mshl8188: Am wondering what it takes to be a boyfriend. Haven't yet been in such relationship. So, I want to understand the way girls look at guys.
That depends on their age and maturity level. As we get older, we find that the outside matters less than the outside, or at least is equally important. It also depends on the individual.
It's his interest, consideration and attentiveness he shows in me. He may say he likes me, but does he really show it? Does he spend time with me, or does he come by once in a while, when it's convenient for him? Does he do what he says he's going to do? Call when he says he's going to call? I expect the same respect and consideration from a man I'm dating as I expect to receive (and give) when dealing with anyone else in my personal and business life. That's where, at least my relationships, have failed, because the men I've known, for the most part, have taken me far, far too much for granted. Courtesy, manners, respect, consideration. I don't think that's too much to ask.
It's his interest, consideration and attentiveness he shows in me. He may say he likes me, but does he really show it? Does he spend time with me, or does he come by once in a while, when it's convenient for him? Does he do what he says he's going to do? Call when he says he's going to call? I expect the same respect and consideration from a man I'm dating as I expect to receive (and give) when dealing with anyone else in my personal and business life. That's where, at least my relationships, have failed, because the men I've known, for the most part, have taken me far, far too much for granted. Courtesy, manners, respect, consideration. I don't think that's too much to ask.
druidess6308: That depends on their age and maturity level. As we get older, we find that the outside matters less than the outside, or at least is equally important. It also depends on the individual.
ladichatterlee: It's his interest, consideration and attentiveness he shows in me. He may say he likes me, but does he really show it? Does he spend time with me, or does he come by once in a while, when it's convenient for him? Does he do what he says he's going to do? Call when he says he's going to call? I expect the same respect and consideration from a man I'm dating as I expect to receive (and give) when dealing with anyone else in my personal and business life. That's where, at least my relationships, have failed, because the men I've known, for the most part, have taken me far, far too much for granted. Courtesy, manners, respect, consideration. I don't think that's too much to ask.
I totally agree with you. May you get a perfect match soon.
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