Alot of it is the way one thinks that brings on depression since I can't control the weather I place my thoughts on other things that I can control like going to see a movie or watching a dvd or going for a walk for the exercise not focused on the weather though etc etc....
No don't let medical problems hold you down--it's not selfish of you at all.
If a woman comes along just be straight up and if she accepts you for that than be grateful. However remember she accepted you for you just the way you are bye choice her own choice.
Personally I've always thought it selfish of me to assume that a good woman should have to deal with not only me and my wierdness, but also my depression. So, I've kinda kept myself to myself.
I don't know if you are aware of this but that's not a good way to think "good woman"--it sounds like you are placing another above yourself.
Depression has many reasons for coming on and one is to think negative of self.
Just be yourself and keep it real even if it pisses people off---better to be straight up than have to go through another break up when the woman finds out the truth!!!
Some people can't help it just happens naturally but some over indulge and thats the result---anything in moderation isn't going to get a person fat unless they don't move.
Expectations are killers---just become one comes to a date site on the web doesn't mean they are actually looking for anyone. A free place with forums that people socialize with each other given their opinions and just having fun is a cool place to be. Just have fun and see what happens but don't expect it to happen you will feel better.
In war there is many deaths and people mourn the loss of those that die and will blame the one they see as fault but there is never one alone that creates a war it takes the many.
RE: Depression and relationships.
My ideal match loves to clean toilets and floors...'cos I haven't quite brought myself to do it yet.Now thats honesty in it's true form!