I try to be level headed with this online thing...but sometimes you just can't stop emotions.
That being said, If I do fall for someone online...I do try and determine if they are genuine, and then of course my goal is to meet them and make it real.
Yes, even if it is an International relationship :)
Hey hand, you know...sometimes we find what we are looking for when we arn't looking.
I assume you are on the road, and it's very lonely. About the only attention you get it from the waitress at the truck stop (travel plaza) that if your lucky flirts with you for that big tip!
If you arn't over the road, then local drivers spend all day and into the night doing their job. most times there is only enuf time to eat, sleep, shower, then back to work.
May I suggest that you just network. Just go at this that it's a social thing. Getting a special Lady to take notice is a big time bonus!
Just one day at a time, and for now...don't set your expectations too high.
Have you noticed that many here have stated they are just here for the forum, or to blog? If that is the case, then there are many not even really looking for someone.
My advice is to take time, check in from time to time. post your blogs, comment on blogs, reply to comments etc.
It's called networking. If you just make some friends, then so be it. you never know if that "friend" has a friend who is looking :)
Just my 2 cents Sir.
Keep safe
P.S. I have been thinking about starting a truckers dating website. what do you think? I already have a free filipina dating site. it does ok, but not as well as I would like. Just running the idea past you.
@JALYSSABUTTERFLY It's true that many are dishonest in looking for a fling on this site. I know that many are on here for several different purposes.
As always, People SHOULD have the decency to be honest on their profile, and with the person they are communicating with as to what their status is, and what they are looking for.
That is what ruins it for many, and the walls get put up even higher to the point where nobody will believe the other anymore as a result of being lied too, or deceived.
People take the time to consider what the effect of your dishonesty will do to others. Have some intestinal fortitude to do the right thing!
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I agree. I don't like failures myself. I certainly don't feel like being like everyone else and act like sheep.When I am ready to make a change, then I do it. to me, it is not calender specific.