If a guy doesn't call/ text how do you respond, after you have been talking/texting (129)

Aug 18, 2014 12:00 AM CST If a guy doesn't call/ text how do you respond, after you have been talking/texting
SoonerGal
SoonerGalSoonerGalPonca City, Oklahoma USA21 Threads 10 Polls 2,363 Posts
Ccincy: I would expect him to tell me why he's no longer interested.If I got no response all I could really do is move on.


you are right, but he's called, texted and then nothing, we are friends on FB so I know he's awake so to say
Aug 18, 2014 12:00 AM CST If a guy doesn't call/ text how do you respond, after you have been talking/texting
SoonerGal: you are right, but he's called, texted and then nothing, we are friends on FB so I know he's awake so to say

How many times have you initiated communication?
Aug 18, 2014 12:04 AM CST If a guy doesn't call/ text how do you respond, after you have been talking/texting
SoonerGal
SoonerGalSoonerGalPonca City, Oklahoma USA21 Threads 10 Polls 2,363 Posts
MADDOG69: How many times have you initiated communication?



well you being the quaint guy, and me being the passive one...ummm once hug
Aug 18, 2014 12:06 AM CST If a guy doesn't call/ text how do you respond, after you have been talking/texting
SoonerGal: well you being the quaint guy, and me being the passive one...ummm once


I'm getting the distinct feeling that he reckons you lost interest in him. How about grow a pair and contact him directly and ask him WTF is going on.

Also. Is he active on the forums?
Aug 18, 2014 12:09 AM CST If a guy doesn't call/ text how do you respond, after you have been talking/texting
SoonerGal
SoonerGalSoonerGalPonca City, Oklahoma USA21 Threads 10 Polls 2,363 Posts
MADDOG69: I'm getting the distinct feeling that he reckons you lost interest in him. How about grow a pair and contact him directly and ask him WTF is going on.

Also. Is he active on the forums?



haha can't grow something I've never had...but no he has no connection with CS
Aug 18, 2014 12:10 AM CST If a guy doesn't call/ text how do you respond, after you have been talking/texting
Ccincy
CcincyCcincyCincinnati, Ohio USA77 Threads 20,535 Posts
SoonerGal: well you being the quaint guy, and me being the passive one...ummm once




So he's the one who's been doing all the calling/texting etc.Seems kinda one sided to me.
Aug 18, 2014 12:15 AM CST If a guy doesn't call/ text how do you respond, after you have been talking/texting
SoonerGal: haha can't grow something I've never had...but no he has no connection with CS

You don't have t1ts? laugh

But seriously... address the point. You contacted him once... out of all the communications that might have happened. Yep. He's just said to himself, this woman ain't interested anymore an he's just moved on.

BTW, you're free to correct me on that. But up to this point, this is how I see it.

People are supposed to meet half way. I've dropped many contacts like that... and I bet there's more than a few that probably asked their women friends in the hours and days after.. OMG why did he stop blah blah. The way I see it, if they worth it, they would have returned the serve more often.

This isn't the 17th century anymore. Even Oklahoma must be into the 20th century by now. It's your prerogative to show interest, while still retaining your dignity at the same time.
Aug 18, 2014 12:17 AM CST If a guy doesn't call/ text how do you respond, after you have been talking/texting
SoonerGal
SoonerGalSoonerGalPonca City, Oklahoma USA21 Threads 10 Polls 2,363 Posts
Ccincy: So he's the one who's been doing all the calling/texting etc.Seems kinda one sided to me.



yes but no...at first yes he did all the texting/calling, but lately its been me, if I ask are you interested its like Yes, but then nothing...ok I'm 50 yrs old, if your interested your interested, but then he shoots me these texts...so how have your 3 days been since we last spoke and it'd like I try to fill him in and then its days before I get a response
Aug 18, 2014 12:21 AM CST If a guy doesn't call/ text how do you respond, after you have been talking/texting
SoonerGal: yes but no...at first yes he did all the texting/calling, but lately its been me, if I ask are you interested its like Yes, but then nothing...ok I'm 50 yrs old, if your interested your interested, but then he shoots me these texts...so how have your 3 days been since we last spoke and it'd like I try to fill him in and then its days before I get a response

Oh... well that's different then. That's a complete contradiction to what you said above that you only initiated communication once with him. Maybe you misunderstood that question. I was talking about initiating on a day per day basis with the same guy.
Aug 18, 2014 12:24 AM CST If a guy doesn't call/ text how do you respond, after you have been talking/texting
SoonerGal
SoonerGalSoonerGalPonca City, Oklahoma USA21 Threads 10 Polls 2,363 Posts
MADDOG69: You don't have t1ts?

But seriously... address the point. You contacted him once... out of all the communications that might have happened. Yep. He's just said to himself, this woman ain't interested anymore an he's just moved on.

BTW, you're free to correct me on that. But up to this point, this is how I see it.

People are supposed to meet half way. I've dropped many contacts like that... and I bet there's more than a few that probably asked their women friends in the hours and days after.. OMG why did he stop blah blah. The way I see it, if they worth it, they would have returned the serve more often.

This isn't the 17th century anymore. Even Oklahoma must be into the 20th century by now. It's your prerogative to show interest, while still retaining your dignity at the same time.



Boy how I love your vigor...really do you see me to be the real passive one? well no you don't, that's why I'm working on #4 or will there be a 4, that is the question
Aug 18, 2014 12:27 AM CST If a guy doesn't call/ text how do you respond, after you have been talking/texting
SoonerGal
SoonerGalSoonerGalPonca City, Oklahoma USA21 Threads 10 Polls 2,363 Posts
SoonerGal: Boy how I love your vigor...really do you see me to be the real passive one? well no you don't, that's why I'm working on #4 or will there be a 4, that is the question


doh you crack me up
Aug 18, 2014 12:28 AM CST If a guy doesn't call/ text how do you respond, after you have been talking/texting
SoonerGal: you crack me up
rolling on the floor laughing

I'm only trying to help. conversing
Aug 18, 2014 12:29 AM CST If a guy doesn't call/ text how do you respond, after you have been talking/texting
SoonerGal
SoonerGalSoonerGalPonca City, Oklahoma USA21 Threads 10 Polls 2,363 Posts
oh yah, play wat?
Aug 18, 2014 12:32 AM CST If a guy doesn't call/ text how do you respond, after you have been talking/texting
SoonerGal
SoonerGalSoonerGalPonca City, Oklahoma USA21 Threads 10 Polls 2,363 Posts
MADDOG69: I'm only trying to help.


doh lol ok well
Aug 18, 2014 12:32 AM CST If a guy doesn't call/ text how do you respond, after you have been talking/texting
SoonerGal
SoonerGalSoonerGalPonca City, Oklahoma USA21 Threads 10 Polls 2,363 Posts
puff puff what? ok laugh
Aug 18, 2014 12:36 AM CST If a guy doesn't call/ text how do you respond, after you have been talking/texting
SoonerGal: lol ok well

Anyway..... so it appears that you HAVE indeed taken the initiative and he hasn't been playing fair ball in the latter stages.

So it's easy then. Forget him. Delete his number. Unfriend on Facebook and block. (if you don't block you'll get sentimental and maybe message him again.)
Aug 18, 2014 12:37 AM CST If a guy doesn't call/ text how do you respond, after you have been talking/texting
psygnar
psygnarpsygnarJleeb Al Shuyoukh, Al Farwaniyah Kuwait2 Threads 1 Polls 988 Posts
SoonerGal: puff puff what? ok


u want some of this kryptochroniconolite i have grin
Aug 18, 2014 12:40 AM CST If a guy doesn't call/ text how do you respond, after you have been talking/texting
Ccincy
CcincyCcincyCincinnati, Ohio USA77 Threads 20,535 Posts
Write him off as a bad debt and move on.
Aug 18, 2014 12:44 AM CST If a guy doesn't call/ text how do you respond, after you have been talking/texting
SoonerGal
SoonerGalSoonerGalPonca City, Oklahoma USA21 Threads 10 Polls 2,363 Posts
MADDOG69: Anyway..... so it appears that you HAVE indeed taken the initiative and he hasn't been playing fair ball in the latter stages.

So it's easy then. Forget him. Delete his number. Unfriend on Facebook and block. (if you don't block you'll get sentimental and maybe message him again.)



but that sounds so mean doh not sure I can do that
Aug 18, 2014 12:45 AM CST If a guy doesn't call/ text how do you respond, after you have been talking/texting
SoonerGal
SoonerGalSoonerGalPonca City, Oklahoma USA21 Threads 10 Polls 2,363 Posts
psygnar: u want some of this kryptochroniconolite i have


nah I'll pass, but thanks
Aug 18, 2014 12:46 AM CST If a guy doesn't call/ text how do you respond, after you have been talking/texting
SoonerGal
SoonerGalSoonerGalPonca City, Oklahoma USA21 Threads 10 Polls 2,363 Posts
Ccincy: Write him off as a bad debt and move on.



I know sounds easy, but not so much
Aug 18, 2014 12:46 AM CST If a guy doesn't call/ text how do you respond, after you have been talking/texting
psygnar
psygnarpsygnarJleeb Al Shuyoukh, Al Farwaniyah Kuwait2 Threads 1 Polls 988 Posts
SoonerGal: but that sounds so mean not sure I can do that



yes u can :) and you'll prolly forget about that guy in like a week tops grin
Aug 18, 2014 12:51 AM CST If a guy doesn't call/ text how do you respond, after you have been talking/texting
SoonerGal
SoonerGalSoonerGalPonca City, Oklahoma USA21 Threads 10 Polls 2,363 Posts
psygnar: yes u can :) and you'll prolly forget about that guy in like a week tops



no, this been off and on for over a year now...you US and in where?
Aug 18, 2014 12:52 AM CST If a guy doesn't call/ text how do you respond, after you have been talking/texting
SoonerGal
SoonerGalSoonerGalPonca City, Oklahoma USA21 Threads 10 Polls 2,363 Posts
psygnar: yes u can :) and you'll prolly forget about that guy in like a week tops



ok sorry but no real guy where you are say's prolly...that's southern
Aug 18, 2014 12:54 AM CST If a guy doesn't call/ text how do you respond, after you have been talking/texting
Ccincy
CcincyCcincyCincinnati, Ohio USA77 Threads 20,535 Posts
Why do some people make things more complicated then they really are?
Aug 18, 2014 12:56 AM CST If a guy doesn't call/ text how do you respond, after you have been talking/texting
psygnar
psygnarpsygnarJleeb Al Shuyoukh, Al Farwaniyah Kuwait2 Threads 1 Polls 988 Posts
SoonerGal: ok sorry but no real guy where you are say's prolly...that's southern



hahahaha. i dooo. i say prolly instead of probably. also sometimes i say aboot grin

not from US at all :)
i live in kuwait
Aug 18, 2014 12:58 AM CST If a guy doesn't call/ text how do you respond, after you have been talking/texting
SoonerGal
SoonerGalSoonerGalPonca City, Oklahoma USA21 Threads 10 Polls 2,363 Posts
Ccincy: Why do some people make things more complicated then they really are?



I know, and I'm one of those
Aug 18, 2014 1:01 AM CST If a guy doesn't call/ text how do you respond, after you have been talking/texting
SoonerGal
SoonerGalSoonerGalPonca City, Oklahoma USA21 Threads 10 Polls 2,363 Posts
psygnar: hahahaha. i dooo. i say prolly instead of probably. also sometimes i say aboot

not from US at all :)
i live in kuwait



yah right, and I have a bridge
Aug 18, 2014 1:03 AM CST If a guy doesn't call/ text how do you respond, after you have been talking/texting
psygnar
psygnarpsygnarJleeb Al Shuyoukh, Al Farwaniyah Kuwait2 Threads 1 Polls 988 Posts
SoonerGal: yah right, and I have a bridge



u don't believe me do ya.

ps - i have a skullcrusher kiss
Aug 18, 2014 1:05 AM CST If a guy doesn't call/ text how do you respond, after you have been talking/texting
SoonerGal
SoonerGalSoonerGalPonca City, Oklahoma USA21 Threads 10 Polls 2,363 Posts
psygnar: u don't believe me do ya.

ps - i have a skullcrusher



oh I believe you have a skull crusher, prolly mine...just wondering why you took so much interest in the south?
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