Would you go out with me? (40)

Ok well heres the thing!!! What kind of girls are you interested in?

You're a good looking young man so I don't see a problem in girls being attracted to you. Maybe you're not attracted to the nice girls


Be honest now

aww ....no bit young

go weightlifting, take protein drinks, keep active. Youll be doing something positive for yourself. And It will make you feel good. Im not saying you need to do this but being active and having a healthy interest is a great confidence booster. No excuses, you can do it for YOU.

From personal experience, I can in a sense vouch for this as well. I had poor confidence in myself before I had decided to join the military. But after having joined, and seeing what I could accomplish, it truly was a confidence builder.

Thanks. You might be right. Maybe I am blind by the nice girls since it matters to me about their appearance too.

From my profile, I wrote for my ideal woman:
"Honest, not immature, nice, fair, intelligent is a plus, not picky or a shopping geek, not obsessed with make-up, takes care of them self in a healthy way, smiles is a plus, has something to talk about is a plus, accepts me for what I am, and has at least one similarity of what I am."

Here is a break down of my family real quick: my dad is a professional body building trainer (same as my brother) who both had my high metabolism problem, my mother is a behavioral therapist and bartender, brother civil engineer, elder sister has masters degree in physiology and another in education, and younger sister majoring in speech therapy. I have a BS degree in Culinary Management and getting another degree in Mechanical Engineering. As you can see, I have a family that has all my needs.

Maybe the nice girls are just harder to find in my gene. There is a really nice girl that likes me but my genes turn her off. I just do not feel the connection. My little sister is very nice and very cute. I guess it is like 1 out of a 1,000 to find a nice girl with my type I am looking for. On the other hand, it is 999 out of 1 that is maybe really nice but not fit my genes?

I really want to know who is willing to have a real date with me! 3 people voted it! Post on here please, I am curious.

Hey, I dont get it bout the genes. You say your Dad n bro had high metabolism, they overcame it.U sound like a family of high achievers so u must be like them too. I say, find your mo jo and youll just be fine. Ive high hopes for you, as you say its written in the genes so dont worry too much about it. Youll be just fine. And hey, that nice girl whose genes dont match yours, to hell with that, give her a chance. She likes u, u like her, go for it. There has to be a connection if ye both like each other. Give it a chance to develop, dont let it go. Come on now, see what happens. Young man, stop making excuses. i mean that in the best possible way.

Well, I did not say I like her. Her characteristics just do not match what my "love" connections feel about her. So you are saying just give it a shot, take her out because she like me when I do not feel a connection with her besides I know she is nice? Then after the date, find out if I found the connection?

Wouldn't be very nice if girls as a guy out now days? Like, girls work too now and it is not just the guy who has the money.

Thanks for all your inputs Blondie36!

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"Wouldn't it be very nice if girls as a guy out now days? Like, girls work too now and it is not just the guy who has the money."