in a large group go to bed alone within the group and wake up alone together.

doh

Don't take me too serious . grin
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Feb 8, 2009 7:06 AM CST What are the advantages of being single and the down side ???
buzzy
buzzybuzzybiddeford, Maine USA24 Threads 1,492 Posts
Mercedes1: Advantages being single is not having to knock and wait on the door at the loo and also dont need to buy much toilet paper



Not if you have a 17 year old. He goes thru reems of t-paper!laugh Can you tell me what a loo is. I'm assuming it is the toilet room. Am I correct?
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Feb 8, 2009 7:39 AM CST What are the advantages of being single and the down side ???
stefonline
stefonlinestefonlineDublin, Ireland136 Threads 9,702 Posts
I can snore extremely loudly and no one can complain to me....cheering yay grin
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Feb 8, 2009 7:40 AM CST What are the advantages of being single and the down side ???
stefonline
stefonlinestefonlineDublin, Ireland136 Threads 9,702 Posts
buzzy: Not if you have a 17 year old. He goes thru reems of t-paper! Can you tell me what a loo is. I'm assuming it is the toilet room. Am I correct?



You got it in 1....that is correct the loo is the toilet room...conversing
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Feb 8, 2009 7:42 AM CST What are the advantages of being single and the down side ???
stefonline
stefonlinestefonlineDublin, Ireland136 Threads 9,702 Posts
tumtum52: i went through that, but i have all kids out the house, i was single 5 yrs enjoyed dating, had a different date or 2 a weekend, just got old after a while and too much dating makes a guy broke



You be as tight as a duck's butt then....rolling on the floor laughing
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Feb 8, 2009 7:44 AM CST What are the advantages of being single and the down side ???
stefonline
stefonlinestefonlineDublin, Ireland136 Threads 9,702 Posts
petegozo: Yep very true.You even get to use your own soap.
I had one once washing her privates with my face soap.




I could answer that but I wont.....rolling on the floor laughing
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