caspatch: my second wife had three, 7,9,11 after they were raised she run off go figure
This is just the reason I do not date women with young kids. I'm not raising your, or that other dude's kids. I stuck out a not so good relationship to raise MY son. I would not let someone else do that. My son and I now, and always have had a great relationship. I have seen too many angry kids beacause mom or dad did not stick around. Afterall, what message are you sending your offspring? That are not good enough, or loved enough to work out your problems? Death of a mate is a different issue here. There are way too many fatherless childern in the world today. Think before you plug it gentlemen! If you father the child, raise it. Stop running like a bunch of cowards.
buzzy: This is just the reason I do not date women with young kids. I'm not raising your, or that other dude's kids. I stuck out a not so good relationship to raise MY son. I would not let someone else do that. My son and I now, and always have had a great relationship. I have seen too many angry kids beacause mom or dad did not stick around. Afterall, what message are you sending your offspring? That are not good enough, or loved enough to work out your problems? Death of a mate is a different issue here. There are way too many fatherless childern in the world today. Think before you plug it gentlemen! If you father the child, raise it. Stop running like a bunch of cowards.
I can't really say. On one hand there may be alot of drama, my cousin is a single mother and everyday I hear of a new drama she is going trough. Of course she has aways been a bit of a drama queen but still I don't know if I'm ready for that kind of confusion.
On the other hand, it's a ready made family. I could see how she is with kids and vice vrisa. If she is mean to her kids I know she is not for me.
Jun 11, 2009 2:00 PM CST do men like women with kids
RichardStringerBoston, Lincolnshire, England UK2 Posts
RichardStringerBoston, Lincolnshire, England UK2 posts
Damn, I voted yes, when I meant to vote no. Idiot. I dont hate single mothers. I'd definately go out with a single mother as long as we got on. I mean to me, a single mother is just the same as a single girl without kinds. If I like a girl and wanna go out with her, i'll ask her, regardless of whether she's got kids. And if we got on, i'd still plan to try and stay with her forever.
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yes they tell you one thing...then does another...go figure...