I think it depends hugely on culture, in some societies family influence is extremely strong, and going it causes problems whether you love the person or not.
morgan5: I think it depends hugely on culture, in some societies family influence is extremely strong, and going it causes problems whether you love the person or not.
Mercedes1: Their was one gal I didnt like for my son
I had to shut up and he soon learnt for himself
see u r selfish on your son matter .... young people they are blend in love .... they dont care long time they need only short time for XXX ........ so matured people need to control same like me
Mercedes1Sydney, New South Wales Australia3,764 posts
jashcd: see u r selfish on your son matter .... young people they are blend in love .... they dont care long time they need only short time for XXX ........ so matured people need to control same like me
My gosh,I don't think it is worth suicide,lmao...If the parents do not accept the girlfriend,you have to think about your future.Your parents wont be around forever,and your the one who will be with the girl,not them.If they don't accept her,just try to keep them away from each other..
KajunQueen: My gosh,I don't think it is worth suicide,lmao...If the parents do not accept the girlfriend,you have to think about your future.Your parents wont be around forever,and your the one who will be with the girl,not them.If they don't accept her,just try to keep them away from each other..
BOBANBOBANPozarevac City, Central Serbia Serbia3,464 posts
KajunQueen: My gosh,I don't think it is worth suicide,lmao...If the parents do not accept the girlfriend,you have to think about your future.Your parents wont be around forever,and your the one who will be with the girl,not them.If they don't accept her,just try to keep them away from each other..
In my opinion, it's YOUR life, not your parents life. HOWEVER, I do understand there is a cultural difference in ideology, so that being said, I would recommend following your cultures beliefs because, after all, your culture, is a part of who you are.
Mercedes1Sydney, New South Wales Australia3,764 posts
Its hard being a parent and having to stand back when something just eats at ya that this gal isnt what she tries to make out she is..
I never said a word as I respected my sons space and feelings but I knew I would be the one hurting more than him and he found out eventually for himself in the long run
Parents that have reservations are the peeps that want the best for their sons or daughters..
I didnt care if she picked up dogs balls for a living in a park..
morgan5: I think it depends hugely on culture, in some societies family influence is extremely strong, and going it causes problems whether you love the person or not.
Mercedes1: Its hard being a parent and having to stand back when something just eats at ya that this gal isnt what she tries to make out she is..
I never said a word as I respected my sons space and feelings but I knew I would be the one hurting more than him and he found out eventually for himself in the long run
Parents that have reservations are the peeps that want the best for their sons or daughters..
I didnt care if she picked up dogs balls for a living in a park..
Just dont try and play my sons for fools
THIS IS A THINKING OF MOTHER . WAHT ABOUT SON?????????????
The solution lies within the culture and the family, you know to well in your culture a mixed relationship is likely to cause problems, so what is your solution?
KajunQueen: My gosh,I don't think it is worth suicide,lmao...If the parents do not accept the girlfriend,you have to think about your future.Your parents wont be around forever,and your the one who will be with the girl,not them.If they don't accept her,just try to keep them away from each other..
MEANS PARENT'S HAVE NO RIGHTS TO SELECT A GOOD PARTNER FOR HIS SON????????????????????
ANONRAFEE: In your culture that is the case, it is different in European culture.
Your post is saying just that YOU feel your parents have that right[/quote
IF CULTER ALTERS THE PARENTS FROM CHILD ,THEN I DONT BELIVE IN CULTURE
Not sure i understand, if you are saying you do not agree with European culture, that is your choice. If you are happy with your culture, why ask the question?????
Not sure i understand, if you are saying you do not agree with European culture, that is your choice. If you are happy with your culture, why ask the question?????[/quot
THATS NOT MY MEAN
I SAID TO SOME FAMILY YOUR FORMULA WORKS NOT ALL.........................
ANONRAFEE: Not sure i understand, if you are saying you do not agree with European culture, that is your choice. If you are happy with your culture, why ask the question?????[/quot THATS NOT MY MEAN
I SAID TO SOME FAMILY YOUR FORMULA WORKS NOT ALL......................... IT NOT 100% CULTER ONLY SAY 20%
I disagree, i was in a relationship for 4 yrs with a Turkish man, his family would not even meet me, it caused huge problems in our relationship because he loved his family and was bought up it was wrong to go against their wishes.
morgan5: I disagree, i was in a relationship for 4 yrs with a Turkish man, his family would not even meet me, it caused huge problems in our relationship because he loved his family and was bought up it was wrong to go against their wishes.
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