stuthebru Forum Posts (34)

RE: another headache for mom...

hi,maybe you have been such a great mum,hes rembering the times you said,i told you so,and now hes so clever hes thinking "if mum picks she carnt blame me after"..my daughter was natonal champion at singing at 15,"go music colage ect" i said, be a star ,,but no she got married,,,now age 24,,devorced with 4 children,now she admits i was right she should of waited,but she carnt blame me,,watch out he will, i learnt alot from being a dad,you may not understand but i think it was mostly as i never had the chance to live with her,it teaches us the hardest yet strongest lessons like ,,we came to give,and selfless love,the diferance between my youth and my daughters is that no one took her children away,like can mostly happen to a man,if he was my son- id open my heart and show him the deepest pain in my life,and the lessons i paid so much to learn,,pm any time.stu.x

8 year-old bride wins divorce,SOMTHING SHOULD BE DONE

today i woke and read this,i carnt belive it still goes on,somthing SHOULD BE DONE FOR GODS SAKE FOR HUMANITIES SAKE,FOR PITIES SAKE AND AS WE SAY ON THE NET,,FFS,, Eight-year-old bride wins divorce

pa.press.net
A Saudi girl of eight, forced by her father to marry a 50-year-old man, has won a divorce.
The girl's mother had been seeking a divorce for the girl, who was married in August - but a Saudi judge had twice rejected the request.
The girl's lawyer, Abdullah al-Jeteli, said he reached an out-of-court settlement with the man allowing the girl to divorce him.
There are no laws in Saudi Arabia defining the minimum age for marriage.
Although a woman's consent is legally required, some marriage officials do not seek it. ,,COULD ANYONE SAY THIS SHOULDANT BE CHANGED AND IS IMPORTANT NOW <STU (RATHER UPSET AND ANGERY THAT A CHILDS LIFE CAN BE ABUSED IN THIS LIFE RUINING WAY)

RE: my first grandchild...Emily Brooke

hi,like my mum said-they had done the hard work on children,now its time to be involved with children and its all plesure time,and yes our role changes(allthough were still needed to keep to cash coming lol)but i find its more stand back and let the perants sort things to the piont they ask ,or really do need help,,i have 4 grandchildren from my only daughter,my perants only just retierd really as my mum is only 61,dad 65 so it looks like we may get another generation in,,fingers x,,and fingers well crossed xxx for those ariving,and im sure your world will be full of joy

RE: my heart is going broken , \yes, i am sure

hi.if you dont mind me saying goodman2008, It maybe you are miss understood,after all your saying your lonely,, youd like to move or at least find someone in usa as you do bissness there,,your serious about this,,and like most of us men your trying to say that you have things to offer(like me saying" im not rich at all but i have my own house and ive never had debt)but your language transations look exspecting, even though your opening your heart to this,hope your not taken wrong anyway and best of luck to you ,stu

RE: do you believe god of the holy bible is the only true god??

,arrrr lo ther Graham(hope thats spelt right)yer long time no see,,15-20 years,yer just had a few things to do,,,ill send you note,,but yes its the plan and your in it somewhere,,

RE: do you believe god of the holy bible is the only true god??

hay never be sorry someone is disabled or that you didant know,from my side im better than most with my hands,and thats got to make me wonder who is the disabled person,lol its my grammer thats disabled my hands have over come it and thats truly spiritual evolution,,(strange that abition was the driving force but amazing that music becomes such a part of us as to be able to hear it and know what notes or cords are being played maybe even know what type of guitar was used watever)its truly a liberation to be involed in music

RE: do you believe god of the holy bible is the only true god??

when all else fails artistic people like myself can allways be pulled up on our grammer,,but this isant a spelling or grammer contest,its simpal comunication about a very deep subject,i may spell wrong watever but as long as im understood and our imformation is passed thats ok isant it ? yes my right shift sticks also im disabled in my hands i have to mouse wrong handed and 1 finger type (carnt even use my pionting finger as its bent more so i hit the wrong ones and then not notice untill its posted,but then we all have our weak pionts and good ones ,,like ive had a cd realeased in 2000 my songs i play everything and produced it(even though im disabled in my hands)and ive also tought 2 natonal champions )music)

RE: do you believe god of the holy bible is the only true god??

,HI,WHAT I SAID IS REALLY THOUSANDS OF YEARS OLD IT MAKES CHRISTAINS A NEW IDEA AND A VERY CONFUSING IDEA ALL THAT GOD STUFF IS ,NO I THINK WHAT I SAID IS THE SIMPAL WHY TO FIND GOD FOR YOURSELF,WHITCH HAS GOT TO BE BETTER THAN PUTTING REALIGONS AND CONSEPS BETWEEN US AND GOD,GETS ME HOW PEOPLE MAKE SUCH A FUSS ABOUT THE BIBLE,THE TIME THEY USE TO STUDY IT WOULD GET THEM FAR ENOUGH IN MEDITATION TO FIND WHATS REAL,THER SPIRITUAL LEADERS ARE DOING THEM AN INJUSTISE BY THAT,AS YOU CARNT BEAT GOING AND SEEING AND FINDING FOR YOURSELF,,

RE: do you believe god of the holy bible is the only true god??

..SORRY ,,WHITCH IS ?

RE: do you believe god of the holy bible is the only true god??

RE--You got to have an Ego(Substance) to be Aware,and to Experience,,YES WE HAVE TO START WITH AN EGO TO BE SERPATE FROM THE WHOLE,THE SECRET IS TAKING THAT SEPERATE AWEARNESS BACK INTO THE WHOLENESS BY DROPING OUR EGO (MEDITATION-STOPING OUR THOUGHTS ECT)AND GOING BACK TO SEE THE WHOLE IN AN AWAKE STATE(UNLIKE SAY THE ANIMALS AS WEVE BECOME SELF AWEARE BY HAVING AN EGO) AND WHEN PEOPLE SEE THE WHOLE,THEY START RAVING ABOUT GOD ECT AS NOW THEY SEE THE TRUE MAGIC OF LIFE,BUT TO CALL IT GOD IS REALLY EGO AGAIN AS ITS LIFE ITSELF

RE: do you believe god of the holy bible is the only true god??

hi,there arnt differant gods just diferant ideas of god,and when WE see enlightenment, we see that what the buddas and holymen really meant was "life itself" is what people call god,but being ego"s we make it into a personal thing and being as thats what we think we are,, so are putting it into our terms,,BE SO CORECT OF US IF DROPT THE NAME GOD AND CALLED IT LIFE FORCE,,STU

RE: Gun Control - Yes/No? Don't Take My Guns!

hi,im from uk so im still sceard of the idea that people can have guns,surly all a gun can do is hurt people,and the problem with taking them off people and then ther attacked whatever is thers still other people with them,id even go as far as to say HOW CAN THER BE PEOPLE HERE LOOKING FOR LOVE,THAT COULD OWN ONE,,THINK OF ALL THE PEOPLE AND CHILDREN WHO HAVE SUFFERD,BRINGING GUNS INTO THIS SITE IS LIKE BRINGING ONE ON A DATE,,(ITS A KIND OF POWER MAD EGO AND FEAR THING,?)

RE: Why girls are so conscious about there face /body ?

hi.why the jacket ,,my idea is thousands of years old being a taoist veiw i think,its been a good enough answer for all enlightend beings that long so good enough for me,lol,ps would you like to know how you could see that you really dont have a face either ? ther is a way,,takes 5 mins and an open mind ?

RE: smoking

hi,in 1985 my docter said im better off smoking my weed than taking his pain killers(opium subs)at a time the uk was hanging people for weed lol,(so ever since i make the pain killers last 3-4x longer than they should),,,,ive smoked 30 years 29 years flat out,my perants longer(dad since age7 he says)and no problems from smoking, maybe carnt run as well as before,but my breathings fine ect and its kept me only 9 stone since i was 14, and for most being too heavey that maybe helps them ,,ok you can put me down for it now,ps,weed (pot canabis)doesant take pain away but thers nothin better for taking your mind off it,and studies show not only does it have 10,000 uses but could and some say will,if people drop ther stigmas about it, be a wonder drug (look it up)without weed id probably given up smoking,but for us weed smokers thers 2 reasons we carnt ,,stu

RE: Women's makeup

hi,oddly i was thinking about this not long ago,as the thought struck me- THEY MUST BE SO INSECURE ? serpose it goes with the idea lifes all about you so as you dont feel good enough youve got to pretend to be better,,then you can blag it out ?,,,SORRY LADIES I KNOW YOU WONT LIKE THAT,,BUT THATS WHAT I WORK OUT FROM IT--ps i dont mind abit,i used to say put it on, small try to wipe it off and whats left is right,x

RE: If women want to find a date or friend here they should:

hi,good idea to have a resent photo(oh mines 2 years old no beard now and i know it put people off) no photo and they think therll be interest,,oh well,good lucks

RE: i bet none of you connectingsingles people never went to college !

I did.

GILLY,LOVES, ASKING 69 QUESTIONS

hi,honney pie,no im not giving up lol,i dont mind the first 10 questions in life,or even the question about an answer,just getting the feeling he gets no satifaction from answers only more questions,or a question would end somewhere easyer,,wondering why ,,ummm,,stu

GILLY,LOVES, ASKING 69 QUESTIONS

i think ill give up answering more than once on your posts gilly ,, as you ask to many questions and then questions about the answers lol is it-- 1 YOU CARNT STOP MAKING LISTS ?-- 2 YOUR MUMMY ALLWAYS MADE YOU WRITE THINGS DOWN,--3 YOU ALLWAYS LOVED COUNTING TO TEN .-- 4 IT HELPS IF YOU PUT THE ATTETION ONTO OTHERS .--5 YOU THINK ITS YOUR JOB TO GET OTHERS TO OPEN UP HERE.--6 YOU ARE LOST IN A QUIZ SHOW AND CARNT GET OUT.-- 7 YOU THINK YOULL FIND A WOMAN OR AT LEAST THE ANSWERS TO THE UNIVERSE THIS WAY.-- 8 GOD TOLD YOU DO IT.-- 9 ITS WHAT YOU DO BEST.-- 10 STAF TOLD ASKED OR PAY YOU TO DO IT.,,haha ,stu

RE: BET NONE OF YOU KNOW WHO YOU REALLY ARE ? AND YOUR 'REAL PURPOSE ON PLANET EARTH ?

HI,IVE PROB ALLREADY ANSWERD THIS,BUT ITS SPIRITUAL EVOLUTION,AND TO GIVE OF OURSELFES,AND I KNOW THAT FOR A FACT, I CRASHED MY CAR 15 YEARS AGO INTO A WALL AT 70-80 MPH,NEXT MIN I WAS LOOKING A MASSIVE PICTURE IN A FRAME,,,A MASS OF COLOURS AND IT HAD A FEW GEMS IN IT,,,,SOMTHING TOLD ME THATS YOUR LIFE, AND THE GEMS ARE YOUR ACHIEVMENTS ,(SELFLESS LOVE,LEARNING TO PLAY GUITAR WITH TWISTED HANDS ,ECT ECT) AND THAT EVEN 1 IS WORTH A LIFE TIME SO ID DONE OK---NEXT IT WAS LIKE THE WINDOWS CAME IN AND I WAS BACK,,ODDLY WASANT A PANEL OK ON MY CAR,WAS NO BONNET OR FRONT END ANYMORE AND THE BACK SEATS WERE UPTO THE FRONT ONES,YET NOT 1 WINDOW BROKEN LIKE ID THOUGHT AS I CAME BACK,,BUT YOU KNOW THE STERING WHEEL WAS TOTALY BENT OVER,NOT IM NOT A BIG GUY (9 STONE FOR 30 YEARS)BUT NO ONE COULD PUSH IT BACK EVEN SAT IN THE CHAIR WITH THER BACK TO HELP THEM PUSH U C,,I TELL THAT STORY THEN I SAY THAT WHEN THEY SAY YOUR LIFE FLASHING BEFORE YOU ,I CAN PROVE I SAW THAT ,AS MINES DIFFERANT SAYING IT WAS A PICTURE, AND AFTER ALL IF WE SAW OUR LIFE IN ONE GO WHAT IT AMOUNTS TO IT WOULD BE LIKE A MORDERN ART MASS OF COLOURS ,LIKE IT WAS FOR ME..OH WELL AND BEFORE YOU ASK ME 10 QUESTIONS GILLY I THINK ILL DO A FULL QUESTION POST FOR YOU M8,,,STU

RE: WHAT'S THE LAST 5 THINGS YOU WOULD LIKE TO SEE OR DO BEFORE YOU LEAVE PLANET EARTH ? AND HAS ANYBODY

lo,gilly again,well when i said i was a 70"S beatle i mean i had a beatles hair cut and style in school(me and my bro had a band we did school disco"s playing beatles shadows and even did brick in a wall to the school ,when it was number 1 all over an xmass that year,,the kids loved it and near brought the house down)- now... after school when i was 17,i thought id go to liverpool to live,so i took a bus early one morning,and walked all over liverpool until i found somewhere to live, just before it got dark or id of gone home and tried another day,,id found a b+b with a loverly irish family,now while i lived ther i went to china town to do fung-fu,and next door was an osho center(guru type meditation place)this was like 1981,and one night i came out from there,and a guy from the house i lived in came out,from the next door at the same time,after our chats he said come after fung-fu help me sort the food and youll be ok and welcome,so i did and obiously we have a look,meeting nice welcoming people,,,and i found no matter what i read of osho he was allways saying,yourll have to find it yourself but heres a way to try,and over years it happens now and then,,like ive said before we carnt stop thinking but it can happen,and if any idea like it stoping is put into our heads ,well ,,life shows us such things and tears us apart enough at times our ego can let go enough,and pop --"" theres only me and im now talking to myself,,lol thats why they say theres only 1 god ,be far better to say theres only 1 life and were all it"",,,

RE: WHAT'S THE LAST 5 THINGS YOU WOULD LIKE TO SEE OR DO BEFORE YOU LEAVE PLANET EARTH ? AND HAS ANYBODY

I was a beatle in the late 70"s serpose,as i was born in 64 i missed it,as my dad said"oh beatles ,that was when i was a kid "my perants were into pink floyd moodlyblues and turned on hippy stuff as they were young,my mum was only 33-34 when i left home,my dads the same age as george harrison(looks more like him than i do)

RE: WHAT'S THE LAST 5 THINGS YOU WOULD LIKE TO SEE OR DO BEFORE YOU LEAVE PLANET EARTH ? AND HAS ANYBODY

hi,again,to try answering your questions gilly-i was 11 and got my 1st stereo,and was taken by the shadows + moody blues,as my dad had let me listen on headphones if i was lucky,then by 12 i saw the beatles and it hit me like ton of bricks(thats for me)in fact the very same thing happend to the beatles they saw elvis,-well i wasant going to learn as fast as normal people,my brother even rembers all the phone numbers back to my mum and dads when we was babies,so i got him into it so he could help me(and hes helpt me all my life,i could never repay all his help)- the reason i needed it was i was born with a genetic disorder,,my ligarments are too short,,im right handed but my right hand never opened properly as the main jionts dont move(my hands to tight)my left has more or less as ive played guitar from then and was young enough that the total hammering of guitar playing i did,you see being rural its oftern been the only thing to do,im 44 now never had a tv lol(but can even tell you whats going on in soaps as people we all know turn ther brains off and waste ther evenings when they could of been creatative)anyway i was never going to be the best at guitar,but my left hand is my right these days,i mouse with my left and 1 finger type,,the meditaion thing is my realigon,i say mine but its mostly on the eastern side as self evolution seems to be the way rather than a sheep,id like to say-never put a reaigon between you and god go direct i think its called taoism said like dowism,its sort of the budists view without the enforced sufering,but what id written is what we find if we stop our thinking in meditaion(whitch is impossable but can happen)we are still alive yet not being seperate as ourselfes,so we have an exspereance of everything else,like 1 time it happend to me at a frends house,we were in his libary room and i tell you like a million books ther,,yet when it happend i knew everything in his books becaurse i was him and the books,,deep yer ?

RE: wow, Im going to be rich - not.........

ther even no so obiuos ,i just had this one,maybe the 28year old loverly blond ,does go for me an oldies but that and the mail,,,i can see through it,,but only as its happend to me b4,,not this time,,see like staff say,,they want your mail adress to get you beyong the web site into ther traps,stu -- Hi

This is the first time I ever try to write someone through the Internet,but I decided to try and use my chance to find my second half, my beloved one. Perhaps, you know the legend that God has divided a person into two halves and scattered these halves all over the world.Now they are looking for each other to be the one complete again,i believe that my second half is walking somewhere in this world waiting for me. I dream of love that inspires, love that makes you feel passion and desire, love that makes you feel complete. Well Relationship does not depends or should not be on beauty alone...It should go along with Mutual and emotional feelings.I have so much love,tenderness, warmth inside of me and I want to give this all to one person who deserves it.I will be waiting for your response impatiently,hope this correspondence could lead into deep feelings. I don't have much time to get on the site much,so I'll suggest you write me to my E-mail: courtneycuttie1979@gmail.com I'll be looking forward to read from you soon.

Courtney.

RE: wow, Im going to be rich - not.........

hi,yer this very type of scam staff warn people about,,hi honney,,your stu,,xx

RE: I don't get it

hi.i think this is a case of,,it worked on his family as a kid,so now the rest of his life the rest of us must take it,its saying- i want attention im not entertained by you enough,,your not looking after me enough mumy,,im used to having things my way to keep the peace in the house,,ect ,ect

RE: Get it off your chest,...... just get out in the open......

hi,im a new 1,and i was asked to jion by an x from 20 years ago i havant seen in 10,who said theres good chats here,so i have,,,ive been singel most my life,and i havant had any interest this century lol,so of course im gonna have a look,,but a strange feeling came over me reading some of the forum,as i realised,,,IM NOT REALLY BOTHERD ANY MORE,ive spent my life trying to end up in that family of my own,,im even a 4x grandad to my 1 daughter ive never lived with but allways been ther for(she said that to me last week )but i know if thingS had been easy id of never learnt what i have,and its sooo deep id have a job trying to explain it,heres one thing - i learnt selfless love from my daughter like from times like when she said at age 9"ive got 9 dads",as shed had had at age 9,and my 1st thought is oh thats terable my second was but wait,,thats 9 people who will look out for her,,now shes 24 i can say i was corect about that and the bottom line was,WE DONT COME TO EARTH FOR WHAT WE WANT,EVEN COMING HERE IS TO GIVE,and EVOLVE, AND LIFE MEANS BEING SERPERATE FROM THE WHOLE (LIFE ITSELF ,CALL IT GOD BUT ITS THE WHOLE UNIVERSE AND ANYTHING ALIVE+ AWARE)trouble is when we come from the whole to be a seperate ego we are naturaly selfish,,whitch life will blast us apart untill hopefully theres less seperateness to us and we can then learn from life the deepest meanings ,right now im thinking the less my life is about me, the closer i am to god or life itself whitch is more the way id rather see it, as the name god has too many pictures put onto me to use any more,,,oh well im getting to deep to call it a little moan for your post,,but it helps to think my way through things on paper,,,stu

RE: A Jazz Chord

hi,m8 top joke ,,loved it serprised even me lol

RE: WHAT'S THE LAST 5 THINGS YOU WOULD LIKE TO SEE OR DO BEFORE YOU LEAVE PLANET EARTH ? AND HAS ANYBODY

lol,one of mine prob the best way,,called reachingout ill write 1st verse and courus-my love is a freedom,that im never gonna lose,takes me high,and takes me low,,hides behind the clues,,,- my love is fire,that is burning through my days,and the nights ,like candel lights,shine upon this maze,--- your love is reachingout,from the silence in your soul,your love is bursting out,from the life that you have known,,,ect

RE: WHAT'S THE LAST 5 THINGS YOU WOULD LIKE TO SEE OR DO BEFORE YOU LEAVE PLANET EARTH ? AND HAS ANYBODY

first i thought what does this mean,then im thinking ,oh yer ,all the ones who have helpt us, to say thank you too before we go,is that the idea ?