I don't think most people, men or women, are picky enough.
Most people don't really know what they want, they might know what they don't want based on some negativity from the past but they are doomed to repeat it anyway because they just respond to what feels good or bad in the moment.
At 19, you are learning the ropes. Enjoy the times. It never does much good to try and figure out what is wrong with other people or complain and generalize about others. Use your experiences to be the best that you can be.
DMouse: Don't guys do exactly the same thing. I think you'll find they do. Why? We are raised to expect disney style fireworks in a relationship when in fact we are natural creatures who choose each other based on our primal instincts then we live in the most unnatural way. It's amazing ANY relationship lasts.
DMouse: Don't guys do exactly the same thing. I think you'll find they do. Why? We are raised to expect disney style fireworks in a relationship when in fact we are natural creatures who choose each other based on our primal instincts then we live in the most unnatural way. It's amazing ANY relationship lasts.
i find all this to be very true... and its sad... for the reality of it
DMouse: Don't guys do exactly the same thing. I think you'll find they do. Why? We are raised to expect disney style fireworks in a relationship when in fact we are natural creatures who choose each other based on our primal instincts then we live in the most unnatural way. It's amazing ANY relationship lasts.
NebraskaNubee: I could say all the same things about myself!,,,With the exception ,,I have a grown daughter. I am one of those "girls" who choose the "wrong" guy,,,25 years ago?? Guess I'm paying for that(STILL) I guess nobody worth while will want me, since I made such a poor choice so long ago?? Even though I raise a great young woman, have good morals, would never cheat steal or lie. Im wearing the scarlet letter of my long ago past? I may as well throw in the towel!...
You are honest about yourself, why throw in the towel??
NebraskaNubee: I could say all the same things about myself!,,,With the exception ,,I have a grown daughter. I am one of those "girls" who choose the "wrong" guy,,,25 years ago?? Guess I'm paying for that(STILL) I guess nobody worth while will want me, since I made such a poor choice so long ago?? Even though I raise a great young woman, have good morals, would never cheat steal or lie. Im wearing the scarlet letter of my long ago past? I may as well throw in the towel!...
There will be throwing in of he towel! You are a very honest woman and seem to be very careing. I'm sure that you will find a wonderful man that will care for you the way you should be and be thrilled just to be with you
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Most people don't really know what they want, they might know what they don't want based on some negativity from the past but they are doomed to repeat it anyway because they just respond to what feels good or bad in the moment.
At 19, you are learning the ropes. Enjoy the times. It never does much good to try and figure out what is wrong with other people or complain and generalize about others. Use your experiences to be the best that you can be.