OK SO I HAVE TO ASK?? (18)
candyshop: In the bad climate that we have at the moment..
When dating a girl how cheap is too cheap????...
Should you still pay for dinner and drinks? or should it be spilt the bill??...
Should you arrive with flowers and a bottle of wine for her or are they a luxury she can do without??....
And the rest any good ideas to date a girl on the cheap but not to seem like a cheap skate...
When dating a girl how cheap is too cheap????...
Should you still pay for dinner and drinks? or should it be spilt the bill??...
Should you arrive with flowers and a bottle of wine for her or are they a luxury she can do without??....
And the rest any good ideas to date a girl on the cheap but not to seem like a cheap skate...
You are gonna hate me hun...
First few dates I believe you should go Dutch...
Unless you are cooking dinner and he can bring a nice bottle of wine.
candyshop: In the bad climate that we have at the moment..
When dating a girl how cheap is too cheap????...
Should you still pay for dinner and drinks? or should it be spilt the bill??...
Should you arrive with flowers and a bottle of wine for her or are they a luxury she can do without??....
And the rest any good ideas to date a girl on the cheap but not to seem like a cheap skate...
When dating a girl how cheap is too cheap????...
Should you still pay for dinner and drinks? or should it be spilt the bill??...
Should you arrive with flowers and a bottle of wine for her or are they a luxury she can do without??....
And the rest any good ideas to date a girl on the cheap but not to seem like a cheap skate...
Its hard to know, i think, what he might consider enough spent, might not be enough as far as she is concerned, then again it might, but its hard to know.
Tamarin: You are gonna hate me hun...
First few dates I believe you should go Dutch...
Unless you are cooking dinner and he can bring a nice bottle of wine.
First few dates I believe you should go Dutch...
Unless you are cooking dinner and he can bring a nice bottle of wine.
Why would I hate you Tam, I believe in splitting the bill one of my friends was here last night and completely disgusted her unemployed boyfriend asked her to stay at home for dinner valentines night he was cooking and all...
May be I have just found one who forgets to eat but just wait till he tastes my cooking
candyshop: Why would I hate you Tam, I believe in splitting the bill one of my friends was here last night and completely disgusted her unemployed boyfriend asked her to stay at home for dinner valentines night he was cooking and all...
You are one of the few girls i know who think like that.
candyshop: In the bad climate that we have at the moment..
When dating a girl how cheap is too cheap????...
Should you still pay for dinner and drinks? or should it be spilt the bill??...
Should you arrive with flowers and a bottle of wine for her or are they a luxury she can do without??....
And the rest any good ideas to date a girl on the cheap but not to seem like a cheap skate...
When dating a girl how cheap is too cheap????...
Should you still pay for dinner and drinks? or should it be spilt the bill??...
Should you arrive with flowers and a bottle of wine for her or are they a luxury she can do without??....
And the rest any good ideas to date a girl on the cheap but not to seem like a cheap skate...
well..if a girl is only impressed or interested by how much money i can spend on her, i wouldnt want to spend any time with her..
for me a good date is not wooing her with a fancy resturant or expensive stuff, but spening time with her, and listening to her and getting to know her.. i dont know about everyone else, but i can never relax properly in a fancy resturant or stuff like that.. i'm more of a quiet coffee shop, with comfy seats and all day to talk and watch the world go by.. costs very little but shows her the real you and not the size of your wallet..
First dates for me dont have to be fancy but yes to my mind the guy pays.
ah you such always bring the girl out on the first few date's but it is nice to get a drink or 2 bought for us guys ... after awhile there's more of a sharing thing ...
vonney: First dates for me dont have to be fancy but yes to my mind the guy pays.
That's it vonney, we're finished!
Well I prefer to pay my own way...but sometimes it just doesnt happen like that if you date a gentleman who insists on paying.....Ive also dated men where Ive been out of pocket on one or two occasions and thats a big turnoff for me ..... I hate stingy men
I would love to be taken out and treated to a nice meal or a few drinks. I would not expect it though.
I don't think its always a case of only wanting someone who can afford to spend loads on us.
My ex could well afford to treat me, yet when I could convince him to go out, even to family wedding/birthday/funeral etc, if I wanted a drink or food or anything at all..I had to give him the money in advance. I had to make it look like he was paying..but he never ever paid for anything out of his own money.
So for me it would be lovely to think that someone would consider me worth treating to a night out.
I don't think its always a case of only wanting someone who can afford to spend loads on us.
My ex could well afford to treat me, yet when I could convince him to go out, even to family wedding/birthday/funeral etc, if I wanted a drink or food or anything at all..I had to give him the money in advance. I had to make it look like he was paying..but he never ever paid for anything out of his own money.
So for me it would be lovely to think that someone would consider me worth treating to a night out.
wexlady41: I would love to be taken out and treated to a nice meal or a few drinks. I would not expect it though.
I don't think its always a case of only wanting someone who can afford to spend loads on us.
My ex could well afford to treat me, yet when I could convince him to go out, even to family wedding/birthday/funeral etc, if I wanted a drink or food or anything at all..I had to give him the money in advance. I had to make it look like he was paying..but he never ever paid for anything out of his own money.
So for me it would be lovely to think that someone would consider me worth treating to a night out.
Well I think u'll find somebody to do dat for you wex. . . . . It's nice to be spoilt on de first date but i also think it's nice to spilt de bill so he won't be broke for de week. . . . . .I don't think its always a case of only wanting someone who can afford to spend loads on us.
My ex could well afford to treat me, yet when I could convince him to go out, even to family wedding/birthday/funeral etc, if I wanted a drink or food or anything at all..I had to give him the money in advance. I had to make it look like he was paying..but he never ever paid for anything out of his own money.
So for me it would be lovely to think that someone would consider me worth treating to a night out.
wexlady41: I would love to be taken out and treated to a nice meal or a few drinks. I would not expect it though.
I don't think its always a case of only wanting someone who can afford to spend loads on us.
My ex could well afford to treat me, yet when I could convince him to go out, even to family wedding/birthday/funeral etc, if I wanted a drink or food or anything at all..I had to give him the money in advance. I had to make it look like he was paying..but he never ever paid for anything out of his own money.
So for me it would be lovely to think that someone would consider me worth treating to a night out.
I don't think its always a case of only wanting someone who can afford to spend loads on us.
My ex could well afford to treat me, yet when I could convince him to go out, even to family wedding/birthday/funeral etc, if I wanted a drink or food or anything at all..I had to give him the money in advance. I had to make it look like he was paying..but he never ever paid for anything out of his own money.
So for me it would be lovely to think that someone would consider me worth treating to a night out.
Okay it is our mission to find Wexy a date with a guy who does not have deep pockets and white Euro notes...
Nah think I'll stick to being single...I can't afford a man in my life!!!!
Thanks for the offer though.
It's nice to pay for a woman when you are out together, it is also nice when she buys a drink or contributes in some way. It shows that she appreciates what you have done and is not making it a big deal either way.
If I saw someone regularly I would be surprised if they didn't offer to pay occasionally but unless they were rich I would expect to be the main payer.
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If I saw someone regularly I would be surprised if they didn't offer to pay occasionally but unless they were rich I would expect to be the main payer.
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a true gent!.....reminds me of that radio ad for a dating site where a male voice says:..n you had the lasagne, thats 8 euro!lol
Its just gud to see any sign that the person youre with is not a penny pincher.....I believe in 50:50..but thats not to say you cant treat each other!
Its just gud to see any sign that the person youre with is not a penny pincher.....I believe in 50:50..but thats not to say you cant treat each other!
On a first date I always insist on paying my share. If there are further dates it's usually a case of taking turns. For occasions like birthdays and such it's nice to be spoilt and to spoil.....
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When dating a girl how cheap is too cheap????...
Should you still pay for dinner and drinks? or should it be spilt the bill??...
Should you arrive with flowers and a bottle of wine for her or are they a luxury she can do without??....
And the rest any good ideas to date a girl on the cheap but not to seem like a cheap skate...