I agree with you on the chemistry being a must, yet I feel as a woman that even thou,I love the smell of a man wearing Jovana musk for Men,seeing Him fresh out of a shower fluffing his hair,and has a nice round butt,etc....And, can charm your sock,s off with there personality is a good start!Also, having some same likes and interest,s,yet,From experience it,s the ability to be able to sit and talk for long period,s of time at first cus,learn good at this is hard for men especially but, women to!we can be stuffer,s to much seriousness !It,s hard to tolerant!But, I believe for me this time a best friend is need first so it,s like building a house, first the foundation and motar must be laid be for the wall,s or it could slide,LOL!That,s only one woman,s opinion,LOL!!!!
I,ve used that saying myself,cus a good thing might get over looked if you don,t read between the lines or not!Are desires shouldn,t get in the way of what God may be putting in front as a rare chance!
Cus,when trust has been broken by mistaking your kindness for weakness it leaves you feeling used, so women put up a protective barrier , so in order for that barrier to come down she must know you like an open book !And,never leave her hanging in the communication dept. cus,that make,s her feel your words are made up!Just, till a great friendship is formed!
RE: hummm...
I was paying attention,that,s why I posted mine,rewritten mine and now it is cool...