hawk69: What I like to do is trace their IP address to find their location, and legally stalk them. To legally stalk is to not get caught. Naturally Im kidding. But I think whatever both choose to do is acceptable, as long as it really isn't a stalker type situation. Both mutually agreeing is the key.
Hawk, you're a goofball, I swear.
I agree with the serious part of your answer. Whatever both agree to, and however both can manage it is the right answer.
Ask them to write a 10,000 word essay describing their life to this point. Then subject them to a grueling question and answer session to clarify details.
I'm teasing.
Maybe.
I think a combination of IM/Emai/Phone calls followed by the meeting to test the "chemistry" is a good start.
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