If a guy doesn't call/ text how do you respond, after you have been talking/texting (129)
SoonerGal: Well what would you do if you guys have been texting/ talking and all of a sudden nothing
no skull crasher is lifting weights loo
SoonerGal: no skull crasher is lifting weights loo
if you're going to be southern, get it right.....you'll prolly be skull crashing if your lifting weights
ok just got a text from him apologizing that he's been working weekends 
and I'm suppose to buy this...
and I'm suppose to buy this...ok just got a text from him apologizing that he's been working weekends and I'm suppose to buy this...
and I'm suppose to buy this...SoonerGal: if you're going to be southern, get it right.....you'll prolly be skull crashing if your lifting weights
like i said SG
im not from US
i live in kuwait
i dont do weights either. im kinda happy the way i am.
and u prolly should not do it either. dont want ur skull crashin anywhere. now do we
jkSoonerGal: ok just got a text from him apologizing that he's been working weekends and I'm suppose to buy this...
its up to u. if u like the guy n want to keep him around. u have to buy it, or dont buy it ya know. but u gotta find out the truth. i mean im at work right now. and im sending this. like ur tellin me a guy cant text when hes working. takes like prolly 3 mins to send a text. if u think properly aboot it.
I'm sure you do...but I have 9mm 
this my friends is how you end a possible war
psygnar: will an ak do
oh that's good, but unfortunately by the time you found me, you would never know the answer
exactly, you wouldn't know the answer or what I'n talking bout, but every other red blood American does :) that's all, good night
psygnar: i dint know there was a war
other than the one thats happening around my country. so i dunno watcha talkin aboot
other than the one thats happening around my country. so i dunno watcha talkin aboot
Aboot? People think Canadians pronounce it like that and we don't!
SoonerGal: Well what would you do if you guys have been texting/ talking and all of a sudden nothing
Silence speaks when Word's can't
@Soonergal If a guy doesn't call/text you just move on. I wouldn't wait around. For a lot of guys the easiest way out is just to walk with no explanation. Cold, but that's the way it is. They don't want to deal with it.
But now you say he has contacted you again? I think if you have known him for a year and he constantly does this then sorry to say I don't think he's that interested in you. If he was he would make more of an effort to keep in touch and not leave you hanging. I would stop communication/delete him from FB etc. or still remain a friend but just don't be there as much, stop initiating contact. Gradually you'll both drift apart.
But now you say he has contacted you again? I think if you have known him for a year and he constantly does this then sorry to say I don't think he's that interested in you. If he was he would make more of an effort to keep in touch and not leave you hanging. I would stop communication/delete him from FB etc. or still remain a friend but just don't be there as much, stop initiating contact. Gradually you'll both drift apart.
Hi SG, I saw that he did get in touch, but will try to answer hypothetical.
If I am not interested in someone I didn't meet in RL, I stop communication from my side completely. I don't think that in a case like this (having never met) telling a person that you are not interested anymore will go down well. If someone does care enough to get in touch (but don't think too many will), I would tell him politely that there is no point.
With "casual" communication in the net, spelling out that you are not interested can be more of an insult imo.
Communication has to be from both sides, but when communication is ignored, I just would forget about it.
I saw that he did get in touch, but will try to answer hypothetical.If I am not interested in someone I didn't meet in RL, I stop communication from my side completely. I don't think that in a case like this (having never met) telling a person that you are not interested anymore will go down well. If someone does care enough to get in touch (but don't think too many will), I would tell him politely that there is no point.
With "casual" communication in the net, spelling out that you are not interested can be more of an insult imo.
Communication has to be from both sides, but when communication is ignored, I just would forget about it.
SoonerGal: yah I know, but I'd really like to hear why, like you suck, or something
Would you rather he respond with a call/text about how his Mom (or Wife) found out he was communicating with you in the "virtual" romance world?
Time to move along, and don't dwell upon it.
Learn from the mistake.
I don't call or text him. No response. It's apparent that for whatever reason there is just not enough interest in continuing.
I used to have trouble letting go, when men did this, but somebody, very wise, once said....don't ask for a post-mortem, because you'll never really be fully satisfied with the answer given, so I don't now. I just sever all contact and move on.
I used to have trouble letting go, when men did this, but somebody, very wise, once said....don't ask for a post-mortem, because you'll never really be fully satisfied with the answer given, so I don't now. I just sever all contact and move on.
BerrySmoothie: I don't call or text him. No response. It's apparent that for whatever reason there is just not enough interest in continuing.
I used to have trouble letting go, when men did this, but somebody, very wise, once said....don't ask for a post-mortem, because you'll never really be fully satisfied with the answer given, so I don't now. I just sever all contact and move on.
I used to have trouble letting go, when men did this, but somebody, very wise, once said....don't ask for a post-mortem, because you'll never really be fully satisfied with the answer given, so I don't now. I just sever all contact and move on.
Great response Berry!
monteisback: I would assume he lost interest in me. After so much talking he probably realized I'm not what he's looking for. It's a bitter pill but better to face it early rather then later
Can't say it better Monte
KNenagh:
Communication has to be from both sides, but when communication is ignored, I just would forget about it.
Communication has to be from both sides, but when communication is ignored, I just would forget about it.
I agree when communication is ignore, better to answer that silence with dead silence !!!
Next!!!
If a man hadn't text me back I'd assume he has lost interest but its funny this should come up because I was thinking what if something happend to me like I died or was very sick how would he know.. He be thinking oh can't be bothered texting her back she no interest.
So my point is thete is no harm in giving just a txt back and say is all okay..
Sure if all is well with him all he can say is not interested and maybe he be polite about it.
Men get knocked back all time because they the ones that usually have to have the courage to ask a woman out in first place so I reckon UAE us ladies just have to feel a little pain too that way sometimes. And someone's loss will be another's gain,,,..if we think too much we go insane,,,, life is like a game. Of card s it the way we play them,,, the cards I mean,
So my point is thete is no harm in giving just a txt back and say is all okay..
Sure if all is well with him all he can say is not interested and maybe he be polite about it.
Men get knocked back all time because they the ones that usually have to have the courage to ask a woman out in first place so I reckon UAE us ladies just have to feel a little pain too that way sometimes. And someone's loss will be another's gain,,,..if we think too much we go insane,,,, life is like a game. Of card s it the way we play them,,, the cards I mean,
james_13: Silence speaks when Word's can't
So right and like CC wrote..write him off and move on.
I'm not sure if anyone answered Monte's question in post #23, but I think DEFINITELY.
But Traveling to visit is seems to me a lot more than texting and talking.
Oh, and Sooner and Psy, get a room.
But Traveling to visit is seems to me a lot more than texting and talking.
Oh, and Sooner and Psy, get a room.
SoonerGal: I know it sounds perfect....but how can someone do someone that way, without something, like you suck, blah blah blah
tears get to guys,give em the water works,he will feel ant high.
SoonerGal: Well what would you do if you guys have been texting/ talking and all of a sudden nothing
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nooo. my mama sent it to me last christmas
i have no clue wat u are talkin abt