Would you go out with me? ( Archived) (40)

Thanks, usually women older than 30 would go out with me but again, it really do not fit my genes.

Well I'll be 42 soon,hope that helped?!

well since you're not gay, you seem nice, but it's more I wouldn't be the good thing for you, keep up the faith and yes be yourself, it will come

You guys are always griping about women being attracted to jerks.

That makes me wonder what kind of women you're all attracted to. Could it be the barbie types???

All miniskirt and no knickers



I know for sure that most of the wonderful ladies on here aren't attracted to jerks at all..Maybe its y'all to blame for being attracted to the wrong kinda women

be your self, but don't wait around waiting to be noticed, just go about your life, whatever it is that you enjoy doing someone who appreciates what you offer, will notice.

Hey, I just read your post and I think you should have more confidence in yourself. You look very young and all I can say is, develop your own unique style, be yourself, chat to girls as friends first, make them laugh. Just dont try too hard, live your life, be happy and youll meet the girl for you. Girls who have refused you might have different types, you might be trying too hard. There are lots of different reasons why some girls might not want to date you. To hell with them, dont let it knock you. And hey, maybe you are looking for dates from the wrong types of girls. Just Remember, without confidence youve nothing and believe your just as good as any guy and 100 times better than the bag guys. Some gal out there will appreciate that. BUT stop trying too hard.

You are cute, but I would more interested in someone more mature. I would consider letting you go out with one of my two granddaughters, but they are still too young. Aside from that I just have two sons who are older than you appear to be.

Hang in there, your time will come.

not so, i find you attractive, as for the jerk type" the kind of guy who shoves people around, talks down to you, treats their girlfriend like a posession, and no for me if she'whoever she is, is kind, intelligent, decent, sense of humor, doesnt matter if shes not people mite consider a barbi type, just plain old nice is fine by me.

Ahhh now my mouth is watering!!!!!

Intelligence is what I am attracted too and why I am with who I am with

Finding out she was a cutie was just an added bonus

OMG.being....him self evidently does`nt work...so i guess

something should be changed

Thanks, the problem, all my life I was not as social because my hearing loss. I really do not have the skills to socialize and be funny. It is still really hard for me to join a group and just talk and listen because it is like listening to aliens who speak from mars with a mixture of my language at the same time. (Not really) But, it is very hard to hear. I always thought if I have better hearing, maybe the world around me will be different. I have the confidence to go up to a girl but I just do not know how to have a girl conversation or simply, a conversation that connects.

Thanks for the advice!

Also, uve a really cute face. Please dont take this wrong but with a little muscle building, a dose of self confidence, making the most of yourself with clothes etc and even a bit more time, you look quite young, youll be reeling them in. Id love to see you go back to the same girls who refused you a date in a few years time when they have kids hanging off them and a dead end hubbie at home, theyll be sorry. Wait and see. Till then make most of yourself, concentrate on you and as you do it and stop dwelling about it, that girl who will be worth it will fall into your arms. I love a good ending and if its any consolation im a bit psychic and I know this will happen for u. Good luck and chin up.

he just young, and unsure, he will be just fine

See what I mean

I will be 22 on Halloween (USA Holiday). I am curious, how old do I appear to be? Most people give me a range from 16-17.

yep he is young...at his age i had my son...

lol

Awe! Thanks for the message! It sounds so true. In about one year, I gain 6 pounds, working out every single day for 2 hours. It is that hard for me to gain weight, I am completely the opposite than people who easily gain weight. I could simply lose 4 pounds of water weight if I stop working out in one month. It is a struggle. It works like this, I have to eat when I am not hungry and always feel full when people who wants to lose weight have to stop eating so much when they are always hungry. High metabolism is the answer.