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Long distance lovers: Dating fears of having them live in your city. ( Archived) (5)

Jul 18, 2010 7:27 AM CSTLong distance lovers: Dating fears of having them live in your city.
Intellow
IntellowIntellowPretoria, Gauteng, South Africa19 Threads 16 Polls 185 Posts

Long distance lovers: Dating fears of having them live in your city.(Vote Below)

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Knowing you are'nt who you said you are
1
5%
Finding out you aren't what you made yourself out
1
5%
They may find other people more interesting than y
0
0%
May fall for your cute friends
0
0%
May have just wanted a way into the country via yo
4
18%
May just simply leave you
1
5%
Use you for all they can get and then disappear
1
5%
You have no fears at all
10
45%
Embarras you by being a low life
1
5%
May Cheat!
3
14%
Total Votes
22
Just thinking... I would hate it if he were to milk me dry !
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Jul 20, 2010 2:29 AM CST Long distance lovers: Dating fears of having them live in your city.
annie_nsw
annie_nswannie_nswCoffs Harbour, New South Wales Australia11 Threads 1 Polls 682 Posts
Intellow: Just thinking... I would hate it if he were to milk me dry !


From my experiences over the past 11 years a lot of people dont date locally for many reasons such as they are still married, they are sperated but fear being seen by friends who know both parties,they dont want to run into their ex,they need an excuse to get out of their comfort zone so seek in another town, they like the idea of a shared weekend away without commitment or they just have this inner knowing that the one they seek doesn't live locally.
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Jul 20, 2010 2:57 AM CST Long distance lovers: Dating fears of having them live in your city.
xxDandelionxx
xxDandelionxxxxDandelionxxunknown, Hampshire, England UK8 Threads 3,426 Posts
My fella HAS moved into my neighbourhood. In fact, he's moved in with me. That's fine, of course, though....

He did go out in his shorts and a pair of crocs... ohhh God!! doh The shame!

Just waiting for all the "For Sale" signs to go up.... roll eyes

laugh
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Jul 20, 2010 3:28 AM CST Long distance lovers: Dating fears of having them live in your city.
annie_nsw
annie_nswannie_nswCoffs Harbour, New South Wales Australia11 Threads 1 Polls 682 Posts
xxDandelionxx: My fella HAS moved into my neighbourhood. In fact, he's moved in with me. That's fine, of course, though....

He did go out in his shorts and a pair of crocs... ohhh God!! The shame!

Just waiting for all the "For Sale" signs to go up....


laugh a kodak moment for sure especially in your parts..lol they do it all the time here so no shame in it and when done proper it can look rather dashing, would be more shame to those who pass judgement on him..
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Jul 20, 2010 4:17 AM CST Long distance lovers: Dating fears of having them live in your city.
xxDandelionxx
xxDandelionxxxxDandelionxxunknown, Hampshire, England UK8 Threads 3,426 Posts
annie_nsw: a kodak moment for sure especially in your parts..lol they do it all the time here so no shame in it and when done proper it can look rather dashing, would be more shame to those who pass judgement on him..


There is no shame, no. It really was tongue-in-cheek, a joke? Of course, what he was wearing at any given time wouldn't outweigh the man he is..... smitten


Well, unless it was cowboy boots, of course?! roll eyes doh I do have SOME boundaries, ya know!
laugh
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Jul 20, 2010 4:27 AM CST Long distance lovers: Dating fears of having them live in your city.
Dagosto
DagostoDagostoKnoxville, Tennessee USA88 Threads 20 Polls 4,307 Posts
I've begun long-distance loving because my work schedule made it nigh impossible to ever meet anyone locally. But now that I have, it would sure be more convenient if she lived next door. So I'd have to go with Have No Fears.

wine 51
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