It's been done I know... Would you move across the country to continue a long distance relationship? ( Archived) (49)

That would depend on my family circumstances at the time

Yes.

No I am not moving! I'm at home and this is where I am staying.

Well, that shows how flexible you are. Or not.

Flexibility has nothing to do with it. I have moved many, many times in my life. I love where I am. This is where I want to be. If this keeps me from finding someone to share my life, so be it. I will live alone.

yeah its nothing to do with being flexable,.. everyone has diffrent circumstance and reasons why they wouldnt or couldnt move.... We have to do what is right for us

I guess it depends on our current situation. For me, I worked hard to get set up with land and a home that I built myself. It took years to do it, but I would hate to start all over again. If I was asked if I would relocate before I bought this place, I would say yes in a second. But now, too much is at stake for me and some others who have land and a home they worked so hard to get. I would never also ask a woman to take me in, I think it should always be the man that should try to have everything established before settling down or at least have his own place the woman can move into instead. However, with so many independent women out there, its hard for some of them to give up what they worked so hard for as well. So there is that medium of compromise I guess in which will be willing to give up what they have to basically start over somewhere else. Its a hard choice in those situations.

If I was renting, no problem.
Then there is that part of everyone's life such as their good job, family and or friends they would move away from and some women have good friends they want to keep around, since moving means also making new friends, but finding a job is another story. Some its easy to do that, others its not.
It all depends on the person and their situation.

If the job sucks, you are renting, have no close friends and just a lot of off and on friends, then it would be easier if you have a solid group of friends a good job and if you owned your home.

for love who knows

Being close to a girl that you may have a future with isn't a bad thing, but changing lifestyles could be a culture shock , it's hard to make an adjustment from city to country living and vice versa, I have lived in both and can adapt if need be but for someone such as yourself who has had no experience with a rural type of life style I think would find it difficult. But maybe she would be worth giving it a try, you can always go back if it doesn't work out.Good Luck