Again, at one point or another, the soul mate becomes centric in a person's inner nucleus. The term one point or another is used because it is not predetermined that the soul mate necessarily will stay for long periods of time. Sometimes the soul mate in question is too passionate, too reckless, too distracted by karmic issues. The other soul cannot navigate around them, yet they love them always, despite being unable to abide their presence (or vice verse). The connection never dies, however. The relief comes in knowing that the love for the other soul will travel into the next life, and into all shared lives after that. There is hope that enlightenment and progression will occur, and that perhaps in a life yet to come both souls can share a better experience.
It is interesting to note, as well, that one of the soul mates can refuse incarnation, while the other one chooses to go forward. In this scenario the soul mate that remains behind is a constant guiding force to the one who has incarnated, often visiting in dreams and at meditation times, as well as offering advice and counsel such as a spirit guide would. The soul mate on the "other side" takes a vested, proactive interest in the incarnated partner, and often is much more present and accessible than a standard spirit guide might be.
One should not lament the fact that they have not yet encountered their soul mate. It will happen, if it hasn't already. The most telling clue in recognizing your soul mate is the frenetic psychic activity that accompanies the experience. Thinking the other's thoughts. Finishing their sentences. Intuiting their moods. Always thinking of them. Thinking of them when they are thinking of you. A passionate, unstoppable need which is hard to be explained, yet a very distinct and magnetic urge. On the other hand, it may be that you have already encountered your soul mate, but did not recognize the experience. If this might be you, try to sit down and contemplate your life a bit.
Think back to when you were a child, in school, and to when you were an adolescent. Think of all the friends you made, the romantic partnerships you encountered. Write down these names and any compelling attributes to the relationship which you still remember. Then think further to your early adult life and beyond, continuing to write all the names, considering them carefully.
Does any person stand out? Is there a fluttering in your chest when your eyes skip over a particular name? If so, attempt to meditate on the name of that person, on the attributes and facets of him or her which you remember. What made the connection so profound? Do any of the examples given above (on how to recognize your soul mate) apply to the relationship in question?
It could be that you have known and loved your soul mate already. This can be a relief for many, giving them permission to stop the search and be content with their life.
texasgent222: Stranger things have happened. Destiny and fate determine where the two of you will meet and what better place than an online social outlet?!
"soulmate" is not someone you can live with , but someone you can't live without! so if he/she is not visible in the nearby vicinity you need to cast a wider net and think 'out of the box" but sadly most people are prejudiced and treat their search as a business transaction which is limited by nationality, colour of skin, financial status and so on so forth. you need to open your eyes to so many people outside your "comfort zone' and look there too. agreed this site is plagued by scamsters and too many false profiles but then a soulmate is so precious that you will have to sift through a lot of chaff to get to the grain.
texasgent222: Stranger things have happened. Destiny and fate determine where the two of you will meet and what better place than an online social outlet?!
Jun 18, 2012 9:07 PM CST Is it possible to find your soulmate on this site?
venezolanisimacaracas, Distrito Federal Venezuela2 Posts
venezolanisimacaracas, Distrito Federal Venezuela2 posts
I'm becoming so pesimistic about this site after being several months here and so far I have just gotten several messages from scammers and players, guys who seem to be interested at the beginning and after a few days they stop contacting me or they just want nothing serious. Maybe because I'm in Latinamerica or I'm in my late 30s that makes difficult to find a real serious man who wants a serious relationship in this Planet. I'm really disappointed.
JeeepersCowpet Bay, Saint Thomas Virgin Islands (USA)6,482 posts
venezolanisima: I'm becoming so pesimistic about this site after being several months here and so far I have just gotten several messages from scammers and players, guys who seem to be interested at the beginning and after a few days they stop contacting me or they just want nothing serious. Maybe because I'm in Latinamerica or I'm in my late 30s that makes difficult to find a real serious man who wants a serious relationship in this Planet. I'm really disappointed.
try to practice patience. You will not be disappointed. I have made some really fantastic friends here. I think you will be very lucky. Just hang in there for a while.
JackBlackadderStuck on a rock, Canary Islands Spain20 posts
I was on this site for a year, took a years break, now that I am back again I see all the same faces I saw two years ago so I would suggest that finding a soul mate on this site is not high in the percentage points unless you are prepared to wait kind of like FOREVER!
JackBlackadder: I was on this site for a year, took a years break, now that I am back again I see all the same faces I saw two years ago so I would suggest that finding a soul mate on this site is not high in the percentage points unless you are prepared to wait kind of like FOREVER!
SingleGuyInDurbs: I agree. You have 1 in a 5 million chance.
If lost you can always resort to me.!
Thanks for the offer, though I doubt you should term it as "resort....". I am sure you are a lovely fella.
Not sure, however, where your statistics come from?
The reason why I say it IS possible is that I met my fella on this site.
I am disappointed in the negative responses here and whilst realism and pessimism are very different things, so is positivity and naivety. Its a fine balance, indeed, but there is much to be said for belief, hope.....
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