Can Distance Kill Love (103)

Apr 11, 2011 7:01 AM CST Can Distance Kill Love
PandoraX
PandoraXPandoraXApeldoorn, Gelderland Netherlands4 Threads 3,191 Posts
heavensmile: yes, if there is no trust and understanding. But distance also good treatment to test ur love, ur patience, ur loyality and ur trust. If u pass its, mean u r great.


Geographical distance makes is more difficult... emotional distance makes it almost impossible.

Geographical distance can be dealt with if you have:

trust
openness (not emotional distance)
communication
loyalty
patience
Apr 11, 2011 7:15 AM CST Can Distance Kill Love
rockandrollrn
rockandrollrnrockandrollrnharwood hts, Illinois USA4 Threads 2 Polls 79 Posts
PandoraX: Geographical distance makes is more difficult... emotional distance makes it almost impossible.

Geographical distance can be dealt with if you have:

trust
openness (not emotional distance)
communication
loyalty
patience


Great advice thumbs up ,,thanks ladies...also can i add...Financial situation too because LDR + No Money = No go...

My clients tell me ROMANCE WITHOUT FINANCE IS A NUISANCE...heart beating
Apr 11, 2011 7:19 AM CST Can Distance Kill Love
devon80
devon80devon80mytown, Kentucky USA705 Posts
chococherrie: yes he was in Africa, the dangerous parts..but even when he got home was too,i just wanted more, then maybe he cud give



I know what you went through. My ex was deployed the first time in 2001 and over the next 8 years was gone for 6 of those years.Anywhere from 12-15 months at a shot Everytime he came home he was different and so was I. Maybe I wasnt as understanding of what he went through and he wasnt either. We didnt know how to communicate as a couple. hug
Apr 11, 2011 7:45 AM CST Can Distance Kill Love
rockandrollrn: I still believe in Chat Global..Date Local... Any thoughts about this? I know it might be a boring topic but needed your opinion and thoughts about this...


professor anything can "kill" a relationship. distance, jelousy, infidelity, ....knives, guns etc.... rolling on the floor laughing

I don't know why there are two often used sayings?- out of sight out of mind and absence makes the heart grow fonder. So yes both.

I like the idea "chat globally! date..... Scottish men".grin
Apr 11, 2011 8:02 AM CST Can Distance Kill Love
rockandrollrn
rockandrollrnrockandrollrnharwood hts, Illinois USA4 Threads 2 Polls 79 Posts
JeanKimberley: anything can "kill" a relationship. distance, jelousy, infidelity, ....knives, guns etc....

I don't know why there are two often used sayings?- out of sight out of mind and absence makes the heart grow fonder. So yes both.

I like the idea "chat globally! date..... Scottish men".


Yes real scotsmen dont wear underwear underneath those quilt or mini skirts..laugh
Apr 11, 2011 4:19 PM CST Can Distance Kill Love
YesWho
YesWhoYesWhoWoodbury, New Jersey USA2 Threads 2,322 Posts
Hello Rockandrollrn. How are you today? wave
Apr 11, 2011 6:29 PM CST Can Distance Kill Love
kissmedeeply
kissmedeeplykissmedeeplyPetitcodiac, New Brunswick Canada70 Threads 15,139 Posts
Not for everyone...

Not for me..I met my husband here on cs..and he moved to canada and we have been married nearly 3 years...
Apr 11, 2011 6:30 PM CST Can Distance Kill Love
kissmedeeply
kissmedeeplykissmedeeplyPetitcodiac, New Brunswick Canada70 Threads 15,139 Posts
kissmedeeply: Not for everyone...

Not for me..I met my husband here on cs..and he moved to canada and we have been married nearly 3 years...


forgot to mention he lived in North carolina
Apr 11, 2011 6:50 PM CST Can Distance Kill Love
rockandrollrn
rockandrollrnrockandrollrnharwood hts, Illinois USA4 Threads 2 Polls 79 Posts
kissmedeeply: forgot to mention he lived in North carolina


Kissmedeeply....bouquet bouquet bouquet bouquet bouquet bouquet bouquet bouquet bouquet

@yes...yesterday was our first beautiful chi day....
Apr 11, 2011 6:53 PM CST Can Distance Kill Love
plainlyjune
plainlyjuneplainlyjuneLegazpi City, Bicol Philippines12 Threads 2 Polls 8,175 Posts
I think distance just kills hope. The love remains dunno
Apr 11, 2011 10:59 PM CST Can Distance Kill Love
YesWho
YesWhoYesWhoWoodbury, New Jersey USA2 Threads 2,322 Posts
rockandrollrn: Kissmedeeply....

@yes...yesterday was our first beautiful chi day....
Monday we had our first beautiful day in the Philadelphia area. Reached 84 today.
Apr 23, 2011 9:47 PM CST Can Distance Kill Love
lov8b
lov8blov8bcolumbia, Missouri USA2 Threads 1 Polls 38 Posts
i kept getting dates from africa instead of anywhere usa that they say they live in anytown usa but don't.
Apr 26, 2011 11:12 PM CST Can Distance Kill Love
doberman3
doberman3doberman3Clarksville, Tennessee USA25 Threads 1 Polls 1,838 Posts
yabbadabbadont: It did....and it does......



Gotta just forget....


I say distance can kill love and also kill it from happening.

Local for me now. Besides being thousand of miles apart, you don't know them until you met them. So until then you find about each other little by little. Like finding out they still have a thing for another and who wants to compete with that.

I got to know a English/German man, when he came to visit me.
Disaster.

Then another guy was coming to Virginia and we were going to meet but he was sent to Florida. He can stay there.

I just want something simple. Maybe meeting someone local in the area from CS, Facebook, or my Doberman Rescue Group.

At least if it's local, you can see them when you can. If they don't like you, life goes on.

The Dobe
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