missmonkey23OPBakersfield, California USAJun 2, 2015
I hear all the time (even myself) saying there are no good men left that want a relationship. I thought I would get you opinion. I mean there is no search filter for good. LOL
Things I think I would like to see in people ... Im sorry if these seem like sarcasm and or juvinille
Honesty ,
I have had so many married men talk to me and then only to find out they are married ... or already in a relationship angry faces ...
Kindness,
Simple gestures of kindness are noticed. Do you just walk past someone who droped their purse or wallet ? Do you hold the door ?
Independence,
Could you bring something to the table in a relationship? Do you even have a persona? enuff said on that topic ...
Foundation
Do you stand firm in your life? If not have you looked into your weaknesses to see what you need to accomplish life?
I mean these are the simpliest of things yet seem the hardest for people to accomplish for whatever reason. Im not saying if youdont or havent that there is something wrong with you because we all have our growth rate. Im still growing. Im just saying that I am trying to be a good lady and I am looking for a man who is trying to be a good man. =)
You listed some of the attributes I would expect from a Good Woman. There are few more. In case she has hobbies like collecting Shoes, Handbags, Scarfs, Jewellery - I would expect her to have a source of income for that. Like her parents, employer, business, brothers and sisters.
Not everyone is a Chef and Queen of the Household. Despite two left hands, she could practice becoming more proficient in it - quarter by quarter.
Some self-assurance would not cause any harm when being a Good Woman.
A drivers license for a Yacht or Boat or the ability to ride a horse is a nice to have extra and not expected from a Good Woman.
What defines GOOD to you ? (2)
I mean there is no search filter for good. LOL
Things I think I would like to see in people ...
Im sorry if these seem like sarcasm and or juvinille
Honesty ,
I have had so many married men talk to me and then only to find out they are married ... or already in a relationship angry faces ...
Kindness,
Simple gestures of kindness are noticed. Do you just walk past someone who droped their purse or wallet ? Do you hold the door ?
Independence,
Could you bring something to the table in a relationship? Do you even have a persona? enuff said on that topic ...
Foundation
Do you stand firm in your life? If not have you looked into your weaknesses to see what you need to accomplish life?
I mean these are the simpliest of things yet seem the hardest for people to accomplish for whatever reason. Im not saying if youdont or havent that there is something wrong with you because we all have our growth rate. Im still growing. Im just saying that I am trying to be a good lady and I am looking for a man who is trying to be a good man. =)
Ms. Rhonda
There are few more.
In case she has hobbies like collecting Shoes, Handbags, Scarfs, Jewellery - I would expect her to have a source of income for that. Like her parents, employer, business, brothers and sisters.
Not everyone is a Chef and Queen of the Household.
Despite two left hands, she could practice becoming more proficient in it - quarter by quarter.
Some self-assurance would not cause any harm when being a Good Woman.
A drivers license for a Yacht or Boat or the ability to ride a horse is a nice to have extra and not expected from a Good Woman.
Any other comments / views are welcome.