Desertguy49South Western Desert, Arizona USA2,259 posts
I've been involved in online / phone LDR's and they never seemed to work. It would be much easier to make a decision if you could meet shortly after a few conversations. But what does a pencil drawing know...
jazzmine866: I am just wondering if another people think you can or can not connect to someone that you have not met yet.
Meeting someone thru the net and communicating by phone or text may only show perseverance and certain level of education. If by connectability means plain friendship someone whom you can open up with then by no means yes. But if that word means romantic or even love, I doubt it. For me to love somebody is to appreciate his persona, the real him in flesh not virtual. Or I can have that virtual connectability. In that case I better be a cartoon character.
annie_nswCoffs Harbour, New South Wales Australia528 posts
jazzmine866: I am just wondering if another people think you can or can not connect to someone that you have not met yet.
My answer is yes.Our Souls bring people together and we the humans have the choice.People come into our lives for many different reasons be it theirs or yours.The true answer for you though is within you and that is the only real answer you need pay attention to.Namaste
May 21, 2010 9:27 AM CST is it possible to connect to a person if you have not met them but you text and talk on phone often?
nicki_loveoriginally from Venus, Port of Spain Trinidad and Tobago15 Threads374 Posts
nicki_loveoriginally from Venus, Port of Spain Trinidad and Tobago374 posts
NoBratzHowzThat: you posted that i said what love is and i didn't
there was some jumping to conclusions as what i posted was completely taken out of context when you announced that i said or as you typed it, "where you said" but i typed "i READ" and i suggested that it might be better to carefully read what a post says before announcing a misstatement toward something i posted.
to quote you, "simple, very simple."
Ok so we are straying way off the original topic here... If I mis-quoted you and that offended you, I am sorry! I realise you are quite sensitive to what I said and you're being quite technical. So in an effort not to make an enemy here on the site, Ms. Bratz, I offer my humblest apology.
It still doesnt change my opinion but hey in life if we learn to agree to disagree, we might be able to prevent some great conflicts!
May 21, 2010 9:37 AM CST is it possible to connect to a person if you have not met them but you text and talk on phone often?
nicki_loveoriginally from Venus, Port of Spain Trinidad and Tobago15 Threads374 Posts
nicki_loveoriginally from Venus, Port of Spain Trinidad and Tobago374 posts
annie_nsw: My answer is yes.Our Souls bring people together and we the humans have the choice.People come into our lives for many different reasons be it theirs or yours.The true answer for you though is within you and that is the only real answer you need pay attention to.Namaste
May 21, 2010 9:43 AM CST is it possible to connect to a person if you have not met them but you text and talk on phone often?
genbenTrincity, Tunapuna/Piarco Trinidad and Tobago2 Posts
genbenTrincity, Tunapuna/Piarco Trinidad and Tobago2 posts
I love your comment Jazzmine, are you are truly someone with heart and soul and alot of wisdom. The chemistry we get and connections we make is not always physical.
Thanks for your wisdom
annie_nsw: My answer is yes.Our Souls bring people together and we the humans have the choice.People come into our lives for many different reasons be it theirs or yours.The true answer for you though is within you and that is the only real answer you need pay attention to.Namaste
May 21, 2010 9:46 AM CST is it possible to connect to a person if you have not met them but you text and talk on phone often?
genbenTrincity, Tunapuna/Piarco Trinidad and Tobago2 Posts
genbenTrincity, Tunapuna/Piarco Trinidad and Tobago2 posts
I love your comment Annie-NSW, are you are truly someone with heart and soul and alot of wisdom. The chemistry we get and connections we make is not always physical.
Thanks for your wisdom
annie_nsw: My answer is yes.Our Souls bring people together and we the humans have the choice.People come into our lives for many different reasons be it theirs or yours.The true answer for you though is within you and that is the only real answer you need pay attention to.Namaste
The question is simple, but the answer is complex. Yes you can make a connection with a person via text and talking. The definition of the connection is what is complex.
I believe no 'real' connection can occur with me until I feel the chemistry and experience the spark in being with you. I have felt a connection with several ladies via emails, messages, texts and talking on the phone. I found I could communication very easily with them. Then I met them and I felt nothing. No connection! It was without chemistry....I didn't feel the spark I need.
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Nope.
Absolutely not.
Definately a No-No..
Nada