I don't see where it is a problem to announce intentions and such. Although I am private person by nature the person I met through CS wanted me to let it be known that we are wish to be exclusive since he is no longer on CS. Even if you were to say, hey I have something new going on should not require any explanations. People can become a couple before meeting for the first time due to distance. Until a meeting can be made, there is always time to get to know someone on a deeper level than a physical one.
Sometimes it is hardest to put aside past emotions to do what is right. I have been down this road and have not regretted the humanity I have shown to others even when they had none for me. At the end of the day, I can hold my head up high.
I have made such a move when I was younger and single. I left NYC to go to VA, then to TN with the same person.
I have lived in the country for many years here and have met a very nice guy from up north. I could not move now because of circumstances surrounding the granddaughter I am raising now. He won't leave where he is living, one because that is where he always lived and two because of his job. So I am just his "buddy" now, but that is still better than having nothing at all.
Your daughter is acting out because she does not have stability and security in her life. I experienced the same problem when I my son gave me his daughter and disappeared. I petitioned for custody although grandparents in Tennessee do not have rights. The attorney I had put up a good case for me and the judge agreed that she would be better off with me. Now I would not keep my son from seeing her, but he does not put any effort into it. Her mother is in prison.
It takes so much to help a child in a situation like this. Within a month my baby girl's behavior made a complete change all for the better. Now after two and a half years she is very well adjusted and loving. Never give up trying. Best wishes to ya.
I back the parent's decision to fight the ruling 100%. The problem though is that this boy will be used to set an example to other kids who may intentionally want to bring something to school with the intent to harm someone. The school board once they make a ruling have never been known to change their decision. If one set of parents can make that happen then they feel as if every other parent will bombard them with complaints over rulings set against their child(ren). The only other option may be to remove their son to another school district rather than have his education interrupted and scar him emotionally.
Oh yes. I suffer from arachnophobia. Makes no difference what size they are, I could hurt myself trying to get someone to take care of it. If I have to take care of it on my own it is the most skin crawling feeling for me.
Open heights and deep water also puts the fear of God into me.
On all the the above mentioned, I had suffered bad experiences prior to having such fears.
My younger son has been in the National Guard for 3 yrs. and the thought of him going overseas is always a present danger. He did not want to tell me that his unit if up to be shipped out next. He was just going to leave and not tell me. I was sick when he told me all of this.
Ultimately it is your decision whether or not to join. It does have it good points, but the jury still seems to be out on whether or not it has done any good. A great many soldiers have been lost and there is no end in sight. You really need to do some hard thinking before you make a decision. I am at risk of losing one son and could not advise someone else's son to do the same. My son had joined a few months before he ever told me about it. He did not want me to worry.
If you were to try and tell him, he would take up for her most likely. No one wants to believe that their love is not true blue. The best to do will be to see how things go and if needed, just be a supportive friend. It is a tough call no matter what you decide.
For one, violent or otherwise it is not a good setting. On the other hand it took two to tango and make these kids, so it is a sociatal problem not a female one. Yes seriously.
Hey there. My baby girl is down with another ear infection. ER Saturday afternoon and on the phone to the pediatrician in a few hours. She finally fell asleep and I am to worried to sleep.
RE: Just too much waiting for someone
With youth comes impatience. It is a double edged sword, but you must realize good things come to those who are willing to wait.