Moving on is so hard

by Liza11Mississauga, Ontario, Canada

Jul 2013 261 Views 6 comments

Moving on is so hard

In general. It’s hard when you get attached to someone. And you open up, mentally, emotionally, maybe sometimes even psychically. It’s not even about letting go of the person, it’s more about having to let go, and go through the same routine with someone else. After a while it just seems like every other persons gonna hurt you. It just seems like you’re the only one that gets hurt. Feeling real vounrable today lol.

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Posted: Jul 2013

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mcradloffPlatteville, Wisconsin USAJul 6, 2013

It is hard dealing with other people. I have had my hard time with the cruel words from past people dancing around in my head. I always thought that people were more more civil in Canada, but I guess these things can happen anywhere.

orientalkoruGlenella, Queensland AustraliaJul 9, 2013

So much honesty in here...it's never easy to move on...there's a degree of rejection that we have to deal with and overcome when one leaves us...and if we are the one who left...there's that guilt factor to overcome too. But in general...moving on can be made a little easier when we take our eyes off the other person and concentrate our focus in us. Love yourself like no one can...lift up yourself like no one can...because YOU deserve it. The real gem in your life is YOURSELF. I hope you feel a lot better now.

gnj4uBoston, Massachusetts USAJul 9, 2013

Hi, Liza11,
Writing about how Moving on is so hard has got to make one feel better. If not, hopefully, it will help knowing that we all have been there, at some time in our lives. Thanks for sharing.

beautifulyouNew York, USAJul 9, 2013

Yes, it is Liza.

Ty for your depth of sharing and welcome to The Poet's Corner

Nena00767Enfield, Connecticut USAJul 10, 2013

Hi Liza

You are absolutely correct, moving on and starting over is not a piece of cake. One invests as much as the next person. You give of yourself to make the relationship work. Starting over is fearful as one us more cautious than before, you are more alert and are paying attention. Yes, your feelings get hurt and you might even be let down / disappointed by the person you trusted. So definitely what you are feeling is a normal cycle of someone letting u down. Don't give up there is a great guy out there for each one of us. Be blessed.
Nena