It's been done I know... Would you move across the country to continue a long distance relationship? (49)

Oct 16, 2009 6:03 AM CST It's been done I know... Would you move across the country to continue a long distance relationship?
kissmedeeply
kissmedeeplykissmedeeplyPetitcodiac, New Brunswick Canada70 Threads 15,139 Posts
Yes i done it..

I moved to North Carolina..

and then we moved back here to Canada
Oct 16, 2009 6:05 AM CST It's been done I know... Would you move across the country to continue a long distance relationship?
jeepers
jeepersjeepersCowpet Bay, Saint Thomas Virgin Islands (USA)57 Threads 10,968 Posts
LaVerdad: I would move to outerspace for the right person.
thumbs up

Me too !! cool
Oct 16, 2009 6:07 AM CST It's been done I know... Would you move across the country to continue a long distance relationship?
Amenda
AmendaAmendashenyang, Liaoning China84 Threads 2,867 Posts
LaVerdad: I would move to outerspace for the right person.


Just as brave as me!!!

But I'd rather like goodfriend to be lazy at home...rolling on the floor laughing
Oct 16, 2009 6:09 AM CST It's been done I know... Would you move across the country to continue a long distance relationship?
Amenda
AmendaAmendashenyang, Liaoning China84 Threads 2,867 Posts
goodfriend: Never say never, who know's whats ahead of us,right now im just happy lying in bed with not a care in the world today.
thumbs up teddybear
Oct 16, 2009 6:09 AM CST It's been done I know... Would you move across the country to continue a long distance relationship?
jeepers
jeepersjeepersCowpet Bay, Saint Thomas Virgin Islands (USA)57 Threads 10,968 Posts
Amenda: Just as brave as me!!!

But I'd rather like goodfriend to be lazy at home...
giggle then what ? devil
Oct 16, 2009 6:14 AM CST It's been done I know... Would you move across the country to continue a long distance relationship?
Amenda
AmendaAmendashenyang, Liaoning China84 Threads 2,867 Posts
jeepers: then what ?


Waiting for brave man come to me, of course!
Don't come if you are a coward...lol

I'm a ...ogress with big stomach...rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing
Oct 16, 2009 6:16 AM CST It's been done I know... Would you move across the country to continue a long distance relationship?
jeepers
jeepersjeepersCowpet Bay, Saint Thomas Virgin Islands (USA)57 Threads 10,968 Posts
Amenda: Waiting for brave man come to me, of course!
Don't come if you are a coward...lol

I'm a ...ogress with big stomach...
confused ogress with big stomach ?? You pregnant ? uh oh
Oct 16, 2009 6:22 AM CST It's been done I know... Would you move across the country to continue a long distance relationship?
SummerUK
SummerUKSummerUKWashington UK, Tyne and Wear, England UK24 Threads 8,842 Posts
Yes I would if he was Verrrry Special grin

Hey Amenda, KMD and Jeeps wave hug

How are you all today? bouquet
Oct 16, 2009 6:22 AM CST It's been done I know... Would you move across the country to continue a long distance relationship?
Amenda
AmendaAmendashenyang, Liaoning China84 Threads 2,867 Posts
jeepers: ogress with big stomach ?? You pregnant ?
laugh

no need to pregnant, just normal status but big quantity food..I can eat... rolling on the floor laughing
Oct 16, 2009 6:23 AM CST It's been done I know... Would you move across the country to continue a long distance relationship?
Amenda
AmendaAmendashenyang, Liaoning China84 Threads 2,867 Posts
SummerUK: Yes I would if he was Verrrry Special

Hey Amenda, KMD and Jeeps

How are you all today?


Hi darling, how are you? nice to see you !!hug teddybear
Oct 16, 2009 6:24 AM CST It's been done I know... Would you move across the country to continue a long distance relationship?
Amenda
AmendaAmendashenyang, Liaoning China84 Threads 2,867 Posts
jeepers: ogress with big stomach ?? You pregnant ?


No, only one ogress, no another one....rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing
Oct 16, 2009 6:27 AM CST It's been done I know... Would you move across the country to continue a long distance relationship?
sweet_saucy2008
sweet_saucy2008sweet_saucy2008Northwest, Tennessee USA506 Posts
I have made such a move when I was younger and single. I left NYC to go to VA, then to TN with the same person.

I have lived in the country for many years here and have met a very nice guy from up north. I could not move now because of circumstances surrounding the granddaughter I am raising now. He won't leave where he is living, one because that is where he always lived and two because of his job. So I am just his "buddy" now, but that is still better than having nothing at all. grin
Oct 16, 2009 6:29 AM CST It's been done I know... Would you move across the country to continue a long distance relationship?
SummerUK
SummerUKSummerUKWashington UK, Tyne and Wear, England UK24 Threads 8,842 Posts
Amenda: Hi darling, how are you? nice to see you !!


Hey my sista from a different mista grin

I'm really good thank you.. I haven't seen you for a while. How are things with you now?


hug purple heart hug
Oct 16, 2009 6:34 AM CST It's been done I know... Would you move across the country to continue a long distance relationship?
Amenda
AmendaAmendashenyang, Liaoning China84 Threads 2,867 Posts
SummerUK: Hey my sista from a different mista

I'm really good thank you.. I haven't seen you for a while. How are things with you now?


oh, just like usual

mista???...sorry, what's that meaning pls?
and what purple heart means?confused hug confused hug
Oct 16, 2009 7:02 AM CST It's been done I know... Would you move across the country to continue a long distance relationship?
SummerUK
SummerUKSummerUKWashington UK, Tyne and Wear, England UK24 Threads 8,842 Posts
Amenda: oh, just like usual

mista???...sorry, what's that meaning pls?
and what purple heart means?


laugh

Ok well you know aaaages ago we said we were sisters? lol Well Mista (Mister) is a man

Sistas from a different Mista (man) dunno lol Lil heart is just a symbol of Love

Hope you haven't been having any more trouble with people from here hug
Oct 16, 2009 8:08 AM CST It's been done I know... Would you move across the country to continue a long distance relationship?
ttom500
ttom500ttom500St. Cloud, Florida USA30 Threads 5 Polls 10,523 Posts
Can we say..."been there and done that"...............

"de javu".........................


"handwriting on the wall"........................


or.......just when do the DEM plan to do that next bailout?

With now only $116b left in TARP II. Yes, they spent a bunch of it over the last few months as the town hall occurred. The town halls were about many things....but mostly health care.... the DEMs used the public focus on health care to spend much of TARP II. One can wonder why that CA Marsh Mouse is smiling so much these days.

BUT.......make that a BUT in 20 point phont, please. They also allowed mortage loans to be rebundled into those financial packages.
Can anyone say (new regulations and rules for financial institutions) with a straight face, please.

Now....FHA....the primary FED housing lender is in trouble. Having 20% of loans going bad. And yesterday, Bank of America announced a
$2.24 b lose for the 3rd quarter. Citi Bank and JP Morgan already had reported 3rd quarter loses.

The foreclosure rate is staying steady, with unemployed decreasing slightly over the 3rd quarter.

Though the stock market hit 10000 for the first time since the economic crisis of 08. Mostly on guess what? industrial earning and improved GNP. But companies that have downsized are basically doing more with less....to increase profits. So it is not being seen across the economy yet.

SO? ....make that SO? again in 20 point phont. The banks that are taking loses.....will soon be back with hat in hand for a FED gov't bailout. And FED institutions like FHA will being standing in line with them.

The economy is still driving on one cylinder. FED government spending. To be running full speed, it needs ...consumer confidence and spending (most stores are projecting a bad holiday). B to B investment (but Rush Limbuagh cannot be part of a group to own a pro football team). In the black financial institutions.

But as we all know by now......Health Care is the big challenge and if we get that done....consumer confidence will occur, Rush Limbaugh can own a football team, and the financial institutions will be in the black.:-)<----sarcistic smile

Expect the next bailout early next year. The DEM know that doing during the holiday season makes for trouble when they come home for the holiday recess.
Oct 16, 2009 8:12 AM CST It's been done I know... Would you move across the country to continue a long distance relationship?
ttom500
ttom500ttom500St. Cloud, Florida USA30 Threads 5 Polls 10,523 Posts
please mods scratch these post from this thread.......was intended for the Dude's Obama....how it got here.....I don't know....



ttom500: Can we say..."been there and done that"...............

"de javu"........................."handwriting on the wall"........................or.......just when do the DEM plan to do that next bailout?

With now only $116b left in TARP II. Yes, they spent a bunch of it over the last few months as the town hall occurred. The town halls were about many things....but mostly health care.... the DEMs used the public focus on health care to spend much of TARP II. One can wonder why that CA Marsh Mouse is smiling so much these days.

BUT.......make that a BUT in 20 point phont, please. They also allowed mortage loans to be rebundled into those financial packages.
Can anyone say (new regulations and rules for financial institutions) with a straight face, please.

Now....FHA....the primary FED housing lender is in trouble. Having 20% of loans going bad. And yesterday, Bank of America announced a
$2.24 b lose for the 3rd quarter. Citi Bank and JP Morgan already had reported 3rd quarter loses.

The foreclosure rate is staying steady, with unemployed decreasing slightly over the 3rd quarter.

Though the stock market hit 10000 for the first time since the economic crisis of 08. Mostly on guess what? industrial earning and improved GNP. But companies that have downsized are basically doing more with less....to increase profits. So it is not being seen across the economy yet.

SO? ....make that SO? again in 20 point phont. The banks that are taking loses.....will soon be back with hat in hand for a FED gov't bailout. And FED institutions like FHA will being standing in line with them.

The economy is still driving on one cylinder. FED government spending. To be running full speed, it needs ...consumer confidence and spending (most stores are projecting a bad holiday). B to B investment (but Rush Limbuagh cannot be part of a group to own a pro football team). In the black financial institutions.

But as we all know by now......Health Care is the big challenge and if we get that done....consumer confidence will occur, Rush Limbaugh can own a football team, and the financial institutions will be in the black.:-)<----sarcistic smile

Expect the next bailout early next year. The DEM know that doing during the holiday season makes for trouble when they come home for the holiday recess.
Oct 17, 2009 11:41 PM CST It's been done I know... Would you move across the country to continue a long distance relationship?
amelie13
amelie13amelie13Sydney, New South Wales Australia16 Threads 3 Polls 327 Posts
RJP401: I know, it's been done. Thank you to anyone who lets me know that it's already been done. And I also understand how ridiculous this is. Thanks in advance for pointing that out too.
I've always lived in the city. Between parents, I've lived in Providence, Rhode Island and NYC, New York. I've been talking to (and even took a trip out to see), an amazing girl that I met on a vacation. She's been asking if I wanted to move out to where she is, and I'm considering it. The thing is... she lives in some DEEP country. I mean, they make horror movies set in this kind of place. I don't know if I can handle that
So, anybody have any advice?


I don't know what kind of job or lifestyle you currently have but it sounds like you will have to give it all up to move to be with her. I'm intrigued she's expecting you to move. I wonder if she would be just as prepared to move to be with you. Hmmm.

If you do move, where will you work? Will you be able to find a job that at least pays as well as the one you have now? How easily will you be able to meet new people & make friends? Just depending on your gf for social interaction is a lot of pressure on your relationship IMO.

I guess the flip-side is that 'amazing' people are not always that easy to find. If you really feel you cannot be without this girl, you may find you will have to move, whether you really want to or not. I suspect deep down you probably already know if this will work out long term. Good luck.
Oct 18, 2009 4:07 AM CST It's been done I know... Would you move across the country to continue a long distance relationship?
sunset73
sunset73sunset73Geneva, Switzerland2 Threads 45 Posts
RJP401: I know, it's been done. Thank you to anyone who lets me know that it's already been done. And I also understand how ridiculous this is. Thanks in advance for pointing that out too.
I've always lived in the city. Between parents, I've lived in Providence, Rhode Island and NYC, New York. I've been talking to (and even took a trip out to see), an amazing girl that I met on a vacation. She's been asking if I wanted to move out to where she is, and I'm considering it. The thing is... she lives in some DEEP country. I mean, they make horror movies set in this kind of place. I don't know if I can handle that
So, anybody have any advice?




I am used to traveling and living in different countries, therefore my answer would be yes. I would do it but there has to be something extremely special going on between me and that man, there has to be a very strong connection and excellent communication between us. I would fly to the moon if I had to, only to be with him dancing blushing

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