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Dec 14, 2012 12:04 PM CSTladies be honest with yourself and tell me what attracts you to a man

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his looks
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4%
his personality
13
24%
has to be both
39
72%
Total Votes
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im 21 years old and i get the sense that women in my age range go for just looks, my brother is a pretty boy and cant get who ever he wants based on his looks, but when i hit the clubs i see decent looking men being rejected all the time based on looks,its as if you have to be a male model these days to even chat for a prolonged period of time, i think the so called stigma is changing and that younger men are seeking women for personality rather than looks because of these hurtful experiences. im not being critical of women in general im just posting from my experience of younger women, what do you people think ?
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Dec 14, 2012 12:11 PM CST ladies be honest with yourself and tell me what attracts you to a man
Ccincy
CcincyCcincyCincinnati, Ohio USA77 Threads 20,535 Posts
A man could resemble the Hunch Back of Notre Dame for all I care , but a sense of humor ,how he treats other people,and being an honest person is what attracts me to a man.
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Dec 14, 2012 12:15 PM CST ladies be honest with yourself and tell me what attracts you to a man
venusenvy
venusenvyvenusenvyCalgary, Alberta Canada27 Threads 20,003 Posts
Many many many things...But then again, Im attracted to men dunno grin
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Dec 14, 2012 12:22 PM CST ladies be honest with yourself and tell me what attracts you to a man
RAHUL143KHAN
RAHUL143KHANRAHUL143KHANDelhi, India12 Threads 2 Polls 51 Posts
Ccincy: A man could resemble the Hunch Back of Notre Dame for all I care , but a sense of humor ,how he treats other people,and being an honest person is what attracts me to a man.
ccincy u r much seniour and so have experiance but the young girls die on looks and personality and if not then must be on rich person.only there are few girls who can leave her all for her love and will support in every condition to her love and that the true love dear...!
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Dec 16, 2012 1:36 AM CST ladies be honest with yourself and tell me what attracts you to a man
Balles
BallesBallesdubai, Dubai United Arab Emirates377 Posts
When you see a man coming from afar, the first thing that gets your attention is his looks. Personality comes later. comfort
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Dec 25, 2012 11:55 PM CST ladies be honest with yourself and tell me what attracts you to a man
frob8: I'm 21 years old and I get the sense that women in my age range go for just looks,

when i hit the clubs i see decent looking men being rejected all the time based on looks,


There is not much chance in a club to have your character or other qualities seen - it is a very loud and superficial world. There is not really an opportunity to get noticed unless you are a male model - or a good dancer -

Maybe the idea is to find women in your age range, and just observe for a while - see what they are looking at or interested in -

My boss at work met her hubby at a club in Miami - married 20 years, now, and very happy.
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Dec 27, 2012 8:20 PM CST ladies be honest with yourself and tell me what attracts you to a man
Saralia
SaraliaSaraliaSomewhere in, Southeast Vietnam Vietnam13 Posts
It has always been the look at first for both men and women. It's natural when you feel you are more attracted to someone who you think prettier/more handsome. This is especially true at parties, clubs, auditions or any crowd where people don't have much chance for more serious talks.

Luckiky life is not about parties and crowds so there IS a consideration for personality. Look may come first but it's the personality which stays. I think this is true for both men and women.
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Dec 27, 2012 8:30 PM CST ladies be honest with yourself and tell me what attracts you to a man
Bluefish22
Bluefish22Bluefish22Chooksville, Bay of Plenty New Zealand16 Threads 1 Polls 909 Posts
Has to have that spark of twinkling happy intelligence in his eyes, and if he makes me laugh with his wit and humour, no matter what his face looked like before, it will suddenly become handsome kiss
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Dec 27, 2012 9:27 PM CST ladies be honest with yourself and tell me what attracts you to a man
Scubadiva
ScubadivaScubadivaNew Jersey, USA106 Threads 11 Polls 2,689 Posts
frob8: im 21 years old and i get the sense that women in my age range go for just looks, my brother is a pretty boy and cant get who ever he wants based on his looks, but when i hit the clubs i see decent looking men being rejected all the time based on looks,its as if you have to be a male model these days to even chat for a prolonged period of time, i think the so called stigma is changing and that younger men are seeking women for personality rather than looks because of these hurtful experiences. im not being critical of women in general im just posting from my experience of younger women, what do you people think ?


I think you are right.
Now I can only speak from how I was when I was your age. Looks first, personality later, BUT I ended up marrying a man who looked average, but had above average intelligence and a fantastic personality. We had a very good marriage and are still good friends today.

My son tells me that here it's all about looks and money among the young women. He meets quality women at the University (looks and brains) and at work. I met my ex at work also. Women go to clubs for fun usually, not meet someone serious. Maybe you're in the wrong place to look for what you want?



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Dec 27, 2012 9:40 PM CST ladies be honest with yourself and tell me what attracts you to a man
marijhie
marijhiemarijhielaiking, New Territories Hong Kong43 Posts
im more on character...he most be honest and down to earth person...just accept me who i am and vise versa///im not after the looks or our age gap as long as we both understand each other then im IN TO THAT MAN IN MYLIFE!!!!!reunion readprofile heart wings
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Dec 28, 2012 11:21 PM CST ladies be honest with yourself and tell me what attracts you to a man
frob8: im 21 years old and i get the sense that women in my age range go for just looks, my brother is a pretty boy and cant get who ever he wants based on his looks, but when i hit the clubs i see decent looking men being rejected all the time based on looks,its as if you have to be a male model these days to even chat for a prolonged period of time, i think the so called stigma is changing and that younger men are seeking women for personality rather than looks because of these hurtful experiences. im not being critical of women in general im just posting from my experience of younger women, what do you people think ?


A lot of things to say but number 1 for me is the EYES, the way he talk and the he move. ..
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