I love women with kids, but at my age I am not going to married someone who has any. I have a life style that doesn't allow room for kids. I raised mine and I don't want to do it a second time. Grandkids--okay.
I would try to keep my children and my relationship seperate. Sorry but I don't think there are any subs. for the real parents. I am a step-child....it just does'nt work.
That's a bit like asking: "Do Americans like Belgians with suitcases?"
First of all. Even the question "Do men like women" can't be answered with a simple answer of "yes" or "no". Not ALL me are going to like ALL women. Most men will like SOME women, and not like others.
I don't think the kids will affect the "liking" part of your question.
A man will like (or not like) a woman, regardless of whether she has kids or not.
But the real question is, are men going to be willing to marry a woman with kids.
And in that case, I'd say it depends on the man, the woman, the kids and the situation that surrounds them all.
Any simple answer to your question would be simplistic and invalid.
RayfromUSA: That's a bit like asking: "Do Americans like Belgians with suitcases?"
First of all. Even the question "Do men like women" can't be answered with a simple answer of "yes" or "no". Not ALL me are going to like ALL women. Most men will like SOME women, and not like others.
I don't think the kids will affect the "liking" part of your question.
A man will like (or not like) a woman, regardless of whether she has kids or not.
But the real question is, are men going to be willing to marry a woman with kids.
And in that case, I'd say it depends on the man, the woman, the kids and the situation that surrounds them all.
Any simple answer to your question would be simplistic and invalid.
Unless a very exceptional case, a woman with children means more trouble than a woman without one. It is just that more people always bring more trouble.
Antjo39: Unless a very exceptional case, a woman with children means more trouble than a woman without one. It is just that more people always bring more trouble.
Antjo39: Unless a very exceptional case, a woman with children means more trouble than a woman without one. It is just that more people always bring more trouble.
Good to see some logics being displayed here...it just makes sense, the more people involved in whatever...the more complicated matters start to be...now if one differ with this your probably too emotionally attached to this thread and might respond by saying something like: "Rubbish"
X_REBEL: Good to see some logics being displayed here...it just makes sense, the more people involved in whatever...the more complicated matters start to be...now if one differ with this your probably too emotionally attached to this thread and might respond by saying something like: "Rubbish"
I knew it would not be long.
I have some of them there brats, so as a single parents, maybe it was why it took me so long to hook up with a person.
WHo cares, I don't, but I think to say that it is easier without children, is fair, of course it is, I would have welcomed children had he got some, but he doesn't so it is easier and as mine are studying in other countries it makes it easier for me to be able to travel.
If I had little ones at home with me, it would have made things harder, however much a person loved me and wanted me, it could have had an impact that may well have been very different.
Now, my kids are approaching the young adult stage, they were desperate for me to meet a person, they were fearful they would have a lonely old spinster for a mother that they would have been encumbered with visiting all the time.
I have some of them there brats, so as a single parents, maybe it was why it took me so long to hook up with a person.
WHo cares, I don't, but I think to say that it is easier without children, is fair, of course it is, I would have welcomed children had he got some, but he doesn't so it is easier and as mine are studying in other countries it makes it easier for me to be able to travel.
If I had little ones at home with me, it would have made things harder, however much a person loved me and wanted me, it could have had an impact that may well have been very different.
Now, my kids are approaching the young adult stage, they were desperate for me to meet a person, they were fearful they would have a lonely old spinster for a mother that they would have been encumbered with visiting all the time.
Finally a woman with some sense... (but that a knew all along) You have a lot of work to do girl...there are so many women out there in need of your teachings (but somehow i reckon thats a lost cause)
And yes i can imagine you as an spinster, living on a hilltop, in your little house, garden overgrown with weeds, overlooking the small village below...town people gossiping about the spinster, some saying she's an evil witch, others saying she lost the love of her life many moons ago...never to marry ever again...
X_REBEL: Finally a woman with some sense... (but that a knew all along) You have a lot of work to do girl...there are so many women out there in need of your teachings (but somehow i reckon thats a lost cause)
And yes i can imagine you as an spinster, living on a hilltop, in your little house, garden overgrown with weeds, overlooking the small village below...town people gossiping about the spinster, some saying she's an evil witch, others saying she lost the love of her life many moons ago...never to marry ever again...
I would make a damn good spinster, I mean hell, let's face it, whatever we are, we should make sure we are good at it.
X_REBEL: Finally a woman with some sense... (but that a knew all along) You have a lot of work to do girl...there are so many women out there in need of your teachings (but somehow i reckon thats a lost cause)
And yes i can imagine you as an spinster, living on a hilltop, in your little house, garden overgrown with weeds, overlooking the small village below...town people gossiping about the spinster, some saying she's an evil witch, others saying she lost the love of her life many moons ago...never to marry ever again...
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