I don't know if I was supposed to answer this or not, but it's the truth. I was very picky before and realized that I can't be so picky anymore. I could be turning away the right one for me.
aeg111308: I don't know if I was supposed to answer this or not, but it's the truth. I was very picky before and realized that I can't be so picky anymore. I could be turning away the right one for me.
nothing wrong with being picky... as long as you dont ever regret you decision later on.
samsiteone: Just as in real life, You may be letting your next love slip away.
If you know what you want in a mate, why would you settle for less? There are so many weirdeos out there you have to be picky. Otherwise you can get stuck with a loser, or an abuser.
buzzy: If you know what you want in a mate, why would you settle for less? There are so many weirdeos out there you have to be picky. Otherwise you can get stuck with a loser, or an abuser.
And in REAL LIFE,you HAVE to be picky or you'll get stuck with some dum-dum who thinks that being picky is why I am single.
Dum dum... That hurts, All I'm saying is that it's a good idea to start a friendship with some people and of course choose who you like. It's just a poll and you don't have to choose Picky as your answer, WOOOH! I'm glad I'm not stuck with you miss picky.
hi,good idea to have a resent photo(oh mines 2 years old no beard now and i know it put people off) no photo and they think therll be interest,,oh well,good lucks
RobbieMHertford, Hertfordshire, England UK4,553 posts
If a woman wants a date, it's simple.
All she has to do is go to a crowded place,Smile at every passing man, say "HI" and not be holding any leaflets and the man will stop, chat and then all she has to do is say the magic words.............................................
"how would you like to go for a drink?"
Easy, after that club him, throw him in your boot of your car, get him home, then chain him to the bed and he's all yours.
sasseezlakes entrance, Victoria Australia3,150 posts
lol u have to wait for the one u think is rite, not going to just pick anyone for the sake of dating, well i dont anyway, yep im choosy i deserve to be. no more morons for me lol
buzzy: If you know what you want in a mate, why would you settle for less? There are so many weirdeos out there you have to be picky. Otherwise you can get stuck with a loser, or an abuser.
Let me inform you, weirdos don't come with a sign or tattoo that says "Hey I'm a weirdo" you can never tell. Why must you guys always take it to a negative level... Relax, that's why they call it dating... so you could get to know some one before getting involved.
I'm single because as a single parent it's hard to find time for social activities... But you guys seem to just be shutting people out before you get to know them because "They might be weirdos".
whaaat: yes agree iam picky but don't regret it cause i know it would never have worked.
Stroke a cord here, ha? It would have never worked with who? Never mind... Not my business, Look, I'm no DR.Phil but it could be your negative attitude why it would never have worked.
sasseez: lol u have to wait for the one u think is rite, not going to just pick anyone for the sake of dating, well i dont anyway, yep im choosy i deserve to be. no more morons for me lol
OOOOH! I'm glad you could choose the right one without dating first and getting to know him... Is that some thing I could learn or are you born with this amazing gift.
All she has to do is go to a crowded place,Smile at every passing man, say "HI" and not be holding any leaflets and the man will stop, chat and then all she has to do is say the magic words.............................................
"how would you like to go for a drink?"Easy, after that club him, throw him in your boot of your car, get him home, then chain him to the bed and he's all yours.
sasseezlakes entrance, Victoria Australia3,150 posts
samsiteone: OOOOH! I'm glad you could choose the right one without dating first and getting to know him... Is that some thing I could learn or are you born with this amazing gift.
through trial and error but i dont judge unti i have spoken or msged.
I believe three of the answers would work for most guys: leave a message; flower him; and, show interest. Most guys will jump at the right lady contacting them. This probably works in reverse also. When the man does this to the right lady it should work.
Big_John: I believe three of the answers would work for most guys: leave a message; flower him; and, show interest. Most guys will jump at the right lady contacting them. This probably works in reverse also. When the man does this to the right lady it should work.
I must agree with you it is a two way street.One goes one way the other side goes the opposite if men and woman could think a like on the subject they just might meet instead of passing.
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