Today was clean up the house day. So today i'm cleaning the basement and second floor of my house while my brother helps with the main floor. During my breaks i check up on things in here and have a nice cool beer.
Tomorrow i'm hosting a bbq din-din. Lots of food, music, friends and BEER
First you complain about me not being there and then when i do stay awhile you complain it's too hot. Hey that's not my fault, i didn't pollute the earth. Gee you humans are never satisfied
Thanks for being honest. To address you wants......
1: So if you had constant pressure from your friends that he isn't attractive enough for you, or that they don't want to be seen around him because of his looks, clothes, then you'd still be with him? If it's one thing i know about women it's that they fold under pressure from friends. Hell you can see it on here in thousands of replies.
2: Self sufficient, so if you wanted to go to Hawaii and you had the money but he didn't have the money for the package , would you choose another package? Women usually say self sufficient but then will dump the guy if they can't live up to her lifestyle chooses which again goes back to wanting money.
3: Well of course he wouldn't live with his parents, most adults don't. You always take the worst examples around to make your points. So what happens if he doesn't have a house but rents a condo or an apartment?
Men are not stuck up on the looks part because if we were then tons of women would go dateless. Mean but true. Also how many times have you ladies head from your friends that he had everything but looks wise he wasn't enough. Be honest i'm sure you heard it lots of times but i haven't heard a guy say that yet about a woman.
A guy would rather have a woman who is not that great to look at but has an amazing personality compared to a hot looking girl with money and crap personality.
I am? How do you know this? Maybe i'm seeing someone(not from here)
I've already said before that i have no intention of meeting 99% of the people on here. Also i haven't sent out my roses yet or have asked anyone out. What does that tell you?
No men like women with brains, see you said before you don't stereotype but you just did. Says more than you think about your personality.
See what men don't want is abusive, controlling women. Now not all strong willed women are like that BUT from my experiences every single woman i meet online or in person who claimed this about themselves turned out to be very controlling.
It's their way or the highway so to speak. Once a guy has meet a few women like this they run for the hills, now that not right because that one woman might not be like that but as you displayed some people do judge based on stereotypes. So if you do it don't complain when it's done to you.
Quite simple it's not because you have a brain but because some women who claim they are strong are really control freaks. That's why guys don't stick with you for fear you'll end up like the others.
Your title says it all, if people are acting in here and not being themselves that explains why so many of them are single to begin with.
None of you are as good an actor as you think, which is why your relationships fail. Be honest and don't play games and you might find someone who will want you forever.
Unfortunately most do. Which is the problem. Love transends things like money, material possessions, and small petty issues, yet how many women have divorced or cheated because of those issues. Millions. The biggest reason for divorce is money, what does that tell everyone?
Money doesn't buy happiness, doesn't buy security, doesn't buy truth. All it does buy is headaches with people who are obsessed with it.
Not an expert, just going on the experiences on others, the general society attitude of love and relationships at that time.....(ie...divorce isn't over 50%, partners wren't killing each other, people didn't use sites like ashley madison to cheat on their partners, honesty both in the workplace and in relationship was treasured more than today. Today kiss asses with no experience get top positions just look at the government or that walkerton water scandal.)
I see beauty everyday, in the good things people do for each other, in the kind words strangers may say in passing, in the love that some families have. I don't see beauty in a hypocritical quotes. If most women really thought that way then money, looks, clothes wouldn't matter. If it doesn't matter to men then why to women? Yet we are the ones blamed for being superficial because we find women like Pamula Anderson attractive.
"Not all women look like that" women say, but then not all men look like Brad Pitt or have tons of money.
Do you know the easiest way to pick up a girl if you are mildly attractive? Dress nice, have a roll of cash to flash and drive a flashy car. It works because i've done it hundreds of times and have all types of women wanting me. From single mothers, to plain janes. From poor ladies to well off ladies. It works on every single type there is. Why does it work if women are not superficial?
You're wrong about looks not being right up there, try checking out their responses in the does looks matter thread. Some even admit to being superficial.
Well things have changed If it was up to me i would travel back in time to get a woman from then. Love, relationships and trust meant something back thing not these days.
These days it's always lets see what the grass looks like on the other side.
See everyone lies too but it's best to be honest about your lies.
One thing i don't do is talk behind peoples backs, as you can see i'm right out there with my opinions on others. Hopefully this doesn't get me banned.
Tons of times. I'm very outgoing and friendly and thousands of times i've meet people from the net. Whenever i get really close to someone as a friend or relationship it's always the other persons friends who feel left out and then start bad mouthing me. I even had one try and punch me for taking away his friend, which i didn't.
People in sites like these get jealous of new people fast. That's why i'm reluctant to meet people now because there's so much drama with people today. People have become more jaded and obsessive about others in their lives that they think anyone new will take them away.
The reason why i think people have started acting this way is because of the net. It allows people to sit at home and talk to others but then those people who spend lots of time on the net lose the ability to make new friends in real life. So then what friends they already have, even if they are bad friends to begin with, they cling to them like crazy.
Well i try to be honest the majority of the time, except when it comes to peoples cooking. Sometimes i lie just to make the person feel good about their cooking unless they were trying to make crap to make me choke on. I don't know? Scary if they did do it on purpose though
Why is it that women love these romantic non-materialistic , non-judgmental, non-superficial type quotes but when looking for a guy he has to be 1: Good looking not only to them but their friends as well. 2: Great paying job. 3: Huge house.
Does anyone else think this contradicts their love of those quotes or maybe they feel guilty for being so superficial in the first place and wished they had more of the attitude in the quotes.
Don't spam this thread with nonsense, please be honest with your replies.
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