well my fiance is in the military and stationed at FT stewart Gerorgia USA i live Florida USA and i really want to move up there with her and be with her for the long haul but i have a job and been with it for like 5 months now. my grandmother is the only family i got down here and she might have Thyroid cancer but the results havent came back in yet and probably wont for a couple more days. i am stuck tryin to make the right decision cause i dont want to have to start all over once again for like the 7th time in my life and im only 21. i really love her with all my heart and she the same for me. im just stuck trying to find out what is truly best for me i dont want to lose her shes my everything.. so im just asking the community for some help stay or go and plzz give advice leave comments i would love to hear them thanks so much
I think that no matter what we say, you are going to do whatever you want but my opinion is that since you are only 21, give it some time and think it over. If you went and your grandma ended up having cancer, you'd beat yourself up for leaving, plus, it's not all that easy to find a new job these days.
You didn't state if she's pressuring you to move there or not? But obviously it weighs heavy on your mind?
I know on a military base you probably feel better about with her.
I would only move if she's working on finding you a JOB. However, Some relatiosnship's do work with not being together much? Hillary and Bill Clinton? LOL!
But that seems implied, that it's not to be an option here with you?
BlainX: Jobs in the states are almost priceless...
You didn't state if she's pressuring you to move there or not? But obviously it weighs heavy on your mind?
I know on a military base you probably feel better about with her.
I would only move if she's working on finding you a JOB. However, Some relatiosnship's do work with not being together much? Hillary and Bill Clinton? LOL!
But that seems implied, that it's not to be an option here with you?
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