why i both long and fear for intimacy? ( Archived) (44)

Feb 15, 2009 2:20 AM CST why i both long and fear for intimacy?
Mystiflower
MystiflowerMystiflowerVale, , UK3 Threads 2 Polls 6 Posts
i hate intimacy. of any sort.

i will be lonely forever unless i get over this.
am i prey of weird psychological stuff??????

i certainly miss support, caring, tenderness and warmth...what to do..im scared of intimacy with anyone....

why i both long and fear for intimacy?
im helpless.....
frustrated frustrated frustrated frustrated frustrated frustrated frustrated frustrated frustrated frustrated frustrated frustrated frustrated frustrated frustrated frustrated frustrated frustrated frustrated frustrated frustrated frustrated frustrated frustrated
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Feb 15, 2009 2:24 AM CST why i both long and fear for intimacy?
Mercedes1
Mercedes1Mercedes1Sydney, New South Wales Australia101 Threads 1 Polls 3,764 Posts
I dont hate it..
But Im going to be scared when I do meet my guy in Ireland!uh oh
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Feb 15, 2009 2:24 AM CST why i both long and fear for intimacy?
Lagoona22
Lagoona22Lagoona22Bugibba, Majjistral Malta161 Threads 11 Polls 10,711 Posts
Celibacy is a beautiful thang...breath in, breath out, relax, wear sunscreen...get used to it. cool
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Feb 15, 2009 2:36 AM CST why i both long and fear for intimacy?
Mystiflower
MystiflowerMystiflowerVale, , UK3 Threads 2 Polls 6 Posts
merceds..i knw its bad but i cant help it wat to do?????
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Feb 15, 2009 2:40 AM CST why i both long and fear for intimacy?
Irishminx
IrishminxIrishminxCork, Ireland16 Threads 2,282 Posts
Mystiflower: merceds..i knw its bad but i cant help it wat to do?????



Start with being intimate with yourself first!
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Feb 15, 2009 2:40 AM CST why i both long and fear for intimacy?
Irishminx
IrishminxIrishminxCork, Ireland16 Threads 2,282 Posts
Mercedes1: I dont hate it..
But Im going to be scared when I do meet my guy in Ireland!



Merc, pray tell who this lucky man is?
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Feb 15, 2009 2:41 AM CST why i both long and fear for intimacy?
Mercedes1
Mercedes1Mercedes1Sydney, New South Wales Australia101 Threads 1 Polls 3,764 Posts
Mystiflower: merceds..i knw its bad but i cant help it wat to do?????


Well ive been on-line dating my guy for 11 months and he knows my feelings on intimacy as I havent been in a relationship for 17 years..
The only person who can help your fears besides yourself is a very caring and understanding guy whom you feel is worth taking a shot at being your guy and best mate for life!
Im entrusting my fears to my guy!hug
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Feb 15, 2009 2:42 AM CST why i both long and fear for intimacy?
honeybee07
honeybee07honeybee07Edinburgh, Lothian, Scotland UK2 Posts
Intimacy is a major part of being in love and that is the most wonderful feeling in the world, grab it if you can while you are young and pretty! Dont delay!! You will not regret it, life is too short to be alone......
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Feb 15, 2009 2:43 AM CST why i both long and fear for intimacy?
Mercedes1
Mercedes1Mercedes1Sydney, New South Wales Australia101 Threads 1 Polls 3,764 Posts
Irishminx: Merc, pray tell who this lucky man is?


Ah you dont miss a beatblushing laugh
His from a site ive been on for 18 months and weve been dating on-line for 11 months!
He knows Im here for the forums only and his from Wicklow!grin
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Feb 15, 2009 2:46 AM CST why i both long and fear for intimacy?
Irishminx
IrishminxIrishminxCork, Ireland16 Threads 2,282 Posts
Mercedes1: Ah you dont miss a beat
His from a site ive been on for 18 months and weve been dating on-line for 11 months!
He knows Im here for the forums only and his from Wicklow!



When are you coming to Ireland Merc?


Good luck to you both, I am thrilled for you


hug
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Feb 15, 2009 2:51 AM CST why i both long and fear for intimacy?
livinglarge
livinglargelivinglargein a good place, Kildare Ireland10 Threads 5,879 Posts
Mercedes1: I dont hate it..
But Im going to be scared when I do meet my guy in Ireland!

Oh really , you have a guy over here applause

good on you Merci thumbs up

when are you coming over ????
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Feb 15, 2009 2:52 AM CST why i both long and fear for intimacy?
livinglarge
livinglargelivinglargein a good place, Kildare Ireland10 Threads 5,879 Posts
Mercedes1: Ah you dont miss a beat
His from a site ive been on for 18 months and weve been dating on-line for 11 months!
He knows Im here for the forums only and his from Wicklow!


wow Wicklow is a beautiful spot heart wings

hey would love to meet up for a coffeethumbs up
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Feb 15, 2009 2:53 AM CST why i both long and fear for intimacy?
Mercedes1
Mercedes1Mercedes1Sydney, New South Wales Australia101 Threads 1 Polls 3,764 Posts
livinglarge: Oh really , you have a guy over here

good on you Merci

when are you coming over ????


Living when I meet him make sure your their as well as Irishminx
Im going to be crying like a fruitloopdoh
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Feb 15, 2009 2:56 AM CST why i both long and fear for intimacy?
livinglarge
livinglargelivinglargein a good place, Kildare Ireland10 Threads 5,879 Posts
Mercedes1: Living when I meet him make sure your their as well as Irishminx
Im going to be crying like a fruitloop


rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing

you will be fine ,
as for the fear of flying , no it wil be fine!
You will the Irish contingent of CS cheering you on cheering

hug
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Feb 15, 2009 2:56 AM CST why i both long and fear for intimacy?
livinglarge
livinglargelivinglargein a good place, Kildare Ireland10 Threads 5,879 Posts
livinglarge: you will be fine ,
as for the fear of flying , no it wil be fine!
You will the Irish contingent of CS cheering you on


doh

you will have the Irish
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Feb 15, 2009 3:04 AM CST why i both long and fear for intimacy?
swkisses
swkissesswkissesbonifay, Florida USA1 Threads 14 Posts
You are apparently gun shy! Get over it and try something new!
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Feb 15, 2009 3:23 AM CST why i both long and fear for intimacy?
Mercedes1
Mercedes1Mercedes1Sydney, New South Wales Australia101 Threads 1 Polls 3,764 Posts
tumtum52: why not make and appointment with a phychiatrist, im sure he would help


Ah the lady just put her heart on a thread instead of her sleeve!
She came for supportwave
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Feb 15, 2009 3:28 AM CST why i both long and fear for intimacy?
tumtum52
tumtum52tumtum52trenton, New Jersey USA8 Threads 633 Posts
Mercedes1: Ah the lady just put her heart on a thread instead of her sleeve!
She came for support
merc my heart feels for her, just a suggestion , when others fail, and some people are embarresed, but they do help, i went through one during my seperation
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Feb 15, 2009 3:30 AM CST why i both long and fear for intimacy?
Mercedes1
Mercedes1Mercedes1Sydney, New South Wales Australia101 Threads 1 Polls 3,764 Posts
tumtum52: merc my heart feels for her, just a suggestion , when others fail, and some people are embarresed, but they do help, i went through one during my seperation


I know your not a nasty man!
Maybe if you mailed the lady privately you could help her to seek help or tell her how you survived!
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Feb 15, 2009 3:34 AM CST why i both long and fear for intimacy?
tumtum52
tumtum52tumtum52trenton, New Jersey USA8 Threads 633 Posts
Mercedes1: I know your not a nasty man!
Maybe if you mailed the lady privately you could help her to seek help or tell her how you survived!
wikk do my best smart ladyangel
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