Your first date...dates late... "would you wait or not?" (35)

Jan 4, 2010 2:01 PM CST Your first date...dates late... "would you wait or not?"
crystalpistol: Just wondered what other people would do. Thanks...Crystal
I'm a nice guy--try to give people the benefit of the doubt. As I've gotten older, however, more and more I am not willing to wait. It's my opinion, too, that people are "late" on purpose. It's game-playing. Let me tell you something I have learned: No one is worth giving up your inner character and respect for. No one. If it feels like you are being "pushed" (by the person who is late) and you really believe you are in the right--ditch him (or her). People need to be on time. Period. If, as a busy medical assistant/home-owner/ etc... I could be on time and answer calls and letters, then anybody can. I just don't buy it. People can, and should, be punctual.
Jan 4, 2010 7:09 PM CST Your first date...dates late... "would you wait or not?"
cynthie
cynthiecynthieCold Mountain, North Carolina USA1 Threads 1 Polls 30 Posts
Not me. It's a better strategy to test resolve over a period of several weeks, or even months. rolling on the floor laughing

Seriously, I would not do that although I can't speak for other women. That tack might have its virtues but I think we should treat people the way we ourselves would want to be treated and if I knew someone was testing me like that, I'd walk out the door FAST.

But I'd wait for a little bit for a legitimate reason. Seems resonable.
Jan 4, 2010 7:30 PM CST Your first date...dates late... "would you wait or not?"
laura139
laura139laura139Broomfield, Colorado USA11 Threads 1 Polls 668 Posts
I'd wait, hopefully there was a good reason, and there has been on the few that it's happened to me. wine thumbs up
Jan 4, 2010 7:32 PM CST Your first date...dates late... "would you wait or not?"
ber rabbit: i'm late. i'm late for a very important date
Jan 7, 2010 1:28 PM CST Your first date...dates late... "would you wait or not?"
crystalpistol: Just wondered what other people would do. Thanks...Crystal
i,d think i,d wait ,4 ten mins ,while waitin i be scarlet ,and wonderin is he watchin from afar ?blushing
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