no i think your perfectly entitled not to reply!! i oftens get e-mails that say ''hi ;)'' and i just couldn't be bothered, if they can't make an effort to take time out to write u a proper one then why bother?? but then i often get some horrible ones back saying how rude i am for not replying!! JMO
well the person can see if you read email or not so i think they can draw their own conclusions if no reply personally i reply to emails even if i am not intersted but thats me
I think a thank you for your email usually gets the message across with out being accused of being rude, with IMs I just dont use them and even though it says on my profile I still get men sending them
petalbabeOgdensburg, New York, Cork Ireland3,101 posts
candyshop: Is it ok to not reply to e-mails you get here.. To just delete and ignore them????
Just like you have a right to chat on Im shouldn't you be allowed to ignore and not reply to e-mails??? Or am I just being a Rude B****...............
I used to reply to EVERY email and flower I got, either to say thanks, but no thanks, or to say thank you, Id like to get to know you better.
However, I got so fed up with nasty emails coming back to me when I said I didnt want to take it further, I now just delete and block if I dont want to correspond. Easiest way, I think.
mmmmuntouchable: no i think your perfectly entitled not to reply!! i oftens get e-mails that say ''hi ;)'' and i just couldn't be bothered, if they can't make an effort to take time out to write u a proper one then why bother?? but then i often get some horrible ones back saying how rude i am for not replying!! JMO
I just got one thats why I said i'd ask I email the guy and said I was going to post it here and see what the general opinion is... I think I am entitled to not reply just like a guy is entitled not to reply to me also..
tallaght_guy: well the person can see if you read email or not so i think they can draw their own conclusions if no reply personally i reply to emails even if i am not intersted but thats me
candyshop: I just got one thats why I said i'd ask I email the guy and said I was going to post it here and see what the general opinion is... I think I am entitled to not reply just like a guy is entitled not to reply to me also..
yeah i agree.. its upto the person... but wen u just get a ;) usually means there after one thing!! xx
ladylumps: I think a thank you for your email usually gets the message across with out being accused of being rude, with IMs I just dont use them and even though it says on my profile I still get men sending them
No my Im is off all the time cause it wrecks my head when it's on... But I really am that rude I don't care I will just ignore them... If the send me a long e-mail that witty and it looks like they thought it over then i'l reply but these Hi:) ones can go jump...
i do try and reply to any mail i get... but sometimes i have a few to read, and somethin else will come up and ill forget to reply to people... but, i will always try to reply to an email at least once... thats just me..
gorrestfump: i do try and reply to any mail i get... but sometimes i have a few to read, and somethin else will come up and ill forget to reply to people... but, i will always try to reply to an email at least once... thats just me..
Ok so is it only the girls on this site who get those mails from guy saying either the wilgive you all the sand in the sahara or just ;-), or Hi,
In all honesty if a guy is expecting a reply to a mail should he not make it more than just that.. I do not reply to these messages and never will...
I think I deserve and certainly the rest of the ladies here deserve more than a one worded e-mail.....
candyshop: Is it ok to not reply to e-mails you get here.. To just delete and ignore them????
Just like you have a right to chat on Im shouldn't you be allowed to ignore and not reply to e-mails??? Or am I just being a Rude B****...............
Why wouldnt you want to reply to an email? if someone emails you showing interest, and you are not interested, just say so, but i think it would be better to reply to the person at least, unless they are being rude, then totally ignore them.
candyshop: Is it ok to not reply to e-mails you get here.. To just delete and ignore them????
Just like you have a right to chat on Im shouldn't you be allowed to ignore and not reply to e-mails??? Or am I just being a Rude B****...............
Hey candy
Well each to their own thats what i say... its totally up to you... personally i reply to all even if its only to say no thanks but thats just me... i think a one word email like HI is the pits.. god out a bit of effort in... if some guy sent me HI he would get a mail back alright but not the type of one he was expecting lol
candyshop: Ok so is it only the girls on this site who get those mails from guy saying either the wilgive you all the sand in the sahara or just ;-), or Hi,
In all honesty if a guy is expecting a reply to a mail should he not make it more than just that.. I do not reply to these messages and never will...
I think I deserve and certainly the rest of the ladies here deserve more than a one worded e-mail.....
Well each to their own thats what i say... its totally up to you... personally i reply to all even if its only to say no thanks but thats just me... i think a one word email like HI is the pits.. god out a bit of effort in... if some guy sent me HI he would get a mail back alright but not the type of one he was expecting lol
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Just like you have a right to chat on Im shouldn't you be allowed to ignore and not reply to e-mails???
Or am I just being a Rude B****...............