why cant people be themselves? (30)

Jun 17, 2007 5:18 PM CST why cant people be themselves?
godsglorygal
godsglorygalgodsglorygalSteinbach, Manitoba Canada4 Threads 16 Posts
You need to think about yourself. You also need to have boundries in your life and if he can not respect you for them then it is not worth having him around. You do not want anyone that is controling.

Think of it this way. You are ment for something much better.
Jun 17, 2007 5:25 PM CST why cant people be themselves?
jimkabob
jimkabobjimkabobRegina, Saskatchewan Canada3 Threads 935 Posts
Oooooh, that makes so much more sense now lol.

Then maybe you should have quoted piperella's text block, heh? Franky I don't think it matters much who you where referring to either. And if this is your idea of humor, not getting it.

LOL but maybe I should read some more though.

The more you type, the more you reveal the fact that you obviously have no respect ...lol, so my previouse still stands.
Jun 17, 2007 7:05 PM CST why cant people be themselves?
CaptainMurray
CaptainMurrayCaptainMurraySelkirk, Manitoba Canada59 Threads 2,130 Posts
I don't give a damn what you think anyway.
Jun 17, 2007 7:15 PM CST why cant people be themselves?
curlywolf
curlywolfcurlywolfmontreal, Quebec Canada402 Threads 7,052 Posts
Ok.......let people say what they want cause I am right now...
Look we're 'supposedly' adults here and beyond the name calling stage of life I should hope.
Lately there's been a lot of crap going on in the threads and people r getting removed,some are leaving and many r no longer enjoying the forums.
Common sense and logic could be used and no one would would be insulted.
This just seems the logical road to me....
read the threads...if you don't like a particular one,skip it.
If anyone has a difference of opinion with some one,hey E-MAIL,keep it personal if u need to name call or get dirty.
People come here to talk,have a few laughs,exchange ideas,and make friends and maybe actually meet someone.No need to air dirty laundry for the world to see.
I've said my peice ,now if anyone has anything to rant at me about I'll meet you in my e-mail.
HUGS EVERYONEhug hug

Play nice!
Jun 17, 2007 9:24 PM CST why cant people be themselves?
ibitadustbunny
ibitadustbunnyibitadustbunnypickering, Ontario Canada14 Threads 283 Posts
If you are always worried about trust in the relationship then how could anyone ever trust you? If you think negative thoughts about any new relationship then it's doomed.
Everyone has been screwed at some point in their lives but not everyone is bad. So it's best to put the past behind you and enjoy a new relationship..............Wanna go for a coffee?
hug
Jun 17, 2007 10:03 PM CST why cant people be themselves?
TrueNorthMan7
TrueNorthMan7TrueNorthMan7Barrie, Canada34 Threads 1,096 Posts
Well, let's say you want to write a cheque or use a credit card in somebody elses name.

It wouldn't be smart to be yourself.

Because, then, how would you get the money?

That's another reason people can't be themelves.



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Jun 17, 2007 10:08 PM CST why cant people be themselves?
ibitadustbunny
ibitadustbunnyibitadustbunnypickering, Ontario Canada14 Threads 283 Posts
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I love identity fraudhead banger
Jun 17, 2007 10:50 PM CST why cant people be themselves?
passion4life
passion4lifepassion4lifeStellarton, Nova Scotia Canada2 Posts
Hi, I did alot of thinking and not trusting closes you off from finding someone who is right for you. Maybe taking things slower would be the safest approach. Good luck!!!!
I know I don't want to miss my chance finding someone.

Nina
Jun 18, 2007 12:33 AM CST why cant people be themselves?
texasfireball
texasfireballtexasfireballSarasota, Florida USA3 Threads 53 Posts
Hey it can happen to anyone. keep your chine up. He is not worth you being alone. Life is too short to let someone else CONTROL it.

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Jun 23, 2007 9:55 PM CST why cant people be themselves?
johnmarkus
johnmarkusjohnmarkustoronto, Canada34 Threads 1,384 Posts
Don't allow that generalization to stagnant you into fear be brave be determined the right guy will come along.
There is many men that once they bed a woman live with her they naturally take charge.
It's the primal instinct they have no real education towards having a relationship no spiritual education they are lost not really understanding the times.
It's like a guy who reads part of the bible "the man is the head of the home" and doesn't complete the translation that the"head means to serve his home".
In my opinion the one who is in the home the majority if the time is in charge of it or if both work they are share holders 50/50.
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