heavensmile: yes, if there is no trust and understanding. But distance also good treatment to test ur love, ur patience, ur loyality and ur trust. If u pass its, mean u r great.
Geographical distance makes is more difficult... emotional distance makes it almost impossible.
Geographical distance can be dealt with if you have:
trust openness (not emotional distance) communication loyalty patience
chococherrie: yes he was in Africa, the dangerous parts..but even when he got home was too,i just wanted more, then maybe he cud give
I know what you went through. My ex was deployed the first time in 2001 and over the next 8 years was gone for 6 of those years.Anywhere from 12-15 months at a shot Everytime he came home he was different and so was I. Maybe I wasnt as understanding of what he went through and he wasnt either. We didnt know how to communicate as a couple.
rockandrollrn: I still believe in Chat Global..Date Local... Any thoughts about this? I know it might be a boring topic but needed your opinion and thoughts about this...
anything can "kill" a relationship. distance, jelousy, infidelity, ....knives, guns etc....
I don't know why there are two often used sayings?- out of sight out of mind and absence makes the heart grow fonder. So yes both.
I like the idea "chat globally! date..... Scottish men".
I say distance can kill love and also kill it from happening.
Local for me now. Besides being thousand of miles apart, you don't know them until you met them. So until then you find about each other little by little. Like finding out they still have a thing for another and who wants to compete with that.
I got to know a English/German man, when he came to visit me. Disaster.
Then another guy was coming to Virginia and we were going to meet but he was sent to Florida. He can stay there.
I just want something simple. Maybe meeting someone local in the area from CS, Facebook, or my Doberman Rescue Group.
At least if it's local, you can see them when you can. If they don't like you, life goes on.
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Geographical distance makes is more difficult... emotional distance makes it almost impossible.
Geographical distance can be dealt with if you have:
trust
openness (not emotional distance)
communication
loyalty
patience