LadyDiz: Nah, I don't hold on to grudges for things done against me. Put on some music and within an hour or two I've forgotten all about it. But do something to hurt those I love and I will be their enemy for life.
So then the answer is yes you hold a grudge. It's a yes or not answer.
I wont lie. Yes there are times when I will hold that grudge. There are times when you have to and it is necessary. People like to pretend like they are above all those silly feelings,but we all have people we don't like and don't associate with. That does not mean we spend time thinking about them or that thoughts of them interfere with or consume our lives. There are people I don't like. I very rarely think of them and when I see them I ignore them.
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Or Both?
I don't know what time it is where you are Larry, are you on night watch too????