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Dec 22, 2009 4:44 PM CSTNEEDS THE COMMUNITY HELP!!!!
famfirst21
famfirst21famfirst21clearwater, Florida, USA4 Threads 4 Polls 18 Posts

NEEDS THE COMMUNITY HELP!!!!(Vote Below)

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STAY!!!!!!
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GO!!!!!!!
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Total Votes
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well my fiance is in the military and stationed at FT stewart Gerorgia USA i live Florida USA and i really want to move up there with her and be with her for the long haul but i have a job and been with it for like 5 months now. my grandmother is the only family i got down here and she might have Thyroid cancer but the results havent came back in yet and probably wont for a couple more days. i am stuck tryin to make the right decision cause i dont want to have to start all over once again for like the 7th time in my life and im only 21. i really love her with all my heart and she the same for me. im just stuck trying to find out what is truly best for me i dont want to lose her shes my everything.. so im just asking the community for some help stay or go and plzz give advice leave comments i would love to hear them thanks so much
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Dec 22, 2009 4:47 PM CST NEEDS THE COMMUNITY HELP!!!!
Olsojente
OlsojenteOlsojenteOslo/Zadar, Oslo Norway51 Threads 5 Polls 5,070 Posts
And she's happy with you being on a singles site??


dunno
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Dec 22, 2009 4:48 PM CST NEEDS THE COMMUNITY HELP!!!!
ladyfingers
ladyfingersladyfingersclovis, nm, New Mexico USA261 Threads 1 Polls 5,456 Posts
I think that no matter what we say, you are going to do whatever you want but my opinion is that since you are only 21, give it some time and think it over. If you went and your grandma ended up having cancer, you'd beat yourself up for leaving, plus, it's not all that easy to find a new job these days.
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Dec 22, 2009 4:52 PM CST NEEDS THE COMMUNITY HELP!!!!
famfirst21
famfirst21famfirst21clearwater, Florida USA4 Threads 4 Polls 18 Posts
i use it only for Blogs Polls and to get my poetry out there not looking just asking questions and getting answers and comments
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Dec 22, 2009 4:53 PM CST NEEDS THE COMMUNITY HELP!!!!
BlainX
BlainXBlainXmansfield, Ohio USA205 Threads 188 Polls 1,424 Posts
Jobs in the states are almost priceless...

You didn't state if she's pressuring you to move there or not?
But obviously it weighs heavy on your mind?

I know on a military base you probably feel better about with her.

I would only move if she's working on finding you a JOB.
However,
Some relatiosnship's do work with not being together much?
Hillary and Bill Clinton? LOL!

But that seems implied, that it's not to be an option here with you?
beer
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Dec 22, 2009 4:55 PM CST NEEDS THE COMMUNITY HELP!!!!
famfirst21
famfirst21famfirst21clearwater, Florida USA4 Threads 4 Polls 18 Posts
no shes not pressuring me at all to move although she really wants me to but no pressuring
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Dec 22, 2009 4:57 PM CST NEEDS THE COMMUNITY HELP!!!!
menu2
menu2menu2Near Galveston Island, Texas USA2,106 Posts
BlainX: Jobs in the states are almost priceless...

You didn't state if she's pressuring you to move there or not?
But obviously it weighs heavy on your mind?

I know on a military base you probably feel better about with her.

I would only move if she's working on finding you a JOB.
However,
Some relatiosnship's do work with not being together much?
Hillary and Bill Clinton? LOL!

But that seems implied, that it's not to be an option here with you?
Who? Hilary or Bill?
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Dec 22, 2009 5:00 PM CST NEEDS THE COMMUNITY HELP!!!!
BlainX
BlainXBlainXmansfield, Ohio USA205 Threads 188 Polls 1,424 Posts
That's Good!

No matter what anyone says on here to you it'll ultimately be up to you?

I do have one peice of experience for you.
21 years old is really, really, YOUNG!

I wouldn't feel hopeless about finding your LIFE partner until at least 31... LOL!

cheering
famfirst21: no shes not pressuring me at all to move although she really wants me to but no pressuring
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Dec 22, 2009 5:04 PM CST NEEDS THE COMMUNITY HELP!!!!
menu2
menu2menu2Near Galveston Island, Texas USA2,106 Posts
Hey Blain! How R U 2day?popcorn
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Dec 22, 2009 5:06 PM CST NEEDS THE COMMUNITY HELP!!!!
BlainX
BlainXBlainXmansfield, Ohio USA205 Threads 188 Polls 1,424 Posts
menu2: Hey Blain! How R U 2day?

Hello,
Great Menu>
As long as there's NO DUDE? uh oh
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Dec 22, 2009 5:08 PM CST NEEDS THE COMMUNITY HELP!!!!
menu2
menu2menu2Near Galveston Island, Texas USA2,106 Posts
BlainX: Hello,
Great Menu>
As long as there's NO DUDE?
R U going to his thread later?barf popcorn
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Dec 22, 2009 5:10 PM CST NEEDS THE COMMUNITY HELP!!!!
BlainX
BlainXBlainXmansfield, Ohio USA205 Threads 188 Polls 1,424 Posts
menu2: R U going to his thread later?


I might go see Avatar tonight.

That should make more since then he does???roll eyes
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Dec 22, 2009 5:14 PM CST NEEDS THE COMMUNITY HELP!!!!
menu2
menu2menu2Near Galveston Island, Texas USA2,106 Posts
BlainX: I might go see Avatar tonight.

That should make more since then he does???
Have you been to 'Americans Please Watch'. Pretty interseting....just started.wave
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Dec 22, 2009 5:15 PM CST NEEDS THE COMMUNITY HELP!!!!
BlainX
BlainXBlainXmansfield, Ohio USA205 Threads 188 Polls 1,424 Posts
NO but i'll definitely check it out?handshake
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Dec 22, 2009 5:19 PM CST NEEDS THE COMMUNITY HELP!!!!
menu2
menu2menu2Near Galveston Island, Texas USA2,106 Posts
BlainX: NO but i'll definitely check it out?
I think no one is debating right now.popcorn
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Dec 22, 2009 5:21 PM CST NEEDS THE COMMUNITY HELP!!!!
BlainX
BlainXBlainXmansfield, Ohio USA205 Threads 188 Polls 1,424 Posts
Cool Menu!

Fam remember your just 21 &
Good Luck!

wave
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Dec 22, 2009 5:27 PM CST NEEDS THE COMMUNITY HELP!!!!
famfirst21
famfirst21famfirst21clearwater, Florida USA4 Threads 4 Polls 18 Posts
thanks Blaine
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Created: Dec 2009
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