Down to earth for me is---a person that works takes care of a home is responsible but yet fun as well. Is easy going able to share what they have who they are without getting bent over it if there are difference. Someone who is patient who can relax who can talk about anything who is social but self preserved at the same time. They would be able to swing beers around a camp fire get down and dirty laugh sing joke around. They wouldn't be thinking how smart they are or feeling down that someone has more than they do. They would be able to give trust respect and appreciate their accomplishments who they are what they do what they get.
To me a down to earth person is someone who is into them self trying to live comfortable and secure.
I don't know how to get this across to you and nothing is getting into your head---a person can't be rude to me one moment and than joke with me the next.
I don't like being centered out in the forums and besides---I send you a nice e-mail and you said ---think you are trying to fool me I am not opening your e-mail" so you obviousily have issues toward me and all your are doing is being malious so let her handle her own affairs
I believe if we can find a partner to share our life with that is compatible to our self in desires responsibility fun that is independent trustworthy loyal that can live separate and function separate believing things are all good---that yes a relationship can work out and last a long time.
This is someone sharing their opinion it's all about what they believe and think what they have concluded that suits them---it has nothing to do personally with the messagers they are applying to the message.
You applied my name to your comment---thats a attack---you are not sharing an opinion you are degrading attacking my person thats all I have been saying to you all along but you are blind to what you are doing--you have poor communication skills.
Given an opinion a way in which you believe your own idea the thought that you have come to in your person that makes it good for you---thats what a opinion is.
She saids the cup is half full---he saids the cup is half empty---we all have different ways to say things or to understand things!
Lady you are attacking and degrading that isn't sharing a opinion thats casting judgement!
Just leave me alone and don't use my name I like you as much as you like me and thats it.
I pick her up we hug give a kiss take her hand walk to the car I hold the door making sure she is comfortable where I kiss her again before shutting the door. I get and ask whay she would be interested in listening to inwhich I would place in the cd and than we would drive to a nice diner for eats where I would pull out her chair which I would order making sure I ask her exactly what she would want and how it be prepared than we would get drinks the kind with umbrellias when we have finished there we would go to a club spend the evening dancing staring into each others eyes kissing to slow songs laughing about life as we relish in each others arms. At the end I would take her to her door and there I would kiss her passionately tenderly saying good night that I had a grweat time till the next have a good night.
Take it all in how it comes learn from it but fear there really isn't a place for it unless you plan on running across the highway during rush hour.
I was with a vampire for many many years since I was a teenager who came from a abusive co-dependent upbringing with biblical morals and values.
Finally after years of counseling for one thing to another thing I see better now.
So making a better choice of who I select and allow into my life guided bye my head and not the small one is the way to go. However it's not a easy task at all because not many have had counseling to make personal corrections to their behaviors and attitudes.
I was at a party when I was a teenager half in the bag from drinking and smoking pot when this rat jumped on me and I threw it across the room--nearly gave me a heart attack at 16 years old.
Btw my friend after freaking said it was a ferret!
It lived bounced off drapes and landed on laundry.
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